BM does this to OH sometimes too. Or her phone "cuts out" when really she just hangs up on him. He was supposed to go see SS today but his car engine blew up and shes not happy. Hes got to get to work 6am tomorow and luckily a work colleague is going to drive him til we get a new car 
Shes made excuses. Now is ignoring his calls and texts. Wont answer the door if we arrives to the house. Back to effing court! Lord help me but this little island is screwed up!!! If hubby stops paying maintenance he'll go to prison, but she can keep him from seeing his son even though its a court order and have no consequences. 
All because I put her on "restricted" on FB and hubby blocked her.... What a pathetic cow! 
He hasnt seen his son now since the 6th of this month!!!
I know the feeling believe me but I have a positive ... My OH is now my DH 
we're so happy, here this is a pic of us all - J, H, Me, DH, T, S (SSs are the ones in Kilts!! so smart 
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The lawyer reckons that because she's in contempt of court she'll be fined a monetary value and be made give us back the days that she's refused so far. Plus have the Judge grant us permission to bring SS to church with us (which she kicked up about yet when she has him on a Sunday she brings him to the pub??) and she can do nothing about it. Oh and tell her that if she refuses to allow us to see SS again that she'll go to prison. There are only 2 judges in our district. One is quite passive and will just give her a slap on the wrist, the other is totally crazy and unpredictable and HATES people wasting the courts time over petty issues like this. So we're praying its the crazy guy coz he'll certainly put her in her place. 
This woman is seriously 
We wouldnt let him touch LO all day cos he kept going to the bathroom and never washing his hands and his hands were soaked 
not from water
Its just getting so hard now. When I first met him I was 17 and hes was 6 and lovely. Hes usually shy around new people but took to me straight away (BM doesnt like it and has admitted she's jealous of him enjoying time with me) but now 3 years on hes so different. Hes gobby to everyone, swears and acts up. No one is allowed to tell him off and if they do he doesnt listen and then his mum gets angry because hes told off How is he going to learn to behave if hes never given rules or discipline? My instinct is to just take my baby away from all this childishness but I love OH and dont want to give in to her.
Everytime SS is here, He starts on OH then OH starts getting annoyed and shouts, then LO gets puleld around and hurt, OH starts shouting becasue of that and im caught in the middle til the visit is over
She tried to make me believe OH gets women pregnant and leaves them and hes planning the same to me (hes only been with her and me and she got pregnant 2 months in "by accident") Thats not worked so I think shes pissed hes moving on and having a life. Few weeks back she was depressed cos we had LO and she wants a baby
OH should be back soon....
I'm sorry honey. Hope things get worked out good for you guys, you get the judge that'll put her in her place.
) and paid £5 a week for a few months of her life (5yrs), last thing we heard was a letter a year ago from his solicitor saying we'd stopped turning up at the meet point for contact (lies) and ours sent one back saying this was not the case and reinstating contact wouldn't be in the best interests of the child.
Shes bought 23 puppies and 5 cats in the 3 yrs iv been here and each one has had to be sold as she wont walk them or pay for them. Doesnt she care her son will get attached to these pets and be sad when he comes home and their gone? Some people dont think before they make stupid decisions 
