Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

[CrazyCharlie2]

Yay! That's so exciting!!! You better let us know!!!!

 

[patienceiav]

Wow! I knew I should have started those OPK's sooner! Just got a thundering +opk today, cd13! Talk about text book huh, I wonder if i should try for bd today and risk tomorrow being too late or assume I won't ov bang on cd13 and try tomorrow? I'm totally stunned after last month!

 

[DannaD]

I think you should BD today Patience, I read that most pregnancies that goes to term were conceived the day before O

FF decided to give me crosshairs, the first time in forever, but I sooo don't trust it. Unless my temps go way up and AF arrives around day 14 I won't trust it...

 

[Charmed86]

I say today too, Patience! How exciting that you just caught it with your opk!

That's so exciting too, Danna! I really hope it's true for you xx

Afm: we passed our home visit and picking Cookie up in about half an hour! I'm so ridiculously excited to bring her home!

 

[patienceiav]

Oh wow Danna look at that! I do hope that's real but I'd keep checking your cm since that will give you an accurate idea what's going on that would be so good if it was though!

I got pounced now so that's that decided we'll see what my temps do cuz there's not enough prior data for ff to go off since I wasn't expecting ov so soon, will wait for crosshairs before starting the cream this month I think! I'm just stunned I got a +opk a whole week earlier than last month, hopefully that's a good thing!

 

[Charmed86]

Maybe being ill threw you off a little? I'm so happy for you! It's so nice when they pounce, I hate trying so hard & feeling like I'm being so pushy all the time for BD. FX for you xx

 

[DannaD]

That the thing with CM, when I BD the stuff is inside me for at least the whole next day, I can't differenciate between my CM and semen

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Yes patience! Get your but in bed and make a baby! 😀

Danna, I can never tell either!

AFM: I caved and took a HPT this morning... BFN!! I'm a sad panda

 

[patienceiav]

I do think it affected my temps a little, I didn't bother taking it this morning cuz I woke up later and just honestly wasn't expecting a +opk now !

Well we're covered nicely at least, I reckon he's been so starved due to AF then me getting sick that I can get another sesh in if it turns out I don't ov today or tomorrow

Danna I know that feeling, I don't bother checking cm the day after BD, just wait for the next morning

Aww Charlie i'm sorry hopefully it's just too soon ! x

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

I think I'm giving up. I'm so over this heartbreak every freaking month. I can't handle it. And I'm spiraling into depression and AF isn't even due until this coming week. Blarg. I hate this. Sorry Debbie downer over here

 

[patienceiav]

I know exactly what you mean it's so painful living life counting down to ov then counting down to AF, only to get your hopes up each time and have them crushed ! huuuge coming your way if AF turns up this month can you shout at your Dr a bit and demand they do something more proactive than just forcing you to Ov ?

 

[DannaD]

Yeah this whole TTC pretty much sucks so far.... big hugs to all of us.
Charlie wasn't it early to test though?

I just want it to be tomorrow so I can temp, but then... I also don't want to have my tiny hope crushed, sigh.

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Thanks ladies, I had a cry while I vacuumed lol. Lots of hugs to all of us.

Danna, yes it's early to test, but I tortured myself with it anyway and it still made me sad. I won't be testing again until AF doesn't show up. Not to mention I'm a ball is emotion all the time lol.

I hope you get good results tomorrow on your temp Danna!

Patience, if I don't get knocked up after 3 months of Fermara then we go to Insemination. Which is so un- romantic

 

[patienceiav]

Awe I cry a lot in the 2ww too ! By insemination, do they mean IUI ? Brr, if so, brrr ! A bnb friend is doing that now, she has to inject herself daily for about a week then go in and get an u/s, decide a date to trigger then her hubby has to "supply" his, rush it to the clinic and pop it in there ! I really hope that's not my next option, my dr never told me what we'd try after the 3 months.

 

[kariss]

Thanks for the advice, I have been thinking of going to the drs think I just needed someone else to agree..didn't want them to think I was over reacting!

When temping do you have to do it at the same time every day? I work Werid shifts (nights then days) so this would be tough?

Thanks ladies x

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Yes patience IUI, I couldn't remember the initials lol.

 

[Turtle0630]

Awww, to all of you ladies! TTC is so much harder and more emotional and stressful than I ever imagined it would be. There's been so many times that I've wanted to give up already, and I haven't even been at it nearly as long as some people have been. I don't know if I'll be able to hold out that long if it doesn't happen, I really don't. I'm just trying to take it one cycle at a time, that's all I can do to not get as discouraged. I really, REALLY hope that we ALL get our bfp's soon and can move on from this TTC hell! So huge, huge out to all of you, I love ya guys!

I hope everyone has had a nice weekend so far! Anyone do anything fun?

Charmed, that's great news on your new little fur baby, huge congrats!!!

Patience yay for bd'ing with perfect timing!!! FX so tightly for you!

 

[patienceiav]

We will all get our stickies one day until then we're always here for eachother there's a saying in swedish that roughly translates to "those who wait for something, never wait too long" which is true when that day comes we'll look back at this nightmare and think it wasn't so long after all, and every heartache was worth it for the mini life inside of us as the reward

I am very hopeful for ov today, i'm begging my temp is an obvious rise tomorrow or else i'll be umming and ahh'ing about it again ! If I get one temp at 36.6 tomorrow i'll be happy to start the progesterone tomorrow night and this 2ww I will just ignore it all, i'm going to gym as usual, eat and drink as usual and only avoid hot yoga classes and (try to) avoid orgasms i've noticed when i have one during IB time it feels insanely uncomfortable and that one nagging feeling that rumor has it can affect implantation because of contracting the uterus, hmm !

 

[DannaD]

Morning ladies! Hope everyine is having a fun weekend

I was so stressed about temping this morning that I completly messed it up, woke up 40 minutes earlier, tried to fall back asleep, failed, took temp 15 minutes earlier, and again at usual time witout doing anything else, and there was a 0.3 difference! Arghhh we'll see tomorrow, this sucks, I just want to know!

Kariss, yes you need to take it at the same time everyday, after at least 3-5 hours of sleep, before tou stand up or talk or do anything else really. It's not easy

 

[Turtle0630]

Patience, I'm so happy to hear that you're hopeful this morning! I'm hopeful for you too!!! Can't wait to see what your temps do tomorrow!

Danna, I'm sorry about your temping this morning...and even more sorry that reading that made me giggle a little bit! When I was temping, it was on my mind so much every night when I went to bed that I would dream about it, and wake up a lot in the night to anxiously check the clock and make sure I hadn't missed it! Particularly on weekends when an alarm wasn't set. I was a mess!