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Stopped BCP & TTC! Whos with me?!

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Gagrl :hugs: Don't lose hope yet. Like Flueky said, you have time yet.
 
Gagarlin- when my mom got diagnosed with terminal cancer in August I wanted so so bad to get pregnant quick so I could tell her and I thought maybe she would live long enough to see her grandchild. It didn't happen though and I was disappointed because everything seemed to be going wrong for me. She passed away in October and then I got pregnant at the end of November. So, I think she sent the baby to me! And looking back it was perfect timing- I couldn't have taken care of her or spent time with her like I did if I was pregnant (the first trimester I was so sleepy and throwing up a lot). So, I think God had a plan and he has a plan for you too! I know it's hard now because it seems like everything is going wrong but it'll work out eventually I'm sure!
 
Ajangel25 said:
Gagarlin- when my mom got diagnosed with terminal cancer in August I wanted so so bad to get pregnant quick so I could tell her and I thought maybe she would live long enough to see her grandchild. It didn't happen though and I was disappointed because everything seemed to be going wrong for me. She passed away in October and then I got pregnant at the end of November. So, I think she sent the baby to me! And looking back it was perfect timing- I couldn't have taken care of her or spent time with her like I did if I was pregnant (the first trimester I was so sleepy and throwing up a lot). So, I think God had a plan and he has a plan for you too! I know it's hard now because it seems like everything is going wrong but it'll work out eventually I'm sure!
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Thanks Aj... That really means a lot to me! It so hurts that I wasn't pregnant in time to tell his dad.. I really think he would have been a great grandpa..
 
Gag- I know the feeling it still makes me so sad about my mom because she wanted to be a grandma and would have been an amazing one. It's tough and I don't know if I'll ever fully get over that sadness but I guess there's a plan that me and you don't know yet as to why they were taken so soon!
 
Ajangel25 said:
Gag- I know the feeling it still makes me so sad about my mom because she wanted to be a grandma and would have been an amazing one. It's tough and I don't know if I'll ever fully get over that sadness but I guess there's a plan that me and you don't know yet as to why they were taken so soon!
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Ain't that the truth..
 
My 17dpo betas came back. I went from 167 on Monday to 541 on Wednesday :) one more blood draw Friday.
 
Gagrlinpitt Oh I feel ya on that.

Afm huge temp jump. I'm unsure if it's alcohol induced or progesterone induced. My opk was negative this a.m but I will test again this afternoon.
 
Flueky88 said:
Gagrlinpitt Oh I feel ya on that.

Afm huge temp jump. I'm unsure if it's alcohol induced or progesterone induced. My opk was negative this a.m but I will test again this afternoon.
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Check out that spike!!!
 
I know, I kind of hope it's real and kind of not (because of timing of BD). Oh well. Hope you are feeling better.
 
Flueky88 said:
I know, I kind of hope it's real and kind of not (because of timing of BD). Oh well. Hope you are feeling better.
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Thanks! I'm much better today, very emotional yesterday. I'm ready to get on to this next cycle and knock it out of the water.
 
My graduate thesis presentation is in about 3 weeks, and I'm so far behind. :( The progesterone has made me so fuzzy headed for the last week that I haven't been able to do hardly any work on my paper and before that I was sick. Of all the months, it would be my last month of my program.

DH's mom and brothers are coming to visit this weekend. I think DH decided to tell her this weekend. I'm leaving that decision up to him since my mom and sister already know. It's still too early but I am really kind of "meh" - at this point I've told so many people (like my boss and my "team" - the other math teachers) out of necessity that we might as well tell his mom. The extended family doesn't know and that won't happen until my 8-9 weeks can.


Flueky - :happydance: Woohoo!! Get that egg!!

Gagrl - :hugs: Emotional is normal, take the time to process and grieve as you need to. Hope that you are able to return to a sort of "normal" soon, but I understand how hard of a time this is. My DH's grandparents both passed away within the last year and he was raised by his grandparents so those were essentially my in-laws. It was a really rough time for us. :hugs:
 
:hugs: thanks Angel!

Opks and ic's should be here Monday so hopefully that will help next cycle. That will be our third official cycle.
 
Gag: Even if no BFP this month, I agee that it is amazing that your cycle has regulated so quickly after Mirena. You’ll get your BFP soon! Hopefully you are hanging in there. :hugs:

Angel: Glad to hear your numbers are looking good! And hopefully you can get caught up on your grad presentation. I just started another course for a master’s program in reading after taking a year off and am already feeling the stress. It’s so hard to work and be in school! And I don’t even have the pregnancy brain to blame! :wacko:

Flueky: Yay for a positive OPK and holy temp spike!

I am STILL waiting on O. Day was my 5th blinking smiley and I'm on CD 30. Definitely feeling a bit apprehensive and not sure what to think... if this is going to be another anovulatory cycle I'd rather it just be over soon!
 
faye1019 said:
Gag: Even if no BFP this month, I agee that it is amazing that your cycle has regulated so quickly after Mirena. You’ll get your BFP soon! Hopefully you are hanging in there. :hugs:

Angel: Glad to hear your numbers are looking good! And hopefully you can get caught up on your grad presentation. I just started another course for a master’s program in reading after taking a year off and am already feeling the stress. It’s so hard to work and be in school! And I don’t even have the pregnancy brain to blame! :wacko:

Flueky: Yay for a positive OPK and holy temp spike!

I am STILL waiting on O. Day was my 5th blinking smiley and I'm on CD 30. Definitely feeling a bit apprehensive and not sure what to think... if this is going to be another anovulatory cycle I'd rather it just be over soon!
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Thanks Faye, and I totally agree.. After 8 years, I am impressed with how quickly my body has bounced back from the devil thing.. I know my bfp will come soon, but it's hard when 13 people you know are pregnant and then I find out that my brother in law who is not married not in a relationship has a baby boy due September 1. I really try not to be jealous and spiteful because I know God has a plan, but it's not always easy.
 
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