Yes, I had bad anxiety, so it wasn't really a possibility to try, as my life was very limited. I finally made a massive effort and can function well without anxiety taking over. We have been trying now since October 2011 (we started in September, but I was way past ovulation time). I am 35 and DH is 28, I am getting "old" now, and I also will have to have a serious hip operation in the future, which I really want to have once I have had a baby, so its hard not to feel the pressure of time, but on the other hand I am getting more and more chilled out about it, if come September I am still not pregnant then they will study it, and hopefully there will be some way to help us. I just wish I could stop all that compulsive testing and just let it be! I don't get over dramatic when it doesn't happen, I am always optimistic for the next cycle, its just all that testing and symptom spotting, I am going to try and throw myself into some other activities and see if I can tune off a bit (hard to do)