Hello everyone
Lolly - just to say I'm so sorry about your mum. There are so many virus's going around I know a few people that have been ill over christmas. Glad to hear shes on the mend and sorry to for the stress you had to go through, it must of been awful!!!! Good that that you got some nice pressies. Hope you have a better new yearxx
Lou - just to say as in a similar situation to you. I think the others are right people do not understand IVF. They don't know what to say and whatsmore don't understand it. MIL's can be a pain in the butt. I think maybe if she knew it was your hubby it might change her view point. But I guess if she is of a generation and not very understanding then she might not! It must be difficult! I'm sorry to hear that you have to pay for next round. My PCT have also gone into financial melt down and now we have to pay. Actually still awaiting a final decision. So I know how you feel. I know some people go into egg sharing schemes to decrease the cost, but know this is not for everyone. I have been in your situation and I have felt that I am in limbo until the next treatment. also waited 2 months for followup which I found very frustrating, so I hope you can get a cancellation. It might help you. Your situation almost mirrors my own - so can relate to alot of what you say, hope you have a much better new yearxx
Helen - Hope you had a nice christmas with your inlaws and your family. Really hope you get your BFP in the new year.xx
Silarose - pleased that you are now starting treatment. YAY. Am praying for you!xx
Fluffy- Sorry to hear your cycle failed mid Dec. I have seen you on other threads. Sorry you also have to been here. Lets hope get that BFP in the new year.xx
Miss Monty - not long now until your results. I hope you have managed to have a nice chrtistmas with your family. xx
Wishful - good luck in the new year.xx
Tori - you have not been on here for a while. Hope you are okayxx
As for me christmas was okay, but boxing day I felt very emotional. We went to my inlaws and my niece was there. She is 2.5 years old now and is chatty and giggly and very adorable. I love her to bits but just seeing her with my inlaws made me so so sad. I just felt that we should have our children there and felt left out again. Also, my MIL was taking about my husbands cousin who had just had a baby. This baby was born on my birthday in november so the day was very emotive. I got home and cried my eyes out.
My husband just doesn't know what to do when I'm like that, he doesn't show he is sad but goes into a sort of denial. I think with male factor its a real dent in the male ego. he did say somethng nice and that was that his parents are getting into practise for when we have our children. He also said the reason he doesn't get sad is because he is positive it will work. Anyway, I feel alot better now. New years eve celebrations is strictly a friends affair so will be better.
I really hope I havne't missed anyone out - but if I have good luck for the new yearxx
Anyway, lets all hope we all have a much much better new year.xxxxxx By the way this is how I feel after christmas (as bloated and fat as)