Hi Scooby Congrats by the way! I notice that you were TTC for 23 months, how did you keep going? Were you on any meds? and do you mind me asking how old you are? we have been trying for just over a year tried clomid no joy and i am feeling really down at the moment
Honestly, it was a very frustrating 23 months! A full year of that was us trying on our own, then I went to my ob/gyn and we started diagnostics...so that took up another few months. After it was revealed that I wasn't ovulating (at least not consistantly) and OH had 0% normal morphology we were referred to a reproductive endocrinologist, but they were booked several months out, so my ob/gyn agreed to let me try clomid to see what happened. Lucky us, the first round worked! Neither OH or I was on any other medications besides vitamins (and he rarely actually took his). I'm 30 and OH is 35.
I know just how you feel being frustrated and down...I would get my hopes up every TWW, only to have them crushed when AF came. I would say to myself that I was giving up, and would be convinced of that for a week or so, then the cycle would start all over. I always eventually kept trying because I've wanted my whole life to be a mommy, so as frustrating as the journey was, I wasn't ready to give up that dream.
Have you and OH had any diagnostics done yet? And are you temping/charting? I hope you get your bfp soon!
Reading that gives me hope, and its nice to speak to some one that says they understand and actually do understand. Yes we have both been tested every thing with the my OH was fine and every thing was fine with me to and we fall into the 'unexplained' which some times i think i wish they would have found some thing so we could fix it but when there is no explanation i think some times thats harder.
Its just really hard each month when AF arrives but im looking forward to ovulation and another month of trying now !
Congrats to you ! seems clomid did the trick for you hun xx