Team 2011 Winter Baby!

[grandbleu]

I'm so sorry Joey

Don't worry Feisty...most women don't even know they are pregnant during implantation and do crazy things. I was lifting couches, beds, boxes, furniture for 2 days straight in 115 degree weather (heat wave!) when I was supposedly implanting. You should be fine...don't beat yourself up about it.

Rachael - Don't know about all the dips...just one would be considered an implantation dip but I have reviewed many charts on FF and they are all so different (the ones that lead to BFPs) so don't get too discouraged.

 

[joey300187]

could you change me on the front post please my baby has grown its wings xxx

OMG... Joey hun I'm so sorry

Are the doctors going to look into this? you poor thing! Just don't give up hope!! i can only imagine how hard this must be for you! Just don't give up!! Your sticky bean is out there waiting!!

xxxxx

i dont know. i had all the test done that st marys do so dont know whats left for me ;( really dont think i can do it again xxxxxx

 

[MummyCat]

i dont know. i had all the test done that st marys do so dont know whats left for me ;( really dont think i can do it again xxxxxx

Oh sweetheart!!!!

I really do wonder if it's your hormone levels and a few tests would be able to show if that's the case! Are St Mary's going to come back to you? are you able to see a fertility specialist??

Huge to you sweet pea! Maybe see if you can get a few answers and see how you feel... perhaps something to increase your progesterone might do the trick.. it could be something as little as that, that is causing the problem!!! Don't lose hope just yet honey!!!!!

 

[joey300187]

all my levels have been checke deven in this pregnancy and they were fine plus was on a progestrone/placebo trial which i believe was progestrone from the sde effects this time. had a blood test while preg and they said all levels stayed great ;(. i had all the basic tests done at local hospital then was referred to london and had all theirs. only thing thats never been tested is the tissue from loss. st marys arent open on a weekend gonna call them 2morra and see what they say. i think ive taken this loss the worst as after all them tests coming back normal i really believed this was our time ;( xxxx

 

[4magpies]

Joey I am so so sorry.

Xxxxxxxx

 

[MummyCat]

all my levels have been checke deven in this pregnancy and they were fine plus was on a progestrone/placebo trial which i believe was progestrone from the sde effects this time. had a blood test while preg and they said all levels stayed great ;(. i had all the basic tests done at local hospital then was referred to london and had all theirs. only thing thats never been tested is the tissue from loss. st marys arent open on a weekend gonna call them 2morra and see what they say. i think ive taken this loss the worst as after all them tests coming back normal i really believed this was our time ;( xxxx

Oh hun... that makes no sense then! Unless there is something the tissue can explain! How very frustrating for you!! I know what 2 miscarriages feels like... 5 must be soul destroying!!

I hope you hear some news soon and can get to the bottom of it! What the furthest you've been in weeks?

 

[joey300187]

8 weeks hun. and thank you xxxx

 

[MummyCat]

No need to thank me sweetie... I wish there was more I could do... or things I could suggest! i can only pray that you eventually get that sticky bean and that it's soon!

My doc has just put me on 5mg folic acid as apposed to the 400micro grams I was on... she's hoping that will help me too, do you know how much folic acid you have been on? (up to 8 weeks could mean it's chromosone relates/hormone related... i'm no expert... it's just the two things that crop up most in the research I've done).

Honey I really hope you get to the bottom of this!!

I'm off to bed, so sorry if you don't get a reply from me for a while!

 

[Rachael1981]

Joey, I really hope they can get to the bottom of this for you

 

[joey300187]

thank you. am just on the usual does of folic acid. im pretty sure they checked all that tho, have asked for details of all the tests i have had so i know exactly what i have had doe n and not. xxxx

 

[grandbleu]

Looks like I'm a double dipper on my chart...PMA is dwindling...Oh well...only time will tell.

 

[Rachael1981]

Looks like I'm a double dipper on my chart...PMA is dwindling...Oh well...only time will tell.

I've had 3 dips, I really wouldn't worry about it

 

[MummyCat]

Keeping fingers firmly crossed ladies!!

Joey... let us know if you hear anything hun!

 

[joey300187]

will do hun xx

 

[trying 4 3rd]

I am so sorry for your loss Joey. You are in my prayers and I hope they figure out what is going on hun.

 

[xxxemsxxx]

Joey, I am so sorry for you loss.

I really hope you are able to get some answers and a sticky bean soon. xxx

 

[joey300187]

me too. unbelievable how hard it is to get the doctors to tell me exactly what ive been tested for. you'd think it was my right to have access to this info? thanks to everyone for the kind words xxx

 

[Rachael1981]

Keep bugging them until they tell you. You do have the right to know xxxxx

 

[Feisty Fidget]

Joey it is your medical information and you have a right to it. Write a letter stating you want to have written copies of ALL you medical notes over the last year. By law they have to respond to this within 10 days (I think it's 10 )

I am out

I took my temp this morning and it was just below the cover-line at 14DPO, popped it into Fertility Friend who promptly told me that due to new information my ovulation day was moved to 2 days later. I am apparently 12DPO today which has moved our intercourse timing from high to good

All my variables were kept the same last night so I can't even try to blame my drop on that and I have scoured FF and can't find a chart with a dip at 12DPO that resulted in Nothing

I am gutted!
It isn't even the fact that I had myself convinced I was pregnant and now I'm obviously not, it's more to do with the fact that I have to go through it all for another month and my chances of actually having a baby this year are dwindling

I usually tell lovelies in my position that it ain't over until the shows - but temperatures don't lie I tried preparing myself yesterday for this and it has worked to some degree BUT I am really starting to hate the whole ttc thing, this will take us to a year of trying and we have nothing to show for it. I have to do all these extra things and I can't do the relaxed approach as I don't ovulate without clomid, have hostile CM without everything else and don't have a clue if I am ovulating without OPK and BBT

I am going to the doctors to get some more clomid and to chat about my possible clotting problems but it is pointless discussing tests etc as they will just bring up our loss and say there is obviously no problem with us getting pregnant

I just feel such a failure

Sorry for the rant lovelies am just feeling rather low this morning.

 

[Rachael1981]

Feisty

Don't know what else to say.

I'm always here if you need a chat or anything