Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

[Bluefairy1]

Definitely with you there ms elizabeth. Since coming off bcp i have found my sex drive has resurfaced and still loving the fact is feels so naughty dtd off bcp! Think the novelty has already worn off for my poor worn out dh.

According to opks I possibly o'd yesterday. I had total insomnia last night but only had a tiny temp rise this morning so not enough to confirm o though. Woke up with very sore nipples which is a new one for me.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Ugh, hating these doted cross hairs. Want them to go away! Opk still are negative, unless I missed it. I'm open....but always ewcm or wet sooooo....can't go by cm. grumpy!

 

[MrsHudson]

MsElizabeth I think that's the issue. I'm over analyzing it all when all I need to really do is have sex lol. I hate it because I typically really enjoy DTD and I always fear being that boring wife that just wants it to be over. We'll see how it goes in the next few days. I feel like I need a glass of wine before hand.

And I'm with you on CM, it all seems the same to me. I'll be curious to check when FF says I'm O and see if it's any different.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

I'm hoping tomorrow's temp makes my crosshairs solid. Not sure what else is up.

Yeah...i apparently am never dry...sort of makes that harder....am not, sure whats high/low. I know today i couldn't reach so I'm going with high. Lol

Any of this will make you over think! We must enjoy!! Remind ourselves to enjoy

 

[DannaD]

Ms Elizabeth, if you take away your last 2 days of ewcm, does it make the crosshairs solid?

With the last 2 temps I'm now sure I didn't O, so I grabbed some vitex and evening primerose oil... Worrying about it all the time is not good for my health, something got to happen soon! XP

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Danna....no it didn't. This mornings temp moved my o day. But still dotted....but it has be a O on day 10....when last month was day 14. Still....opk are negative

 

[twinkie2]

MsElizabeth, if you put "high" on your cp for days 9,10 and 11 does that make is solid. I don't have any doubt that your o day is correct though, so I wouldn't let you worry too much.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

I changed them. ...still dotted....even took out low/high. ..dotted....maybe it's my opk? Clearly negative.

Perhaps side effect of bcp? Is it normal to O that early than the previous month?

 

[twinkie2]

Hmmm, well I'm stumped, it's got to be the opk. Just keep temping in case you have another round of increases and ewcm, but some ladies do O that early once in awhile.

 

[twinkie2]

Oh also! Ladies, I updated wantabeans twin status and realized I haven't updated any of our ttc'er statuses. Anyone that wants me to add them to the list please write out what BCP you were on, how long and when you quit. Sorry for getting so behind on that!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Thanks. Gonna keep doing temp and opk....and bd. I can get cm....but maybe I'll stop position.

Yesterday it had me O with bd being perfect. Today it's a day later, and we are only "good" for bd timing. Maybe tomorrow's temp will change it again.


TrYing to get it right. ..by doin cm and position. ..but it's a guess. Maybe that's messing it up.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Twinkie......

20 years on Orthocyclen (generic). Stopped 09/08/2014. TTC#1

 

[MrsHudson]

DH is very excited to DTD this week after I told him that in theory I should be O tomorrow. But with this being the first cycle, that could not be accurate. We'll see. I used to get O pains before the no period BCP.

So after being on here awhile and reading some of the stories, I realized DH and I had a chemical pregnancy a few years ago. I had missed my pill for about five days and we were on vacay so DTD a lot and I had all the symptoms so I took a HPT. It came back with one line and a very faint second line. Now that I know better I realize that was a BFP and a week later I had a really bad AF. Not sure how I feel about that.....

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Hello ladies! Thank you for all of your well wishes and prayers♡ I'm sitting at the airport. Funeral is Friday. I'll be O this weekend and I'll be 2000 miles away from my DH. I'm really disappointed. We BD last night since I had a visible line on the opk but def not positive. But I wouldn't miss my great grandmother funeral for anything so I guess its a sacrifice I'm willing to make. I won't be back until Monday and I have my blood test then to confirm O.

Mrs Hudson I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I know it can be confusing when you didn't realize that it was one at the time. Keeping you in my thoughts.

Turtle ***hugs*** I hope you're holding there ♡♡♡ so strange we are both dealing with loss at the same time.

How is everyone else doing?

 

[MrsHudson]

Charlie again, I'm sorry for your loss. And thank you. The positive is I feel less crazy because I was absolutely certain I was pregnant but it wasn't the right time in our relationship so maybe it was for the best. But I worry that'll happen again.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Mrshudson....sending hugs your way!

Charlie. ..travel safe!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Finally!!!!

My wondfo is as dark as the control!!! Cept....my temps already started to go up few days ago. I think FF is confused.

Now....how long do I have to bd? Oh honey....lol....come to bed!!

 

[cdex67]

Yay ms elizabeth! Ov is usually within 48 hours of your first positive opk. Unless your me...and get positive opks 3 or 4 times before ovulating. You can see that on my charts.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Cdex....lol, I'll let you know tomorrow if i get more than one.

Hmm....48 hours.....I'll try for tonight!

 

[DannaD]

Hey ladies, question.
In the last 4 days I had ewcm, today it really was picture perfect. But I noticed a tiny bit of blood in it, just once earlier today. What could it means?