The Vasectomy Reversal Wives & Girlfriends Club. aka (VR WAGs)

[wannabeprego]

I just typed a HUGE reply out and it vanished via googlefuck.com

Right i'll go again!

wannabepreggo- i cant see anything, but then im blind as fookery and cant see anyones lines unless they are super dark fingers crossed for you

My girls.... no periods hey well this IS good..... and V your temp staying up is REALLY good!

Bruising.... no hubby didnt have any at all from after the original bruising but im sure its nothing... does your hub have a check up like we did afterwards??

x

oh no! on you losing your reply!!

yer I'm pleased my temp is still up but 38.27 is dangerously high, very much doubt that was preg related as anything over 37.5 is classed as a fever (i think) it'll be interesting to see what it is 2moro though thats for sure. My temp went straight down after I took tabs and has stayed down, just really lethargic and crappy so am on the sofa still, want to be better asap for the big day on Tues. No DH didnt have any check-ups after op at all, I think I'll get him into the doctors and see what they'll say, just to be on the save side. fingers crossed xx

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[wannabeprego]

i did another HPT this morning, and i updated my thread in the HPT gallery if anyone wants to take a look at my latest test and let me know what you think...

https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-tests/476631-start-faint-bfp-updated-new-test-page-2-a.html

 

[tallybee]

Morning ladies, how's everyone?

I cannot believe it but the snow's chucking down at a ridiculous rate AGAIN, school has opened this morning but getting there was a hazard itself, pavements impassable so having to walk on roads and dart out the way of traffic. Come to think of it I can't believe folk are driving in this, visibility is next to nothing and they keep getting stuck and having to get help pushing the cars!

I swear I'll go loopy if this doesn't clear soon!

OH made it in to work, it took him 3 hours, can only hope he makes it back ok!!

 

[leafygreenmum]

Ladies,

Hubby was having a 'trim-up' in the shower on friday and noticed bruising on his balls. If you picture the two testicles, the bruising is in the middle if each one at the top. He said it was a little tender the other day but was fine when he had a 'play' and has been fine since anybody else'd DH have bruising come up?? I'm abit worried.....We have his SA on the 13th, but I dont know whether to suggest he go dox before then or not..... I dont know what could have caused it??? I've asked if I could post a pic, but he wasn't really up for that lol xx

Thanks ladies xxx

My OH had loads of bruising, right the way up his... ehem....'little man', poor chap! All better now though, but it did take him about 4 weeks to heal. His scar is quite large though, larger and higher up than the original - it can be a bit uncomfortable as the skin gets pulled taut when he is aroused. OMG, he would kill me if he knew I was talking about his intimate parts!

 

[live_in_hope]

lol, well DH had a lot bruising after the op but he healed really quickly,and we were able to 'do it' after 13days so we were really lucky, its just came up this past week, 11weeks after the VR??? xx

 

[mrsessex]

lol, well DH had a lot bruising after the op but he healed really quickly,and we were able to 'do it' after 13days so we were really lucky, its just came up this past week, 11weeks after the VR??? xx

Yeah I would make quick app with your doc for him to have a look..saying that though.... ya average doc wont know too much about VR surgery so im not sure.... personally..... I would call your surgeons PA and have a word.... she will hopefully be able to get you an answer from him
I doubt its anything though


Hope everyone is ok x

edit: bout testing V just saw your other post

 

[live_in_hope]

hey ladies...

Well, along with a visit from the doctor (my mum was worried and phoned them for a house visit-bless her) so doc came, says I have flu and told me i'll need to be off work 10-14 days, by which I then burst into tears I'm such a wet lettuce. I hate being off work and even when I am poorly, I rarely have time off. But I'm seeing it as a good thing, think I need the rest and time to fully recover from everything I've had over the last 6weeks. Need to be at my best to make Baby D.

oh yer and along with my visit from the doc, the came too. Roll on cycle #3 xx

 

[mrsessex]

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww sorry you feel so shit i know its awful im just about getting over a bad cold, felt so weak & dizzy this last week..so know how you feel x

Yes cycle 3 onwards...you've caught up with me now im cycle 3...but dont even know when im ovulating just NOT bothered this month AT ALL!! just gonna take it all as it comes now..opk's are thrown away and the pre'seed and it feels good!

x

 

[live_in_hope]

go girl!! lol

Well going from this cycle I know I should ov around x-mas day and whats better than lots of drunken sex at xmas time?!! (thats how I was conceived) For us to have a september baby is huge. Cant remember if I said before but DH, Me, DH's mum all have our birthdays in the same week and the day DHs mum died is also in that week. It would mean so much if our baby is a sept baby. But at the end of the day, I'll be happy with whatever and whenver xx

 

[tallybee]

go girl!! lol

Well going from this cycle I know I should ov around x-mas day and whats better than lots of drunken sex at xmas time?!! (thats how I was conceived) For us to have a september baby is huge. Cant remember if I said before but DH, Me, DH's mum all have our birthdays in the same week and the day DHs mum died is also in that week. It would mean so much if our baby is a sept baby. But at the end of the day, I'll be happy with whatever and whenver xx

Best of luck to you! September's a good birthday month, mine's then too

 

[mrsessex]

Yeah I remember your September baby post ...funny enough Ive always wanted a September born baby as they'd be the oldest in the class and I dunno....think its nice other than that a summer baby...but ive kinda missed the boat there!! unless we fall preg around Sep/oct next year! who knows...but yes be happy whatever the month

I think it takes a couple of cycles of not falling preg yet to realise the journey could be a long one... this is why i take a laid back approach to not get too dissapointed (my defence mechanism! )

Xmas Ovulation hey!! that be good! yes loads of Im due period 23rd Dec so me and you are complete opposites in the cycle oh and Sarah

 

[live_in_hope]

yer we're all cycle #3 but all at different stages xx

Yer I work in a school and the september borns are generally so much more advanced than the late summer one's as they have just turned 4 whereas sept born are nearly 5! Yer for me to have a sept baby I would need to conceive this cycle and Gail said I would get my BFP in Jan/Feb so if I conceivethis cycle I wouldnt test until Jan, so fingers crossed. It'll be interesting to see of her predicition was right xx

 

[MRSRICHRS2K]

Think my next period is due around the 27th dec.. but we've decided were going to go full throttle in jan after SA results aswell..
Cycle #2 was longer 26days and 10dpo so im happy with that in its self

V its pants being ill sending u love i still not 100%, back in sept i had chest pains and then a panic attack and went to the dr. and they found i had a slight heart murmur, i had to have a ecg and a echo scan... the ecg was fine but my scan showed i had a mild prolase in my heart valve.. i was ok as the dr. said it all looked ok to her but would check with a heart specialist, 2 weeks ago i had a appointment come through to see the specialist and ive been worrying since, slightest twinge i dwell on and panic (i ve had panic attacks since to )

well Sat night i felt them again so went to out of hours and was checked over and reasurred that my heart beat was ok an my blood pressure was perfect, i had another appointment today for bloods to be done and gotta go back on thur for the results,, they are thinking anemic or thyroid causing the palpitations.. Even quit my diet coke for caffiene free,,, Dr's orders

so fx its one of the 2 and they can give me something to make me feel better these dark nights dont help feel so down in the dumps... very unlike me

Anyway hows ur DH balls V hope they are better

i was a aug 23rd baby so late summer youngest in my year, and my sis was 29th sept and the eldest and had to stay on a year so hated it...

my son is a Feb baby so one of the eldest and my daughter is a July baby so one of the youngest bless her x
i'd love to preg through he summer but to be pregnant fullstop i'm happy with

 

[reversal]

Think my next period is due around the 27th dec.. but we've decided were going to go full throttle in jan after SA results aswell..
Cycle #2 was longer 26days and 10dpo so im happy with that in its self

V its pants being ill sending u love i still not 100%, back in sept i had chest pains and then a panic attack and went to the dr. and they found i had a slight heart murmur, i had to have a ecg and a echo scan... the ecg was fine but my scan showed i had a mild prolase in my heart valve.. i was ok as the dr. said it all looked ok to her but would check with a heart specialist, 2 weeks ago i had a appointment come through to see the specialist and ive been worrying since, slightest twinge i dwell on and panic (i ve had panic attacks since to )

well Sat night i felt them again so went to out of hours and was checked over and reasurred that my heart beat was ok an my blood pressure was perfect, i had another appointment today for bloods to be done and gotta go back on thur for the results,, they are thinking anemic or thyroid causing the palpitations.. Even quit my diet coke for caffiene free,,, Dr's orders

so fx its one of the 2 and they can give me something to make me feel better these dark nights dont help feel so down in the dumps... very unlike me

Anyway hows ur DH balls V hope they are better

i was a aug 23rd baby so late summer youngest in my year, and my sis was 29th sept and the eldest and had to stay on a year so hated it...

my son is a Feb baby so one of the eldest and my daughter is a July baby so one of the youngest bless her x
i'd love to preg through he summer but to be pregnant fullstop i'm happy with

Ah I hope everything comes back clear, panic attacks are the worse I have them maybe 1 or 2 a month but they last ages (5-25 mins) then the day after I have to have an inhaler as they cause me to have a bronchial spasm (tighting of the chest which is painfull) Ive had heart scan ect and nothing was found I was told sometimes 1 of the chaimbers in your heart miss fires and causes the attack
next month I should be ovulating 24th 25th 26th

 

[mrsessex]

Sorry to hear about all that Sarah sounds scary

Glad your BP is good if it's Anemia or thyroid they will give you tablets to control it x

Take care xxxx

 

[live_in_hope]

oh sarah! poor you!! sounds awful, but it's good that they seem on it and are looking into it thoroughly!!

DH's balls are fine now...we were talking earlier and he said that the bruising has gone now and I said when did he notice the tenderness. He noticed the bruising sat morning in the bath but felt tender on the friday after he'd had a play (if we go afew days without doing it, he replenishes his stock himself) so i wondered whether the bruising was caused from that, if you think how it works, then with each 'stroke' he bashes his balls I dont know, but i'll certainly mention it next week xx

I could really do with jumping forward afew weeks and starting a fresh in 2011, I'm bored now with being ill, just want this year to be over...bah-humbug! lol haven't got any decs up or even our tree and it's normally me who does it all. I can barely muster up the energy to go to the loo, let alone put up decs and shop for a tree xx

 

[wannabeprego]

hey ladies...

Well, along with a visit from the doctor (my mum was worried and phoned them for a house visit-bless her) so doc came, says I have flu and told me i'll need to be off work 10-14 days, by which I then burst into tears I'm such a wet lettuce. I hate being off work and even when I am poorly, I rarely have time off. But I'm seeing it as a good thing, think I need the rest and time to fully recover from everything I've had over the last 6weeks. Need to be at my best to make Baby D.

oh yer and along with my visit from the doc, the came too. Roll on cycle #3 xx

Awww, I hope you feel better soon!!!

Sorry that the got you hun!! I hope you have better luck next cycle and get that !!!

 

[wannabeprego]

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[wannabeprego]

My AF is due friday, and i have been having really bad AF type cramps for about the last 3 days, and soar, tender boobs. This is pretty typical for me at this time of the month, and I have a feeling that the is going to show early since my AF cramps are pretty bad...


I must admit I will be glad to say goodbye to 2010 and welcome in 2011!! I had two inpatient hospital stays this year and had been sick more than usual this year, me and DH went through alot of stress together this year as well, so I hope next year is better for me and the rest of you ladies as well...

i already started shopping for a new years eve dress, and trying to find a place to go out to... or we might stay in this year.. hmmm.. i cant decide for sure yet..

Me and DH finished our Christmas decorating this weekend and got our tree up, it looks really pretty.. Here is a picture of it....


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[live_in_hope]

aww it's gorgeous!! i love doing the tree, it always gets you well in the xmas mood!! i hope we get ours soon, but now it looks like DH is coming down with something too