The TTC 2012- 2013 Babies Club... 13 BFP's!!!

[wantingagirl]

have you tried another test incase it was a dud? is it much lighter than last week? xxx

 

[Tweak0605]

have you tried another test incase it was a dud? is it much lighter than last week? xxx

The only other test I have is a digital, and since they are expensive, I was waiting to save that for a sure thing. I'm also away from home (going back today) so I don't have any others from my "stash."

It barely came up within the time frame. It's hard to tell if it's lighter then last week. I definitely don't think it's darker. I guess I'll test tomorrow and bring that sample to the doctor. And if she tells me it's too faint, tell them I should be 5-6 weeks. Hopefully they'll send me for bloodwork to see if my levels are rising like they should.

 

[babysimpson]

I would still drop a sample off to the doctor as it may just be the test you used not picking it up properly.

 

[WendyJ]

Shona Sounds like you've got some of the same symptoms as me, i've got the creamy cm too. Hoping it will be our month hun! See your temps are nice and high the now same as mine, when will you be testing? x

Amy Hmm that's strange hun, did you use the same kind of test you used when you got your BFP? I would definitely still hand in a sample hun. Try not to worry and take another test in the morning with FMU x

 

[Tweak0605]

Amy Hmm that's strange hun, did you use the same kind of test you used when you got your BFP? I would definitely still hand in a sample hun. Try not to worry and take another test in the morning with FMU x

Yup, same tests as before. I'm going to drop off a sample tomorrow morning. I don't know if I'm gonna test myself first or not. Then when I call, depending on what they say, I'll push for blood work.

 

[xarlenex]

Shona soft cups is something i'm willing to try out. Not this cycle though, i'm due to ovulate whilst on holiday with friends so wouldn't want to risk it popping up somewhere in the caravan Nice to see you back here

Amy hope they do your bloodwork for peace of mind

Wendy nothing exciting going on here..I done some of that ironing last night, just the other half now You know my stepmum loves ironing! If she didn't live so far away i'd give her mines

Haven't really spoke about this, but it got to me today. I have a gay friend whos started seeing this 'women'.. and I use this term lightly.. Friends 21 and shes 30 with a child whos 10 and she lets his dad live with them cause its handy for her to leave the son with him while she galavants and gets out her face on all sorts, my friend was never the type to even be around someone on drugs but she keeps telling her its just 'diet pills'. Anyway, shes controlling, munipulating and down right rude. She doesn't like any of steph's friends, reckon she must think we're all going to turn gay and steal her its gotten to the point she can't even tell her if shes doing my hair at college because she starts an arguement. Found out she seen an old photo of me and steph and called me a "whore".. which was the final straw.
Day in day out (I work with steph) I listen to how she psycho, paranoid, won't let her breathe etc.. then 2 seconds later shes texting her telling her she 'loves her so much' I just couldn't take anymore today and told her I didnt/couldnt have anymore to do with her outwith work I know this is exactly what her girlfriend wants but I cannot listen to this anymore with the same frustrating outcome, and then having my name dragged through the dirt for NO reason whatsoever. Shes not even defending us (i'm not the only one shes spoke about) but "its not worth the hassle". I'm quite upset about losing a friend

Sorry about the essay!! xx

 

[Buster1]

Arlene sorry about what has happened with you and your friend. Maybe this is the push that your friend needs to see that this is a toxic person in her life and that it is costing her all her friends. Hopefully in the end she will get rid of this crazy person and realize who her real friends are.

 

[NDH]

Amy I agree that bloodwork is your best bet. I hope they cooperate with doing a beta and that it shows good results. Urine tests can be so iffy and there could be other reasons besides dropping hCG why the line is still faint. And some never do darken at all either.

 

[WendyJ]

Morning all! Sorry I wasn't on last night, I went to bed at 8pm I was so tired and i'd been having this pain in my stomach all day. It wasn't like cramps, it was more painful. A pain i've never had before around my abdomen area. God knows what it was but i'm pleased to say it's gone now!

Amy I take it the doctor will let you know today once they have your sample rather than having to wait? Good luck hun, i'm sure it will be fine x

Arlene Sorry to hear about your friend hun but you've done the right thing. If you hadn't have said anything you would have had an outburst about it anyway at a later date which would have ended in the same result cause it doesn't sound like this "woman" is going to change. Like Adrienne has said your friend will surely realise that this woman is just being manipulative and will end up leaving her eventually but until she does you don't need the stress of it all. At least you can still socialise at work hun until this all blows over x

Right I best get ready for work, hope everyone's well. I've got my smear test later today not looking forward to that! I'm really worried if I am secretely pregnant that it could cause problems but surely it will be ok. Anyway talk to all you lovely ladies later x

 

[xarlenex]

Thanks Adrienne, hows things with you now?

Wendy..shes crazy! She had been with my friend 2 months and made her get a ring tattoed on her engagement finger and wanted to get married 2 months later. Oh and it gets better, her 10 year old son doesn't even know shes gay! So behind her sons back she'll be with and marry a women, finally put out the father then say "oh btw mum's gay so i've kicked out your dad and married secretly to Steph, yes that lady whos been about that you thought was a friend.." nothing like messing up your son. The same person who keeps drugs in her freezer n told my pal they were her sisters.. Oh I could go on all day so i'll stop now.
I cant even remember if the nurse usually asks about potential pregnancy when doing a smear. Glad your tummys better Enjoy work! I don't start till 10 today..like these days

Hows everyone else?

x

 

[babysimpson]

Morning girls,

Hope everyone is doing ok.

Good Luck on the test Amy.

Arlene - You'd be surpried how many people are blinded by love and some never realise their mistake.

Wendy - Maybe be worth letting them know that you're trying and not sure if your pregnanat or not just to make sure it's safe to do the smear.

 

[wantingagirl]

Wendy hun..... my temp went down ever so slightly today so Im sure it will keep on going down now ever such a cynic! Still got the creamy CM and yesterday afternoon and day before really watery in the afternoons! I hope you are tho!

Amy I hope your tests get stronger!

Arlene hehe to the softcups its a very private thing so I wouldnt do that either! They look so scary and wonder how it can fit but trust me it does! Its lovely to be back hun...... hope your ok. Im so sorry about your friend hun its so difficult when you are so close I guarantee when it ends (which it will) she will come running back to you. There is no need for being controlling and certainly no need for you to be involved in it!

Adrienne, Lea, Emma, Nat & anyone else I have missed!

Oooooh Wendy hopefully Implantation!

Sabrina how are you hun?

xxx

 

[WendyJ]

Arlene A tattoo after two months!! More fool your friend for doing it, i'd never let anyone control me like that but she obviously cares for this creature. That's so bad her son has no idea, he will grow up to hate her for the lies. I'm sure your friend will lose the rose tinted glasses evenutally Well I know the nurse usually says when was your last period before a smear? Can't wait to say January and see her face I'll tell her obviusly for that reason i'm not sure of the possibilty of pregnancy. Any excuse to get out of having one done! haha x

Sabrina Hey hun! How are you doing? You all back to normal now after that horrible bug? Yeah i'll try and mention it and see what they say, thanks x

Shona That's a good temperature today hun! As long as they stay nice and high away from your coverline it's a good sign. My temps have gone up and down too but nowhere near my crosshairs. At least that's your first of the tww by, hope the next one flys by too! I get the watery cm in the afternoons too and then creamy at night, all very strange! You'll know if I get a BFP that it's a good sign lol x

Emma, Lea, Naomi - where are you girls? Hope you are all ok x

 

[Rachael1981]

Arlene, your friend sounds like she's in a similar situation to what I was in with my ex last year. To start with I thought things would get better if I did what he wanted me to do, perhaps at that point I was blinded by love and later I couldn't get away because he controlled everything. I wasn't allowed anywhere by myself, he made sure I never had any money, and I couldn't even make a phone call in private. He went through my mobile to see who I'd called and text and what had been said. He also tried going through my emails but I kept changing my passwords. All I can say is I don't blame you for being upset with her, but remember she may well need you in the future

Amy, I hope the test goes ok today.

Wendy good luck for the smear test

AFM - 10dpo, no symptoms and no urge to POAS. I'm getting better at this.

 

[Lea1984]

Hey Ladies,

Just a quick post from me i'm really busy!

Hope all you ladies are well.. I will try and get on later and catch up..

Miss you all....

 

[Tweak0605]

I have my sample and was gonna drop it off in a bit. But I just went to the bathroom and there was blood when I wiped. So, at this point it's not looking good I guess. I'll call them in a little bit after they open and see if they'll do anything at this point, like a blood test.

 

[WendyJ]

Hi ladies, I just got the following letter from my doctor:

Dear Wendy,

I have just received your results of your scan and it looks like there is a possibility you might have polycystic ovaries.

This however does not mean you have a diagnosis of polcystic ovarian syndrome as of yet.

I think it would be a good idea at this time to refer you up to the hospital for further investigations of your failure to fall pregnant this last year with both your blood and scan results to help the consultants make a decision in terms of diagnosis and best care for you at this stage.

Yours sincerely.

So... I don't know where i'm going from here. Do you think I should still go in on Monday and see what she says or do you think this is her saying i'm referring you on you don't need to come in? x

 

[WendyJ]

Rachael Well done missus, your doing better than me! lol. Once I get a BFN I lose hope for a few days but then it comes back and I want to test again I have seriously spent way too much money this last year on pregnancy tests. I'm going to go bankrupt! x

Lea When are you not busy lady! Look forward to reading your catch up later x

Amy Try not to worry until you hear from the doctor hun. I know the sight of blood can be scary but some ladies do bleed a bit and carry on with a healthy pregnancy. I'm really praying everything's ok for you x

 

[Tweak0605]

Thanks Wendy. Just waiting for a call back from the nurse, on what they want to do. She wasn't sure if they want me to bring in the sample still, or just send me for blood work. I put on a pad, and it's bleeding slighly onto the pad.

As for you, it sounds like she just wants to send you up for a referral. Doesn't sound like she wants to see you again. Can you call and ask what that means?

 

[Rachael1981]

Amy, don't lose all hope just yet hun. Like Wendy said there are plenty of women that bleed but go on to carry to full term.

Wendy, that letter sounds like she's referring you to the hospital. It's up to you whether you want to go in or not I think. I would probably go anyway for her to clarify things.

As for the not testing - no idea how I'm doing it. I have loads of IC's in the house, yet no urge to pee on one