I have to share a really selfish fear with you girls. Most of my good friends have had babies already (all in the last two years). I have experienced some envy, but for the most part I have managed to avoid being resentful. I personally feel that it's really selfish to hold resentment for others because my body is taking longer to do what it is supposed to do. The one exception is with my teenage niece (17), who disrupted the entire family when she fell pregnant this past fall. My husband and I love her to death, but we are not happy about this pregnancy, and we have not been able to accept it. We put on a happy face for her sake though and pretend we have gotten over it. We only share our true feelings about it with each other (and now you). She has had a more difficult life than we ever had, but I honestly think she intentionally got pregnant so that she could try to create the life she never had. I think that's why it's been so hard on us. We had hoped for more for her. I know she will figure things out, and we'll be here to support her, but her life is going to be more difficult because of the decisions she made. I think that until we see that baby in June, we are not going to get over our disappointment in her and the anger we feel. We are not angry, unhappy people. I can't stay mad at anyone for more than 10 minutes, so it's been hard that I haven't been able to shake these feelings. Anyway, that's not the point of my this post. It just sort of came out.