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[Nazz4]

OH decided he wants to go team yellow when he was talking to our friends who went team yellow with their daughter I so don't want to do it lol, I'm way too impatient and I want to know if I should buy pink or blue stuff! lol.

 

[c.m.c]

Nazz I found out with dd but DH didn't know till she was born!!

 

[Lucy529]

Nazz OMG !!!! Congrats yes your feelings are totally normal the worry doesn't end I still worry even this far along. Probably will never end tho

 

[Lucy529]

Luckily hubby and I are too impatient to wait power to you ladies who can do it. I needed to know ASAP LOL

 

[Nazz4]

If OH was going team yellow he would not let me find out either lol!

 

[Lucy529]

Nazz use you girly charms to convince him

Sometimes it works like a charm

 

[Amcolecchi]

Ya I want to know!! Too excited not too lol! BUT if I have a boy and a girl and get pregnant again, I will go team yellow since I already have one of each hehehee

 

[Nazz4]

Yay Amco you're a plum! lol!

I really just want to know the sex so I can go crazy buying things since it will be my first! IDK about you guys, but around here it is very hard to find gender neutral clothing. Last time I was pregnant I went to buy a onesie to wrap up my BFP in and give to OH... I went to 3 different stores in search of a gender neutral onesie and the one I finally found was still really a boys onesie, but it was green with monkeys on it and like orange and yellow details... I figured green is neutral enough for me lol (hey I'm a girl and I wear green, so whatever).

I'm sure we will be getting a bunch of hand me downs from OH's sisters baby anyways (who is a boy). I guess it really doesn't matter TOO much, my parents had 2 girls before having my brother and they said he was wearing pink often as a baby because they mostly just used my sisters old clothes LOL!!! And he turned out just fine haha.

I'll try to convince OH though when the time gets nearer. Right now I think the whole thing is still sinking in, and we don't want to go thinking ahead yet just in case something happens again.

 

[Amcolecchi]

Nazz- yes thank you!! I am excited! I get my last ultrasound with the specialist Wednesday but I am excited to see the baby moving! Last time the baby was moving but my hubby couldn't be there so Wednesday morning I am going to eat some chocolate haha so he can see it moving!!!

Yes I love the color blue but for a newborn I can't dress a girl in blue, it would be confusing!!! They need cuter gender neutral colors! How are you feeling by the way?!

 

[Lucy529]

Nazz I think once your hubby sees baby on the u/s he might be too curious not to want to know LOL this our first and we needed to know what color we were going to spoil him in and my boss had a baby two years ago so she had all her girls things waiting for me but it's mostly pink but we're getting a few things from her

AM 12 weeks congrats Hun hope your OH gets to see lo wiggling around in there my hubby gets mesmerized by it

CMC how you doing Hun? 12 weeks for you tom

afm last night my hubs finally felt Ivan kicking, the smile on his face was priceless I started crying LOL his first comment. "There really is a baby in there " LOL then he hugged me bc I was a crying it just really got to me still makes me smile thinking about it
It finally hit me last night while talking about what we still needed to buy we're less than three months from his arrival and still have tons to buy and organize I think that nesting thing needs to kick in I still just want to sleep LOL

 

[c.m.c]

Hey ladies! I totally understand the urge to know sex as I did with dd.... I found out at 15 weeks! But this time I I've no urge to know....well not yet lol


I'm technically 12 tomorrow's but also 13 weeks today as my due date has changed!!!

 

[c.m.c]

Lucy it's so special this time, ESP feeling kicks etc..enjoy!! Did you ever get an induction date

 

[Amcolecchi]

Cmc-so are you finding out?

Lucy-that is an amazing story!!! Such cute memories!!! I can't wait to feel that!! Don't worry you still have time and I am sure you will get everything ready!!

 

[c.m.c]

Am....at the min I'm going to wait, I know I could see at 14-15 weeks but il see how I feel then! I loved knowing with dd but this time I kinda want a surprise.

I take it you are all finding out?

My DH will defo not want to know lol

 

[Amcolecchi]

CMC-Aww so you have one girl already, how old is she?! Is she excited to have a baby sister or brother?!

OMG my husband has to know more than me lol! Too funny how some guys are so relaxed about it and my husband is crazy hahaha

 

[c.m.c]

I kind of like DH not knowing! My little girl will be 3 on Christmas Day!! She is excited, but she wants a sister....can't promise her that lol

 

[Lucy529]

CMC I was impatient to find out and tried talking my hubs for a private scan but he talked me out of it waited til almost 18 weeks to know LOL
Happy 13 weeks then wow time is flying 2nd tri is the fastest for me anyway

I go into the hospital the night of De. 26 to be induced on the 27th am so glad the dr told me everything that would be happening it makes me feel a bit calmer about giving birth
But the one thing that I have decided is I don't want anyone there except my DH and don't want anyone over at our place for at least a week, that can change tho I feel my protective instinct kicking in and don't want anyone around while am home at least does this sound selfish to you guys? My hubby has a friend am sure will want to be there but he gets on my nerves and then there's his sister she's never liked me and claims she will be watching my son on tues and weds when she off work, um no to that. I'm trying to talk my aunt out of coming as well at least until it's nicer out bc I know how she is and I don't want to take him out into the freezing cold as a newborn besides there'll be snow so can't go anywhere anyway

 

[Amcolecchi]

CMC-awww so cute!!! What do you want? A boy or girl?

Lucy-I want a private scan but the hubby wont go for it so we will be waiting till 19 weeks with the midwife! lol No, it's not selfish! You are going to be tired and sore! So when you are ready for people to come over then they can, you know? PLUS with all the snow people might not journey till after a week! I want to see pics tho hehehhe

 

[c.m.c]

With dd I secretly wanted a girl but didnt mind tht much.....this time I don't know what I prefer, I don't care? That's maybe why I might be able to stay team yellow! Do u have a pref AM?

O Lucy.....I wouldn't tell anyone your dates.....I'd hate anyone other than DH there

 

[c.m.c]

Lucy my Ava was born on Christmas Day 2010, in Ireland it was minus18c and the coldest winter for over 100 years.....never seen snow like it....you're very wise not bringing baby out in it