I got my BFP this afternoon...it seems unreal and I want you all to get your winter babies. This is just the first step on a long road...after one unexpected loss at 12 weeks it's not going to be an easy one for me. Thank you all for your support and thank you Feisty for this lucky thread. I posted this else where but I wanted to help anyone who wanted to know what/how I did this month:
I am proof that:
1. You don't have to have much sex LOL! (only 2 times before Oday! - look at my chart)
2. The BD action you do have doesn't have to be mind blowing (remember we were in TTC pressure zone and not really feeling our groove)
3. You can even miss Oday because of an argument.
4. You don't have SS (symptom spotting)! (I had none ladies none!)
What I did:
1. Conceive Plus - I don't have much natural EWCM.
2. Legs in air for at least 30 minutes (usually 60) - have OH bring you your computer so you can get on BnB and chat and also a cuppa.
3. Be completely convinced this is not your cycle and put more faith into a candle lit in a lonely hilltop church and a random numerology reading than your own efforts.
4. Nothing else...seriously nothing else...
Symptoms:
1. I wasn't symptom spotting so only my temps were looking good at the end.
2. Spotting (implant?) and also for the last couple of days...just a wee bit.
3. Tiniest bit of cramping the past couple of days but like I said I get that regardless every cycle so I don't consider it a symptom.
4. Had L-ovary pulsating today (only for a little bit)