well because of my losses so far and remembering the support I both needed and recieved, we will tell people as we feel is needed.
MY BIL and SIL will be of the first to know. SIL had been awesome thru my mcs.
MY MIL anf FIL are one of the last to know usualy they find out after the MC
I will be deemed High risk and offered more US than MOST women.
SO I will probably get a US around 6 weeks to make sure there is a LO in there and hanging for the ride.
Goodness I wanna cry just thinking about it.
Any how the combo of my age wieght (I am not a little lady lol) and the fact that I have lost three and have MTHFR pushes me up on the risk list.
I look at it all and think about how technical this pregnancy is going to be.
Its funny because I wish there was no reason for it to be so high tech, but in the same respect after going thru 3 life shattering mcs I am kinda glad that I will get so many us to keep an eye on lo and make sure s/he is in there growing and hanging on.
I dont know yet where I stand on the amnio, its kinda scary but DH and I have discussed it and we decided we will wait till then to see how we feel then.
Any how as I get closer I become more insecure about it all and I didnt mean to vent on you guys but I am glad your here to let me