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Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

Thank you Charmed, it's good to hear it wasn't as bad as it sounds, it's all I have been thinking about it the last days. Might I ask why you had to have this done?

I was having bladder problems a few years ago, that my GP couldn't find a reason for. I think they just wanted to rule out anything too serious. In the end, the problems were linked to my ibs! So simple!! I couldn't stop thinking about it, kept googling it & that didn't help at all :( I was so nervous that I almost fainted while waiting! Once it was underway though, it was much easier to relax. The Drs were lovely and would pause if I needed a second, but really it was over so quickly. It was uncomfortable, and there was a pinching sensation, but I wouldn't say it was particularly painful. Nowhere near as bad as I had expected! xxx
 
Thank you Wtbam, I don't even know what that is, I'll do some research :)
Congrats on your probably big bump now!
 
MsE-I appreciate the explanation and I have to agree with Turtle, it sounds just like a misunderstanding. I don't want you to step back. This thread is for everyone to support one another. Please don't feel put off. I think some were just concerned as ttc for several months can be so nerve wracking and it can be hard to not get offended by things in such a sensitive time. I am still hoping the best for you, just like I am for everyone else here. Obviously, I want all to get their bfps, and it is so unfortunate that we have ladies that are so wonderful and deserving (you know who you are! <3) but can't seem to find answers. It's a struggle, but let's all try to continue the great support we've given one another so far!

:dust: ladies!
 
DannaD, i was in the same position as you so i know exactly how you feel. I had a nearly 200 day cycle of nothing after coming off bc (dianette) and i literally tried every thing. The thing that finally popped an egg out was going on the gi diet (it took 3 weeks fromstrarting the diet to ovulation!) and i am now 33 weeks pregnant.Some of the old timers on here will remember my story. If you want to chat let me know xx

And you didn't take clomid right?!?!

Haha sorry but I was just explaining your situation to them all a few pages back...lol

Congrats cdex and msE!
MsE I can understand why you were a bit in denial. I think it's just natural...I wanted my bfp bad! But seriously when it happens there is still doubt in your mind if you are ready. :)
 
MsE, thanks for the explanation.... I guess I feel a little protective over some of the ladies on here as I have been involved in their respective journeys :kiss:

Yeah, sorry I posted that last post about what happened to me was on my phone and a bit jumbled.

Anyway, to make things short:

I have PCOS (confirmed by a hormone imbalance on blood tests before TTC and during TTC).

I came off Dianette (which I later found was one of the WORST pills to try to TTC after due to it's action of suppressing hormones and effectively switching off the body) at the beginning of December 2013 and for four months nothing happened.

I literally went from "oh, we are just going to see what happens" to obsessively checking my CM, CP and OPK sometimes more than three or four times per day. I literally was praying for something to happen, ANYTHING!

On a side note (this is important), I was about 13lbs heavier than I was before I was on the pill, when I had "regular" periods (but was charting so not 100% I was ovulating).

I tried Agnus Castus (vitex), I went on Metformin at a biiiig dose, I tried Rasperry Leaf Tea, I tried Inositol (sorry that might not be spelled right). I considered going back on a different contraceptive pill to kick start my body but couldn't face that, given how desperate I was for my BFP.

Anyway, someone suggested I try the GI diet. Basically, the theory is (I won't go into it too much as it's extensive but can if you need me too), I wasn't ovulating because of my hormone imbalance (confirmed by blood tests). Basically, I had a constantly high level of LH in my body (as confirmed by constant weak lines on OPK's, therefore preventing the correct "Surging action". The theory of the GI diet is that it reduces the LH in your body, allowing the surge to happen.

Anyway, I went on the GI diet. It wasn't easy, in fact, it was HELL, but not even two weeks after I had started (and subsequently lost around 8lbs - this may or may not be relevant), I had a blazing OPK and I assumed I was due to ovulate. However, I did not have a temp rise for 2 days. I was so disappointed I went to the dr and demanded a course of progesterone to bring on AF, which she prescribed me. Funnily enough, as soon as I started taking it, I got a temp rise, which I assumed was related to the progesterone.

Fast forward 10 days or so, and I got the funny feeling I should test before stopping the progesterone cold turkey. BAM - pregnant. Never have I been so shocked in my life!

Anyway, after all of that (wasn't so short after all, sorry!) the point is, I 100% believe that the GI caused the ovulation and I was lucky enough to catch it.
 
That's it it was metformin and vitex not chlomid :) did you get the vitex from the dr or can you just buy it online?
 
No I bought the Vitex online.... I checked out loads of reviews first because there are issues with dosage in the UK (the dosage allowed to be sold in stores does absolutely nothing therefore I purchased it on the internet, at the recommended dosage by research)

You can also buy metformin online but I WOULD NOT recommend that - that should come from a doctor as it is an actual medicine rather than a herbal remedy.
 
Aw, wtbam, I've had a similar experience. I have pcos, diagnosed with a blood test. When I came off the pills a few years back, I wasn't ovulating at all. The Drs told me to lose some weight, but I struggled at the time so I went back on the pill. This time, I've lost around 20lbs & my body is ovulating as normal :) I'd love to have my hormones retested, but I don't think my Drs would indulge me! I tried the GI diet, but found it too restrictive. I follow weight watchers now & the weight is slowly coming off.

AFM - my temp seems to have recovered nicely after yesterday's dip. So odd that I got a dip at 5dpo last month too! My temps are higher than last month, does that mean I could have produced more progesterone? I hope so! I've been feeling really off today, a bit dizzy on my walks. Can progesterone do that? I might have a nap in a bit!
 
Hey ladies! Seems like a lot went on since I last logged in. Congrats to the BFP's! I honestly didn't read through all the posts, so sorry....

DannaD, when I last had my annual and we talked TTC, she said to come back if I didn't get AF in two months. Is that an option for you?

I have been feeling like crap, hence why I haven't been on here. Sore boobs and utterly exhausted. I don't have my hopes up too much because DH would need to have super sperm for it to be possible but everyone thinks I'm pregnant. We'll see.
 
To be fair, I didn't use the GI diet to lose weight, that was just a nice side effect! My only goal was to see a change in my cycle and ovulate.... hence my dedication to it.... it was horrifically restrictive though!
 
That's very interesting wtbam! I also always have lines on my opks but thought it was relatively normal? Is the diet sure to make you loose weight? Because I can't afford that with a 19 ish BMI. I am willing to try almost anything now, and I know it hasn't been that long, but I have this gut feeling that it won't resolve itself for a long while

@mrsHudson, for me it's 6 months. My doctor just believes it will come back before then..
 
Well, I am not sure about the losing weight part if you have a low BMI. Basically, the diet is based on choosing foods with a low GI index (the slower your body is able to process the sugar in the food, the lower the GI) - and the less quick release sugar you have in your body (quick release sugar is linked to excess insulin, which affects the hormones controlling ovulation).

However, I am sure you could choose foods which are low GI but still give you the calories you need to maintain your weight? It may be worth chatting to a nutritionist though.
 
I'd be looking for natural ways to help if your Dr is being that mean, 6months is just absolutely disgusting !

Sigh, the "specialist" was meant to call me today so I could go through the long list of things that are going to shit thanks to TTC plus the timing of the surgery next month, buuuut she didn't ! Grrrrr
 
Argh, b&b just lost my post. Hmph.

Patience - I hate when people don't call when they say they will! How frustrating. Hopefully she calls tomorrow!

Hmm, I'm still feeling rubbishy. My tum hurts & I feel sick & tired. Yuck. Tried to have a nap, but I couldn't doze off. Looking forward to putting dinner on in a sec, lovely, warm chilli! :D
 
Ah I don't think she is being mean, 6 months is kind of nothing in the big scheme of things... But that's when you are not the one TTCing and obsessing :'/
 
Yeah so true Danna. I just want it to happen for you!!!! I hope the dong quai works for you like it did me. I'm glad you got some.

Ok seriously? I am so tired it's ridiculous. I just got to make it 3 more hours and then will go home and take a nap.
 
Oh my, gone for a bit and another BFP! Congrats MsE, I'm happy for you! :dance:

Danna I had a cystocopy done also. The actual procedure for me wasn't bad but for me it hurt a lot after when I tried to pee. I was experiencing UTI-like pain for a while (hence the cystocopy) so I think that was why it hurt so much. They tell you it may feel uncomfortable to pee after but everything shouldn't hurt like it did with me! I do hope things turn out okay for you. :hugs:

Have to run here! Sneaking some time while DH is in the shower, hehe. I'm down in the US now for a little visit. I'm actually excited since a cousin I haven't seen in years is trying to arrange a visit to see us, too. Happy times! :)

Big hugs to all. <3 :hugs:
 
Lavende I hope you have a great visit :)

Quick update on me: things are starting to sink in a little. Boobs are getting fuller and more sore. I have cold like symptoms this evening and a little headache. I can't believe Im still only 11dpo. I made my first appointment for November 25th. I'll be almost 8 weeks then. I had an appt scheduled for my annual physical on the 11th and decided to keep that as well. That's with my primary not an OB but I love her and just want to talk to her :) also, my tests are starting to get darker. I know I should stop but I just love seeing those lines.

I have thought about you ladies a lot today, especially the ones still looking for answers or a bfp and I just can't imagine what you're going through, especially seeing me at cycle 3...I truly have so much compassion for you ladies and I will continue to follow your journeys every day &#9825;&#9825;
 

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