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Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

MrsH, that's so exciting! And I am so pleased you managed to find a medicine for the parasite that wouldn't cause any issues. Drs can be so frustrating at times, I've seen mine Google the odd condition before :haha: FX that's sorted for you now though! Did they give any indication of how long it will take to be fully clear?

Thank you everyone for your kind words and thoughts, it means the world to me! AF didn't show yesterday, although I did have a little more spotting in the evening.. it was literally like strings of red blood in my cm. I've been getting some cramps throughout the night too. I've had next to no sleep.. DH woke me up at 1.30am when he came to bed & I've not really slept since. I don't know if I'll feel up to work today :( Maybe the rest will do me some good! The spotting last night was after I'd done the cleaning at work.. might be a coincidence, but I just don't know. My temp is up again this morning, I'm not putting too much stock into it though, considering the amount of sleep I've had. The odd thing is, normally when I'm restless, my temp is lower, not higher! I've been giving our little bean pep talks, telling him to hang on in there!

I hope everyone else is ok xxx
 
Hopefully this is just spotting and cramping from early pregnancy! I'd say that higher temp would be a good sign. :) I really hope things settle down for you, I can only imagine how confusing and scary it is.

I'm really glad you got the medication worked out MrsH! That's got to be a weight off your shoulders. :)
 
AF this afternoon :( Maybe the high temp was just cos I'm not feeling well. I'm at home, called in sick to work cos I didn't sleep enough & feel pants.. Glad I did now!

I really hope everyone else is ok. MrsH, wishing you a fabulously healthy & happy 9mths <3 I'm sad we won't be on this journey together xx
 
Oh no charmed! Sending you the biggest of virtual hugs today! I am so very sorry you have to go through this, I wouldn't wish a mc/cp on my worst enemy. And don't give up on being with MrsH, you just might be a cycle behind. I got bfps on the 2nd cycle after both mc's. I've read that you are more fertile for the first few cycles afterwards (not sure how scientific that is) but sometimes we all need a little hope to keep us going. Try and get some rest now if you can, thinking of you, we're here if you need us!
 
AF this afternoon :( Maybe the high temp was just cos I'm not feeling well. I'm at home, called in sick to work cos I didn't sleep enough & feel pants.. Glad I did now!

I really hope everyone else is ok. MrsH, wishing you a fabulously healthy & happy 9mths <3 I'm sad we won't be on this journey together xx

Charmed I'm so sorry :hugs:. Like twink just said, maybe you're just a cycle behind. Get some rest and do something to make you happy today. :hugs:
 
I'm so sorry Charmed!! :-( &#128557; keeping you in my thoughts &#128156;&#128154;&#128151;
 
Charmed, I'm so very sorry!!! I'm sending the biggest :hug: your way that I can manage over the computer! I really hope you get your sticky bean this next cycle. :hugs:

MrsH, I'm so glad to hear you were able to get the medication worked out! That must be such a relief!!! :)
 
Oh Charmed I'm so so sorry. :hugs: Take care and rest, treat yourself to whatever you need. We're here if you need us!
 
Hugs charmed &#9825;&#9825;&#9825; so sorry you have to go through that. Thinking of you.
 
Danna, how have you been? Haven't heard from you in awhile, I hope everything is okay! :hugs:
 
I just had to catch up on this thread! Charmed, when I read that you added a ticker to your siggy then saw no ticker and the most recent update my heart sank :sad2: I am so sorry that you are going through this. I was so upset yesterday that my man skipped out on dtd a day after my first + OPK then feel silly for being so upset over something so trivial like that when I see ladies on here coping with situations similar to yours :hugs:

MrsH I'm glad to read you got some meds that are working and that you are feeling better! Hoping I can join the ride with all of these ladies that have gotten :bfp: recently. I got another + OPK yesterday (along with my first on Monday) and am thinking I O'd yesterday or possibly today. Going to take another on my lunch break soon and hoping to BD one last time :thumbup:
 
Mamabunny I hope you can join soon too. I need you ladies!

I was wondering about Dana the other day too. I hope everything is ok.

I hope you all are doing alright today. Especially Charmed.
 
Oh girls, thank you for thinking about me.

Charmed, I'm very very sorry about your loss. I hope you're resting and hopefully next cycle will be the one. I can't imagine how sad you must be right now, but there's happy times comming for you soon xxx

Congrats to you MrsH, I hope you'll have a happy and healthy 9 months! You're one one of the first person I've met here, it's very exciting to know you got your BFP so fast :)

Afm, I stopped posting on here a while ago because frankly it's too hard to see you all go through the ups and down of cycles while I'm just sitting here waiting for anything to happen.

As you can guess, nothing to report still, I stopped charting and all, it's making me sad and angry. Of course doing nothing also makes me sad and angry so I can't win, haha.

The fact that my sister in law that I very much dislike is looking very pregnany right now, and that I'll see her a lot during the holidays, isn't helping my mood either.

I come here and read a bit every 3-5 days still, can't help it, I do wish you all BFPs afterall :)

Baby dust to everyone! I'll probably come back to this thread if/when things start to work properly for me again. I should have an appointment about this beginning of February, but I'm not really hoping for much answers right away.
 
Thank you all for your lovely messages, it means a lot to me <3 It still hurts, I guess it didn't really even sink in that I was pregnant until it was too late. I started crying on the bus on my way into work, just remembering how excited DH was when I told him & then how upset he was when I told him the baby was gone. I think if I test early again in the future, I won't tell him until AF is due, just to save his feelings. The last couple of days have been brutal, very bad cramps & mixed with some early pregnancy symptoms, nausea, sore boobs etc. It's been pretty hellish really. I needed to take a few days away from here, just to let it sink in & not to take away from MrsH.

Oh, Danna, I really feel for you :( I remember going through the same thing the first time I came off the pill to TTC a few years back. Waiting for AF was just awful & I remember being jealous of the women who were getting theirs every month! Hang in there <3 Have you had any tests done to see why you're not having any periods yet? I really hope you can get to the bottom of it soon!

I hope everyone else is ok! Let's see some more BFPs in here soon, ladies! <3 xxx
 
Danna I can kinda relate to your feelings. Months prior after I came off the pill my period actually came back quickly so I just knew we would conceive right away, since my other two happened immediately off BC. We really started TTC in June and my first + OPK was July 4th I believe. I was so excited! Took a test and what was a :bfp: - or so I thought - was actually a :bfn:. We had spent an entire day all giddy and loving over the news. I checked the box and realized I read the test wrong :cry: Absolutely crushed. Then another month goes by. And another. And another. All the while there's people around me pregnant, getting pregnant, having baby showers, giving birth. Ladies on BnB describing their symptoms and posting photos of their tests. A girl I know that had tubal implants in actually wound up pregnant. Seriously? My ex husband and his gf ended up with a "surprise" at the beginning of the year and had their baby in October so I got to see her all pregnant and get to see their son every time I pick up my daughter which just makes my ovaries tingle :thumbup: After a few cycles of that crap I had to just stop everything and take a break. Even though I was getting a period each time, assuming a period meant I'd get pregnant yet knowing nothing was happening for me and seeing everyone else was all too much and I was really down in the dumps. But not doing anything made me down in the dumps too. Ugh. I'm on cycle 7 now and hopeful all over again. I'm just so determined. Determined to figure this out. I'm gonna get my :bfp: dammit! :brat: Sending you :hugs: Danna and I hope things smooth out for you!
 
Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your stories ladies, it does makes me feel better to know some people do understand what I'm feeling.

W2bamom, I was on Alesse, which is a very low dose BC, but obviously that didn't help.

No I haven't been checked yet. My doctor is adamant on waiting for 6 months off BC, which will be in February. I did get my thyroid checked through blood test for something else, and it was fine, so that's a test I won't have to do. I'm kind of wondering what she'll do actually... If she tells me there's nothing wrong and to keep waiting, I'll go private.

Oh and to make matters worse, I'm at my second fake positive (evap) line on pregnancy test stick in 1 month. Yesterday I tested just to be sure I could drink tonight (xMas party) and there it was, and white as snow this morning. I swear if I ever trust a pregnancy test it will have to be dark and bright pink, I can't deal with that dissapointment again and again.
 

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