starting a new crew called the think positive, be positive, PEE POSITIVE! 8:bfp: 's

[WendyJ]

I really hope you do get your BFP before then! How awesome would that be! Yeah I know that doctor was horrible! Hence why i've waited till now to go back. The good thing is the other doctor who is lovely is back from her maternity leave so really hoping I can see her. I think it would be lovely to have twins actually, there is twins in my husband's family so you never know! x

 

[Lea1984]

It would be cool, to wait 8 years, to get the all important appt and I'm Preg.. that would be a dream come true!!! Wow if a doc was that horrible to me id switch, and report him. Yeh she would understand more too, just having a baby herself. lay it on thick hun when you see her, pull at her heart strings lol.. my bro and sis are twins on my dads side, but fetility drugs you can have multiple births with them.. cnt wait..

 

[babygirl89]

my own doc doesn't know i am ttc as i am young i tried to tell her after my mc and she completely told me off so im scared to go to her bout it but gonna have to bite the bullet, but the hospital know i am trying, i had terrible trouble with the coil had to get it removed and just by chance the lady doctor who took it out is a infertility specialist ha so im still going to her as i get pain during sex and they think i might have endo, well i have an appoinment on the 15th march to get a smear and to check in with her so im gonna tell her all this and see what she say's she really doesn't wanna do anything until over a year but im hopeing she might inteveane sooner! just realised my lp is only 10 to 11 day's been taking 50mg of b6 but dunno if i can take anything else to help. and i dunno if i even defo ovulated this month as my opk wer not 100% positive they did get dark and then light but not 100% positive! oh and does anyone know can ur doctor prescribe clomid or fertility drugs or does it have to be a fertility specialist?? im just wondering as my doctor is a bit silly and she will prescribe anything haha i know thats not a good thing but i am just curious. and my OH said he gonna go to the doctor wednesday to see can he get an SA done!

wendyj i would go ur doctor and demand to see soeone soon and to be put on some sort of medication that will help you ovulate and have a period.

lea im so glad ur getting help, maybe u will get a bfp very soon, my aunt has pcos and she has 3 kids

 

[Lea1984]

Hey babygirl.. how old are you?

 

[babygirl89]

im 21 hun.... im young i know but i have a head on my shoulders ha!

 

[Lea1984]

babygirl, i'm not even sure how they work opk yet, i've just purchased a few and preg test and will start doing them with temp.. i'm gonna start temping tomoz morning.. soz you have had probs with the coil, i hope it wasn't anything serious..

No doctors cannot give you clomid, you have to see a FS for that as they need to monitor it.. even if your doc gives you it hunni, i wouldnt do it bcos you want it to be monitored closely and safely as there can be problems.. pls be careful, ur doc sounds dangerous how do you work out your LP?

I'm only 26 and have regular cycles, so the cyst and my bloods said pcos, the thing is i do ov i see that from my CM..

 

[Lea1984]

im 21 hun.... im young i know but i have a head on my shoulders ha!

Awe if your young at 21 ttc try ttc at 15, my doc laughed at me then.. i couldnt believe i did that.. but i wanted a so bad then, plus i lost my mum to cancer jan 2000, found out i was preg a few weeks later.. my son is now 10 years old.. you know when you are ready hun..

your an adult and they cannot act that way... i don't believe in that at all.. i believe being a mum at 16 i done a better job than half teh adults out there with kids.. my son was well looked after, loved, clean, smart, had the best of everything, in a really good routine.. who is anyone to judge young ppl...

 

[babygirl89]

what u do with the opk's is u start them around day 9 or ten of ur cycle, i do two a day one around 2pm and one around 6pm it is positive if it is the same as the control line or darker as ur coming up to ovulation u will notice that the test line is getting darker day by day, keep an eye on it as i don't seem to get really positive test's mine go quiet dark but not as dark as the control line. after u get a positive opk u will notice the next day or so after that ur opk's fade back to nearly no control line, that's a good indication that ur lh surge has risen and fallen an that u are ovulating, u will ovulate 12-36 hours after a positive opk, monitor ur cm while doing ur opk's. how long are ur cycles??

mine range from 26-28. i started af today so i am wondering i wanna start temping tomorow but it is more affective if u temp vaginally than orally but i have af what do i do?????

 

[Lea1984]

awe thanks babygirl/ awe your gonna have to tell me ur name lol... My cycles av of 28-29, i have had a cpl this year go 30, the i just had was 36... but over the last 12month my av is 29..

i would defo keep with oral hun... i did test today opk i thought i seen a line but im only cd6 so gona ignore it i just wanted to test it lol... i will try ang in a cpl of days, and keep temping... orally.. awe your in dubin, my mum was born in dublin...

 

[babygirl89]

im 21 hun.... im young i know but i have a head on my shoulders ha!

Awe if your young at 21 ttc try ttc at 15, my doc laughed at me then.. i couldnt believe i did that.. but i wanted a so bad then, plus i lost my mum to cancer jan 2000, found out i was preg a few weeks later.. my son is now 10 years old.. you know when you are ready hun..

your an adult and they cannot act that way... i don't believe in that at all.. i believe being a mum at 16 i done a better job than half teh adults out there with kids.. my son was well looked after, loved, clean, smart, had the best of everything, in a really good routine.. who is anyone to judge young ppl...

Thanx i don't feel so silly now,

awh had terrible trouble with the coil it got stuck and they couldn't remove it and then i got a pelvic infection and found out i had strep b, and now they think i could possibly have pid (pelvic inflammotary diese) or endometriosis they think it sounds more like endo, i get pain during sex an all it's horrible.

is there any chance my fs would put me on clomid or would that even help my situation?? sorry im just clutching at straws and trying to get any help as i am desperate maybe i don't need it but i would much rather have some help rather than go thru another 6 cycles with no luck and drive myself over the edge!

 

[WendyJ]

babygirl let me share something with you, my mother was 16 when she had my brother, she was 18 when she had me and she was 21 when she had my sister. You know what age my mother died at? She died at 29 years old of cancer. 29!! Don't let anyone tell you what age you should have child, my mother was a superb mum and if it wasn't for her having kids at the age she did I wouldn't be here x

 

[babygirl89]

awe thanks babygirl/ awe your gonna have to tell me ur name lol... My cycles av of 28-29, i have had a cpl this year go 30, the i just had was 36... but over the last 12month my av is 29..

i would defo keep with oral hun... i did test today opk i thought i seen a line but im only cd6 so gona ignore it i just wanted to test it lol... i will try ang in a cpl of days, and keep temping... orally.. awe your in dubin, my mum was born in dublin...

ok my advice to u is start using ur opk's at day 9 so in 3 day's start and do 2 if u have enough, i just get the cheap strips i get 30 of them each month ha, never do an opk with ur first wee of the morning, do one around 2ish and 6 ish don't do them after 8pm of before 10am, u will defo see a second line on opks BUT for an opk to be positive it has to be nearly as dark as the control line or darker but u will notice day by day they get darker and darker so keep them and date them i know that sounds odd but thats what i do! i was gonna temp orally but it is not as affective as vaginally (i know that disgusting) so i dunno, u have to have at least 5 hours sleep and sometimes i go to bed really late and i wanna temp the same time everyday morning, last month i started temping but stoped cos i started doing it at 7am (i would set an alarm) but some nights i went to bed mad late and if i temped at 7am i would of had no where near 5 hours sleep in me so should i maybe set an alarm for 9am??? is that too late?? and sometimes during the night i wake up to wee does this affect my temp???

 

[babygirl89]

babygirl let me share something with you, my mother was 16 when she had my brother, she was 18 when she had me and she was 21 when she had my sister. You know what age my mother died at? She died at 29 years old of cancer. 29!! Don't let anyone tell you what age you should have child, my mother was a superb mum and if it wasn't for her having kids at the age she did I wouldn't be here x

thanx so much hun, im so sorry to hear about ur mother! xxx

 

[babygirl89]

oh and my name is sophie i never introduced myself properly! xx

 

[Lea1984]

Dont feel silly.. if you was 15 then maybe lol.. i know what you mean about the coil, my aunties got stuck and broke inside her, how the hell that happened only god knows.. i'd bloody sue...
pelvic inflammotary disease/endometritis, if i'm correct is an infection in the vagina or cervix that has spread to the reproductive organs higher up. If you develop salpingitis, the lining of the fallopian tubes swells and the already narrow canals become even narrower. This means that fertilised eggs may not be able to move along them normally, increasing the risk of ectopic pregnancy and infertility.

If i was you hunni i would wait and get the all clear from them. as for Strep B
thats is a common type of the streptococcus bacterium which lives in the body without the carrier knowing. Approximately a third of men and women carry GBS in their intestines and a quarter of women carry it in their vagina. GBS is the UK’s most common cause of life threatening infections in newborn babies.... what are the docs saying about these hunni?

 

[Lea1984]

Wendy, i'm so sorry about your mum 29 is soooo young.. what cancer did she have? my mum died when i was 15, she died of leukaemia..Then i lost my nan, then my uncle... Now my aunt has it too.. all a cpl yrs apart..

 

[babygirl89]

Dont feel silly.. if you was 15 then maybe lol.. i know what you mean about the coil, my aunties got stuck and broke inside her, how the hell that happened only god knows.. i'd bloody sue...
pelvic inflammotary disease/endometritis, if i'm correct is an infection in the vagina or cervix that has spread to the reproductive organs higher up. If you develop salpingitis, the lining of the fallopian tubes swells and the already narrow canals become even narrower. This means that fertilised eggs may not be able to move along them normally, increasing the risk of ectopic pregnancy (a pregnancy that occurs outside of the womb) and infertility.

If i was you hunni i would wait and get the all clear from them. as for Strep B
thats is a common type of the streptococcus bacterium which lives in the body without the carrier knowing. Approximately a third of men and women carry GBS in their intestines and a quarter of women carry it in their vagina. GBS is the UK’s most common cause of life threatening infections in newborn babies.... what are the docs saying about these hunni?

endo is where when u have a period some of the blood goes backwards up thru ur fallopian tubes and can block ur tubes and can cause ur tubes to tangle ect and pid is where ur pelvis is infected but i dunno what happens, both can leave u infertile, i have never heard of salpingitis have to look that up hun. basicly they have no clue! they wanna do a dye test but the dye will not tell me if i have endo. the only time i don't have pain during sex is when i am ovulating and after ovulation for a while its mad! the strep b they gave me anti biotics for but they said it will come back, but strep b can cause endo, so i have heard but i dunno! im terrified i can't have kids, i know it's terrible but would love to go to a dco and pretend im trying longer so they take me serious i know that sounds silly but im just so down and i want answers and help, why can everyone else around my age get pregnant but me. my OH is going to his doc on wednesday should he just tell the doc bout whats going on and ask for an SA???

 

[WendyJ]

Thanks guys, she had rare form of lung cancer, I was only 10 when she died but she was the sweetest person ever. I have lost ten close relatives and close friends in the last few years. My Dad remarried and I had a wonderful stepmum for ten years who I loved dearly, she also died in June last year It's so hard losing one mum, losing two is so hard to even talk about but it's whats made my desire to have a child even stronger. My Dad has been through so much and I would love to give him a grandchild x

 

[WendyJ]

I'm so sorry about your Mum too Lea hun, we have so much in common x

 

[Lea1984]

awe thanks babygirl/ awe your gonna have to tell me ur name lol... My cycles av of 28-29, i have had a cpl this year go 30, the i just had was 36... but over the last 12month my av is 29..

i would defo keep with oral hun... i did test today opk i thought i seen a line but im only cd6 so gona ignore it i just wanted to test it lol... i will try ang in a cpl of days, and keep temping... orally.. awe your in dubin, my mum was born in dublin...

ok my advice to u is start using ur opk's at day 9 so in 3 day's start and do 2 if u have enough, i just get the cheap strips i get 30 of them each month ha, never do an opk with ur first wee of the morning, do one around 2ish and 6 ish don't do them after 8pm of before 10am, u will defo see a second line on opks BUT for an opk to be positive it has to be nearly as dark as the control line or darker but u will notice day by day they get darker and darker so keep them and date them i know that sounds odd but thats what i do! i was gonna temp orally but it is not as affective as vaginally (i know that disgusting) so i dunno, u have to have at least 5 hours sleep and sometimes i go to bed really late and i wanna temp the same time everyday morning, last month i started temping but stoped cos i started doing it at 7am (i would set an alarm) but some nights i went to bed mad late and if i temped at 7am i would of had no where near 5 hours sleep in me so should i maybe set an alarm for 9am??? is that too late?? and sometimes during the night i wake up to wee does this affect my temp???

Thanks Sophie.. i will give it a try.. as for the late nights I'm terrible for them, sometimes dont go bed till 3-4 am and get up at 8.. gonna have to get to bed a proper hours..

i'm not sure bout the temp thing waking in the night..