Things I cannot say out loud....

[Emmy1987]

Daisy- please please shut up! It's not my fault your daddy woke you up before pottering off to work and you're now incredibly pissed off. Please stop screaming. Please.

OH - ^^ THIS. Thanks. Cus I'm not having enough fun on my own all frigging day, let's just not give me a minute to think about it eh?

 

[MrsNovBaby]

To my nailpolish:
Why after only 2 days of wear, your chipping already?!?!!

^ this... How bloody annoying! I was so proud of myself for painting my nails like a real yummy mummy and now it's all chipped- now a scummy mummy

To MIL (again, I know) if you EVER slap me again whether it's in "jest" or not, I will not let you anywhere near me or my daughter again.
I was talking to the other mum about our babies, seeing as you don't have one, butt out! We were talking about j's reflux (just mild) and I was saying how she had good days and bad days, MIL was being nosey and only caught the last bit, and thought I was saying Jenny was a bad baby, and so she slapped me on the arm and said "don't you say that about her,my granddaughter is perfect" it was a wee bit sore. How dare she raise a hand to me?!! in front of a whole wedding?! About something that's none of her business?! Even if I was was saying she was a nightmare,it's STILL none of her business!
God, writing this reminds me how angry I am!
What am I going to do? My mum wouldn't think about hitting me. What if she smacks my daughter...? Am I worrying unnecessarily? It wasn't. Hard smack, but I still think she had no right!

Emmy, hope you find some new pals soon, good idea to ask at the doctors! X

What a bitch of a MIL! None of her business says it all. I would refuse for her to see either you or baby xx

 

[BabyBoo36]

OH, I am so angry with you right now, I cannot speak. You have a beautiful daughter, who we very nearly lost. The least you could do is put the f*****g computer down long enough to acknowledge her. All I asked you to do was watch her for an hour so I could actually have some tea. She was smiling and cooing at you, and you were too busy reading bloody facebook to even notice. Facebook is NOT more important than our daughter. I can count on one hand the number of times you have fed her, or changed her nappy. When people say 'Oh, I bet he's really good with her', I want to scream 'He doesn't bother.' I'm sick of you parading her round if we go out, like the doting father, when you do naff all to help at home. And for your information, getting up at 4am to put the fecking washing machine on is NOT helping. I can do that myself. Helping is offering to do a night feed on a weekend, or taking her for an hour in the evening so I can catch up on an hours sleep. I seriously did not think you would be like this, and feel horribly let down..............

 

[BabyBoo36]

Oh, and do not come to me in a few months, upset because she only wants me. It's your own fault.

 

[Scarlett316]

Oh, and do not come to me in a few months, upset because she only wants me. It's your own fault.

Tell me where you live, I'm coming round to beat his ass!!!

Anyone else want to come?

 

[Ozzieshunni]

To DH's friend (and mine too): YOU ARE A TWAT!!!!! You met this girl, what, six months ago and you're already engaged???? Your GRANDMOTHER found out through your Facebook! No one knew you were dating her and she didn't meet your family until after you were engaged! Are you actually that selfish? You cheated on your ex-gf and made her feel like shit then had the bloody nerve to break up with her in OUR HOUSE!!!! You are a moron and I give this marriage a year tops. This poor girl doesn't know what she's in for when you toddle off to Germany. I give it a month before you're shagging some German girl because you can't keep it in your pants.

DH: I don't care that she's his fiancee. She will NOT be holding LO! I don't know her at all! Would you give LO to a stranger on the street? I think not!

 

[cowboys angel]

Oh, and do not come to me in a few months, upset because she only wants me. It's your own fault.

Tell me where you live, I'm coming round to beat his ass!!!

Anyone else want to come?

I'll come!

 

[BabyBoo36]

Oh, and do not come to me in a few months, upset because she only wants me. It's your own fault.

Tell me where you live, I'm coming round to beat his ass!!!

Anyone else want to come?

Please do, as I'm seriously pissed at him right now. He was so broody, I thought I'd have to fight him for the baby, not fight him to even bother with her

 

[MissFox]

Oh, and do not come to me in a few months, upset because she only wants me. It's your own fault.

Tell me where you live, I'm coming round to beat his ass!!!

Anyone else want to come?

Please do, as I'm seriously pissed at him right now. He was so broody, I thought I'd have to fight him for the baby, not fight him to even bother with her

I'm so sorry. I thought It was gonna be like this for us. Granted after my csection he changes all the diapers for the first few days but now he tries his hardest to get away with not changing diapers. So frustrating. He had SIL. watch heryesterday while he was supposed to si he could play xbox

 

[BabyBoo36]

Oh, and do not come to me in a few months, upset because she only wants me. It's your own fault.

Tell me where you live, I'm coming round to beat his ass!!!

Anyone else want to come?

Please do, as I'm seriously pissed at him right now. He was so broody, I thought I'd have to fight him for the baby, not fight him to even bother with her

I'm so sorry. I thought It was gonna be like this for us. Granted after my csection he changes all the diapers for the first few days but now he tries his hardest to get away with not changing diapers. So frustrating. He had SIL. watch heryesterday while he was supposed to si he could play xbox

It's soul destroying isn't it? I don't like to slag him off, but when people say "Oh Daddy's got his little princess, I bet he's besotted', I actually want to tell them the truth. I'm hoping he gets better once she's older, but I'm really feeling so resentful of him right now. I tried to talk to him about it last night, but he just denies hes on it for so long - I honestly think he doesn't realise how long he's on it. Last night he came home at 7pm, went straight on FB, and eventually came off it at 11.30. Then he's knackered cos he's up for work at 7am, and snaps at her when she wakes in the night and cries. He's so stubborn though, he can't be told. x

 

[minkymoo]

My OH was a little like this at the start, ladies, although he looked after me so well when I recovered from the delivery. I told him I may as well have been a single parent. He admitted he might have had a touch of PND because men do have it too. He found the birth very traumatic and then struggled to accept a new way of life for about 6 weeks.

He is soooooo much better now, he absolutely dotes on her and rarely touches that f-ing PS3.

 

[MissFox]

DH please stop telling me I'm depressed. I know I've had issues with it in the past but I can assure you this is not pnd. This is not fixable win a pill. This us me unhappy and wanting more.

I've also told him I mind as well be a single mom to 2 children. He stays home but doesn't do hardly what I would be doing as a sahm. I hate telling people e is a sand bc my house is a mess and I still have to do the laundry and dishes and general cleaning.

 

[sweetthang24]

dear ,Amy is perfectly fine just drinking water, she does not need juice because it will taste better. she's drinking water without a fuss so why change it? i want to keep away from that much sugar for as long as i can.

thank you

 

[Ozzieshunni]

DH (again!): So you have a headache. Big deal! I don't get a damn break when I have a headache, stomach ache, etc so screw you!!!!

 

[Lettuce]

My we are an angry lot today aren't we?!

to you all! I'll add my DH rant...

I do not "get a break" visiting my friends, I leave the flat as you work from home and I try to give you peace to work, I still have to feed, change and entertain our daughter- just not in the comfort of my own home!
Oh, and btw, you are not entitled to just sit and watch the simpsons anymore! If Jen is sleeping or content in her chair you will see me running around desperately trying catch up on housework and you can't even take the bin out when I've asked for four days!! (yes, I know that is disgusting and I am ashamed... )
I know you've been working, but my job now is far harder than yours!
Stop complaining about your weight and stop eating my special breastfeeding stash of chocolate!


that's better... xxx

 

[elephant29]

My we are an angry lot today aren't we?!

to you all! I'll add my DH rant...

I do not "get a break" visiting my friends, I leave the flat as you work from home and I try to give you peace to work, I still have to feed, change and entertain our daughter- just not in the comfort of my own home!
Oh, and btw, you are not entitled to just sit and watch the simpsons anymore! If Jen is sleeping or content in her chair you will see me running around desperately trying catch up on housework and you can't even take the bin out when I've asked for four days!! (yes, I know that is disgusting and I am ashamed... )
I know you've been working, but my job now is far harder than yours!
Stop complaining about your weight and stop eating my special breastfeeding stash of chocolate!


that's better... xxx

Glad you feel better!!

This is soo my life, haha. OH thinks that whilst I'm putting Aria to bed he can immediately go on the laptop, leaving all her toys etc lying around. I just repeated every single time that he needed to do it and now he does!

xxx

 

[Lettuce]

Must try that! xx

 

[cowboys angel]

Just...just....

"fuck you"

 

[ClaireMuir123]

To my sister - do not bring your kids back into my house until they can learn how to behave. I will NOT allow your son and daughter to fight like cat and dog in my house infront of my son and new baby, I will not allow your (almost 4yr old son) to scream like a baby so loud it gives me a headache and I will NOT accept you storming out swearing and slamming my front door and leaving your 9yr old daugher behind. I have just had a baby and am trying to adjust to being a family of 4 with raging hormones without you acting like a fucking petulant child. Grow up and take responsibility for the kids you brought into this world.

 

[Lettuce]

Just...just....

"fuck you"