TCC After Ectopic buddy needed

[c.m.c]

Savme-Right when I had my ectopic and I had my first period my doctor told me anyone who has had an ectopic is at an increased risk for another one, especially if the tube is saved due to scars. So unfortunately for all of us we are all at an increased risk! SO unfair, right? And a great attitude to have now! I am not sure what religion you are but my uncle told me about St. Gerard...you should look into him! I will pray for you as well!

My husbands family are catholic, I'm Christian but dont pray to saints but I prayed to saint Gerard anyways

Save me ...you're sooo right, just go for it....you cant control what's not in your hands so another ectopic may be possible, but you may also get your perfect ending to all this and have a oerfect pregnancy and journey

 

[c.m.c]

Lucy your wee son really is proof that miracles happen in this world I never knew about your previous tubal loss

 

[Amcolecchi]

Yes, I am Catholic but during the ectopic I decided I hated all religion and God and just was angry...I have since then calm down and started to get back in my faith but yes I will pray to St. Gerard for you all all mothers trying and to be too!! When is your next OB appt?!

 

[Lucy529]

CMC it was when I was 19 at the time I didn't knows the impact it would have but that dr found it necessary so I went with it. Not being able to conceive was the main reason my ex left and the main reason he mistreated me so badly then a cousin telling him that I would never conceive didn't help

So when I met my hubby I told him before we even began to date bc he had told me he wanted more than just a dating relationship (he moved fast LOL) but I told him I would never give him a child which he always said he we would adopt if need be so this little one is def our miracle

AM I was also angry when I had the ectopic and though God was punishing me for something but now thanks to that surgery the dr found that all my girly bits were messed up so she fixed it and here I am a few months from meeting my son this is why I loved the name Ivan the meaning is perfect he is my Gift From God I am looking into getting him Baptized soon after birth too with my bosses being the God parents bc they have been there for me all through this

 

[saveme]

Savme-Right when I had my ectopic and I had my first period my doctor told me anyone who has had an ectopic is at an increased risk for another one, especially if the tube is saved due to scars. So unfortunately for all of us we are all at an increased risk! SO unfair, right? And a great attitude to have now! I am not sure what religion you are but my uncle told me about St. Gerard...you should look into him! I will pray for you as well!

Saveme I love your attitude praying for you Hun

AM my dr told me the same thing she saved my tube bc it is the only tube I have the other was removed years ago bc of a tumor to my ovary so that dr removed my right ovary and tube. The ectopic was a little miracle in itself tho bc when she did the surgery she said I had bad endometriosis and my reproductive organs were all messed up I think my ovary was behind my uterus not beside it and the tube too so she "fixed" it it took a year and a half after that surgery to get this little miracle
I want to have at least one more baby but if Ivan is all I get then I'm ok with it but I leave it up to God and his plan, we have decided not to use birth control at least no pills or hormones we'll take it into our own hands how to prevent (TMI but mainly condoms and pull-out-method)

Savme-Right when I had my ectopic and I had my first period my doctor told me anyone who has had an ectopic is at an increased risk for another one, especially if the tube is saved due to scars. So unfortunately for all of us we are all at an increased risk! SO unfair, right? And a great attitude to have now! I am not sure what religion you are but my uncle told me about St. Gerard...you should look into him! I will pray for you as well!

My husbands family are catholic, I'm Christian but dont pray to saints but I prayed to saint Gerard anyways

Save me ...you're sooo right, just go for it....you cant control what's not in your hands so another ectopic may be possible, but you may also get your perfect ending to all this and have a oerfect pregnancy and journey

Thanks sooo much girls, well I am as of now officially in my 2ww not too much hope for this month but next month all gloves are off. Me and DH's schedule will be much better this month/last month was so hectic anyways girls I am christian and a true believer in miracles and God's love and Iknow me and DH will be blessed with our miracles
But for some reason we had to go through this experience first. My experience with these 2ep's and 1 mc has renewed and strengthened my faith. And this time around I will not let my fear stall my dream of becoming a mommy. And I'm so happy to have found you girls even though it's through this horrible experience it shows me how miracles do happen and God's love
Sorry for the long post I just kinda want to put it out there before I get my bfp one day

 

[Lucy529]

Saveme I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers Hun

 

[Nazz4]

Hey girls, found out my HCG more than doubled in less than 48 hours it was in the 400's. I don't remember the exact number because I was too excited to pay attention. So far so good, my first scan is on the 21st!

 

[Lucy529]

Nazz that's wonderful news Hun YAY!!!!! Another rainbow on the way can't wait for scan pics

 

[Nazz4]

Thanks! I'm still going to be worrying my ass off until I see a normal healthy baby in the scan lol.

 

[Lucy529]

Ooh yeah that's normal and just a heads up you'll worry after that too I really don't think I ever stopped I just relaxed a bit but not completely

 

[Neik84]

I had an ectopic pregnancy in may and I'm still trying to conceive. The hardest part is getting a period month after month I'm trying not to stress but I'm waiting for my bundle of joy.

 

[Lucy529]

Neik sorry for your loss Hun

We are all here for you the waiting is so hard but hope your BFP is coming soon for you

 

[Peacenik]

I had an ectopic pregnancy in may and I'm still trying to conceive. The hardest part is getting a period month after month I'm trying not to stress but I'm waiting for my bundle of joy.

Neik, I'm so sorry for your loss and I totally understand. I had my ectopic in Feb. and every damn month I'm a mess when AF shows.

 

[Amcolecchi]

Neik-I am sorry for your loss! This site is great because we have all gone through it and we are here for you! Have you ever been to a specialist to been tested? My DH and I went before the ectopic and we found out he has low sperm morphology.

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lucy-Sometimes things happen in mysterious ways but it's almost like a blessing in disguise you not being with your ex and now you're with your amazing hubby and your little miracle baby is on the way!

CMC it was when I was 19 at the time I didn't knows the impact it would have but that dr found it necessary so I went with it. Not being able to conceive was the main reason my ex left and the main reason he mistreated me so badly then a cousin telling him that I would never conceive didn't help

So when I met my hubby I told him before we even began to date bc he had told me he wanted more than just a dating relationship (he moved fast LOL) but I told him I would never give him a child which he always said he we would adopt if need be so this little one is def our miracle

AM I was also angry when I had the ectopic and though God was punishing me for something but now thanks to that surgery the dr found that all my girly bits were messed up so she fixed it and here I am a few months from meeting my son this is why I loved the name Ivan the meaning is perfect he is my Gift From God I am looking into getting him Baptized soon after birth too with my bosses being the God parents bc they have been there for me all through this

 

[Lucy529]

AM that is so true HE works in mysterious ways, and my hubby shows me everyday how much he loves me yesterday we went on a free gondola ride it was so nice he helped me up the step to it then into the gondola walked around holding my hand and kept asking if I was ok or tired if I was hungry it was so cute.
We then went grocery shopping and he kept saying to be careful and not to carry anything heavy not even a gallon of milk LOL when we got home he did most of the cooking and then waited on me love than man

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lucy-that is so cute!!!! So happy and excited for you!!! When are you in your 3rd trimester? Or are you there already?!

 

[Lucy529]

It's next week well Saturday am 27 weeks and considered 3rd tri but since we're being induced we only have from 67-80 days left OMG time is flying

 

[marymoomin]

I hope you don't mind me popping in. I wanted to give hope to those who have experienced an ectopic. I had one in 2009 and lost my right tube. My gp prescribed clomid and my dd was conceived. She is 3 now. I had another ectopic on the other side treated by methotrexate in 2011 and was advised to have that tube and an ovary removed, I was allowed a six month reprieve to ttc and I fell pregnant with twins naturally.
I hope this provides done hope. X

 

[c.m.c]

Neik, so sorry you too have had to suffer this. Wishing you a speedy recovery and fast BFP