Things I cannot say out loud....

[tokyo_c]

To the evil *******s who broke into my car this morning : thanks for that you total cocks. You stole a sat nav worth 40quid, now I have to pay lots more to have a window fixed. And I have to try and sort this out while my newborn baby is having a cluster feed. Im relaying on my car just now, with my DH driving as I recover from a traumatic birth. You truly are scum of the earth, may you always have an sneeze you can't get out! (I hate that feeling)
Just away to cry now... x

That's awful - hope you manage to get it fixed soon without too much hassle. I do love your choice of punishment though!

 

[Lettuce]

Thanks, they'll fix it tomorrow morning, so my dad added my DH to the insurance on his car and has given us that. Just total nightmare, still, at least our car is still there!

 

[shambaby]

lettuce, that's really crappy.

 

[elephant29]

Thanks, they'll fix it tomorrow morning, so my dad added my DH to the insurance on his car and has given us that. Just total nightmare, still, at least our car is still there!

They really are scum. It happened recently to my mums car. They smashed every single window including windscreen and my car seat was sitting in there. They didnt take anything which shows it was just an act of pure vandalism!

Glad your getting it fixed quickly.

xxx

 

[BabySeal]

WHEW! I just sat and read every page of this thread.

*MIL*
- You work, I don't right now. Tell me your next day off so I can PLAN a day for you to see the baby. Don't just pop by and be mad I am not home.
-Don't you dare to ever talk behind my back about me to people at a party at my mom's house. Those people are my mother's best friends, and well... it got back to me about 5 minutes after you ran your mouth. (She said I have to control everything, and don't let him see him)
- I have absolutely no problem letting you see him, but I am tired of constantly trying to make plans with you... meet me half way.
-And in regard to me "controlling" I am not controlling I just know how I want to parent and thats how it will be. (laying down before all the way asleep to settle self, expecting a wet diaper to be changed, not frigging ignored!!)
- And yes if you are holding my LO and he is crying and he obviously does not want you or can't be settled by you, I will take him off you politely. He was perfectly content after I took him.
- AND I DO NOT trust you guys to watch him overnight. I don't even feel comfortable posting why on here. But I don't, so stop planning stupid things for me to go do where I will "conveniently" need a sitter.

*FIL*
-You creep me the fuck out. That is all.
-Oh yeah... and if I catch you checking out my mother's ass one more time... I will gouge your eyeballs out. I know I have a hot mom, but have some composure here.

*OH*
-If I have an opportunity to find work after over a year of being unemployed... don't whine about how hard it will be to have to feed him at 645am and take him to daycare before you go to work, it doesnt even begin to make up for the inequality in our effort of parenting.
-Do you need to grow up? yes. You have two kids... get with it.
-You need to start making your family at home your priority, not your friends straight after work.
-Even your friends think you don't appreciate me, need to grow up, and that I can do better.

 

[cowboys angel]

1) I'm impressed you read all 37 pages of the thread.

2)

 

[BabySeal]

1) I'm impressed you read all 37 pages of the thread.

2)

Well, I was gonna post in it a looong time ago, then it got real long and I didnt want to read it all but then this thread took off and I felt left behind on the ranting boat... so I read it alllll!

 

[cowboys angel]

1) I'm impressed you read all 37 pages of the thread.

2)

Well, I was gonna post in it a looong time ago, then it got real long and I didnt want to read it all but then this thread took off and I felt left behind on the ranting boat... so I read it alllll!

Very nice!

And I think I've said this before, but our LOs have almost the same birthday! lol

 

[secretbaby]

........sorry had to delete - don't know how to delet a post - realised it was not wise to post my inner most thoughts on here! bit too much sorry.

 

[minkymoo]

........sorry had to delete - don't know how to delet a post - realised it was not wise to post my inner most thoughts on here! bit too much sorry.

awww, I wanna see it now

 

[Scarlett316]

........sorry had to delete - don't know how to delet a post - realised it was not wise to post my inner most thoughts on here! bit too much sorry.

awww, I wanna see it now

Me too, it must be bad if you felt the need to delete, you ok?

 

[BabySeal]

........sorry had to delete - don't know how to delet a post - realised it was not wise to post my inner most thoughts on here! bit too much sorry.

awww, I wanna see it now

hehe mee too... it makes me feel better about my own thoughts

 

[patch2006uk]

To pretty much everyone-

We don't drive or have a car. Well spotted. This is by choice. We don't need a lift to the bus stop, it's at the end of the road and you don't have a car seat. Yes, Isaac is attached to me in the sling, but that's not safe either. No, not even for a short journey if I'm wearing a seatbelt round us both (isn't that more dangerous!?). No, really, it's not too cold to be walking. It's seriously 3 minutes. Gah!

 

[112110]

To my Grandma-
Yes, I do realize there's "more than one way to parent" but why don't you take your own advice. He's my son why do I have to do things your way just because you don't agree.
Yes, I will listen to your opinion or "advice" but if I don't agree don't yell at me for not doing what you tell me (you think) is right.

 

[amynorange]

haha love it

My grandmother was HORRIBLE about this Til I told her it was not how I was going to parent my son. And his godmother asked why he wasn't sttn at a week old!!

To grandmother: Quit calling him "my baby" everytime you see him or talk about him. I carried him in MY body for nearly 10 months. I am his mother, not you. He's MY son

No, he isn't a grumpy baby, he's actually a very happy one. He just doesn't know you, and he loves his momma. nothing wrong with that.

Yes, I do let him try certain things of adult food as long as they're soft and mushy. That doesn't mean you can give him whatever you want. Before you try to do it, ask me first

No, I wasn't able to breastfeed. He is formula fed and that doesn't mean I'm a bad mom

I don't let him cry it out. I want him to know I'm there when he needs me. The only reason he's crying is cuz he needs something. He's never cried just to cry.

Exactly the same thing but to my mum! Loathe it entirely! He's MY baby! MY BABY!!!!

 

[LJaydow]

OH - You might think you are being just fine at being daddy, but you need to be here more! I know you like working, but days nights and weekends are getting too much and i feel like im raising him on my own

oh, and thanks for your support. You didnt show much when i told you i was diagnosed with PND 2 days ago, and asking how my 'dark moments' are just makes me want to bounce you all around the kitchen

 

[Lettuce]

OH - You might think you are being just fine at being daddy, but you need to be here more! I know you like working, but days nights and weekends are getting too much and i feel like im raising him on my own

oh, and thanks for your support. You didnt show much when i told you i was diagnosed with PND 2 days ago, and asking how my 'dark moments' are just makes me want to bounce you all around the kitchen

he deserves a smack...

SIL, yes, that is a massive bra, but I have always had large boobs and now they are full of milk, its worse. But please take it off your head to demonstrate how big it is... Or I will be forced to squirt you in the eye...

 

[cowboys angel]

 

[pinklightbulb]

LJaydow, apart from PND I could have wrote that! Your OH needs a kick up the bum...

 

[LJaydow]

LJaydow, apart from PND I could have wrote that! Your OH needs a kick up the bum...

Oh fear not, ive put a kick up the arse in the post to him - if he carries on asking about my dark moments he will experience one first hand and i will not be held responsible!

Cheesed off enough as it is, now im on my own all during the day, and at night now too. Ta very much