Tbh I can't deal with the whole being a step parent
And I wish my OH would stop spending money on random stuff he doesn't nee, just wants. I seem to buy everything for Oliver so have no money for myself yet he can just still buy whatever he wants. Everything is getting me down
My OH is the same with money too! i buy absolutely everything for Oakley and he just spends all his time looking at and planning to spend loads of money on new wheels for his stupid car.
he's lucky i love him otherwise he'd be gone. hes earning triple what i am (especially now that im on maternity leave) so i dont think its fair.
next time you need to buy Oliver something tell him to get it cos you dont have the money and its urgent
i have to tell Will he's getting something for Oakley on the few days a week we see him. he always complains about it but then i explain how much i spend on him and he soon gives in.