TCC After Ectopic buddy needed

[Amcolecchi]

See I had no pain at all...so this SUPER scares me...but I have a lot less cramping then last time...AND I have a HUGE cold sore and I think a wart popped up on my hand and I read that it's totally normal to get these while pregnant. So I am hoping these are good signs lol! Can it be Wednesday tomorrow then Friday the next day? Haha let's just skip Tues and Thurs!

 

[c.m.c]

It scares me too that you had no pain AM!! I think if the ectopic is close to the uterus it can bed in quite well and even last to second tri.....but lets not think of that as we have doubling HCG !!

Goodness YES fast forward this week!! What are we not like?

 

[Amcolecchi]

CMC- haha yes yes let's not think that at all!! 1 more day for you!!! AHHH so close!! 3 more days for me hahaha not like I am counting or anything haha

Question, ladies that had their ectopic pregnancies, were you on any medicine or anything? Like ok I took clomid and got an IUI and had the ectopic. I read that ectopics are definitely common with IUI's and IVF's so I was just wondering if this is true for you guys? Also, if you did get an ectopic with IUI or IVF did you get an ectopic after getting prego naturally? I can't find any answers on this online!! Thanks ladies!

 

[Lucy529]

AM not much help with your question I was only taking metformin the dr that did my surgery said that the reason likely for my ectopic was bc of scar tissue from previous surgery to remove my ovary and tube bc of a tumor

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lucy-thank you for your answer! THE crazy thing is...we tried for so long so we saw the fertility specialists and they did all these tests on me..HSG with dye and said both my tubes were clear and fine...so to get an ectopic was like really? WTF? How? but I did lose my left tube and I am pretty positive I ovulated from the right side, so I am hoping it went to the right area haha!

 

[Lucy529]

You'll know soon Hun we just have to think positive that everything is going ok

 

[c.m.c]

I had no surgery and no fertility help! Nothing! Never used coil, have had one sexual partner my whole life so no pelvic inflammatory disease.......no reason why it happened?

Just unlucky I guess

 

[Amcolecchi]

CMC- WOW, really? What did the doctor say? What is Coil?

 

[c.m.c]

The coil is a mirena coil used for birth control

I've had nothing.

Dr just said that most ectopics are a fluke with no reason or cause ......

 

[Amcolecchi]

Cmc-ook thanks..wow so sad and so annoying at the same time!!!

 

[Peacenik]

I had no surgery and no fertility help! Nothing! Never used coil, have had one sexual partner my whole life so no pelvic inflammatory disease.......no reason why it happened?

Just unlucky I guess

Same here. No surgery, no assistance, no PID or STDs...nothing but bad luck!

 

[AllieK]

Hi, there, ladies-- I was on here a lot last fall after my first ectopic treated with methotrexate. That was Oct. We tried again in January and got pregnant right away. It actually was a heterotopic pregnancy. I had twins but one was in my tube and one was in my uterus. The one in the uterus had a heartbeat at 7 weeks! I had emergency surgery in March at 7 weeks and they removed my left tube. My pregnancy continued on for 9 more weeks until I went in to my 16 week appointment and my baby boy did not have a heartbeat anymore. I was crushed.

So now I have only 1 tube and am TTC again. I'm scared I will never conceive again with only one tube!

Do any of you only have one tube? Heterotopic is so rare! However, I see one of you had one? I wish my baby boy was still alive. One doctor thinks he passed because of the surgery, but another doctor ran tests on me and found out I have Factor V Leiden, which is a blood clotting disorder. He thinks thats why baby died.

Ugh. Anyway, I'm about to O soon, I hope I get a BFP.

 

[Lucy529]

Allie so sorry or your losses

I had one tube and one ovary when I had my ectopic and my dr was able to save it she did a great job as I'm not 19 weeks pregnant with my first there are many others on here that have had just one tube left and have gone on to have their rainbows there are actually two lovely ladies that are pregnant at the moment after a heterotopic pregnancy I'm sure they'll chime in

FX for you Hun we 're here if you need to talk

 

[AllieK]

Thank you, Lucy! I'm trying to remain hopeful! I am blessed to have a beautiful daughter that just turned 6 and a handsome son who is 3 1/2. I was hoping for one more baby to complete our family. It's been a struggle since last September when we had our first ectopic! I had no risk factors. No surgeries, IUDs, infections, no endometriosis, nothing. I've only had one sexual partner, too! It's crazy. Just bad luck, I guess.

Thanks for the hugs. I miss my little boy. I know 16 weeks is early when you think of women who have lost babies in their 3rd trimester....but I had seen him jumping around and sucking his thumb just a few weeks before he died.

I am hopeful, though! Blessings to you all!

 

[Lucy529]

It's never to early when you lose a baby Hun we love them from the moment we see those two lines a loss is a loss no matter the time

Really hope you get your rainbow soon the waiting is horrible it took me a year and a half to get an other BFP hope you get your soon

 

[Amcolecchi]

CMC-Let us know how it goes today!!!

Allie-So sorry for your loss!!! But there are women on here who are pregnant after heterotopic pregnancy! This is the best place to be for support!!!

 

[c.m.c]

allie im so sorry, i too had a heterotopic pregnancy. i lost the pregnancy in the uterus one week before the ectopic was discovered. hope you get your bfp soon.


AFM... had a scan and there was a second sac that never developed, however there was a lovely sac, with foetal pole and heartbeat measuring 6 weeks. so im so relieved. can believe i almost had twins again. though i think the 2 sac thing is very common and a lot of people never know as not many people have scans that early.

 

[Amcolecchi]

CMC-YAYYYYYY!!!! I am so excited for you!!!! What was the baby's heartbeat rate?!!? I am hoping when I go I will be okay too!!! Maybe we will have our babies the same day since we had surgery the same day tooo..that would be awesome lol! Your my twin

 

[c.m.c]

they didnt check the rate they said it was just an early heartbeat and all measured correct for 6 weeks. he just did a trans abdominal scan as he said no point doing trans vaginal when we can see what we want. its still early days but im so happy. il post a pic later...its sooo tiny 6mm!!!!

good luck for fri AM I know you must be sooo excited but anxious.

 

[c.m.c]

id love it if we both had our babes on the same day!!!!!!!