Things I cannot say out loud....

[meercat23]

Broken..
Nat good luck,,

 

[tommyg]

Michelle just rotten you sis can't be bothered to see her own family. I struggle to see/ understand why she is doing that. Is she being presured by her OH or something?? Struggling to conceive?

I'm guessing there's a reason. My sis (and bil) can't get enough of my wee guy despite having 2 of her own.
OHs sis sees him occasionally, his brother and wife can't be arshed. I know they are ltttc but a bit more than 10 mins a year can't hurt, can it?
I'm really struggling coming to terms with bils death. He was the only uncle my son actually knew.

DH is pushing me to make a will including who will raise DS if anything happened to us. It doesn't seem right to put extra pressure on my sis but who else do we ask?

 

[x Michelle x]

i think she is just in a mega sulk and has decided that everyone needs to apologise to her they aren't TTC (as far as i know as she said they would wait until married and they aren't even engaged yet... as far as i know...)
Her OH is very loud and opinionated, we all noticed she changed since they have been together and not in a good way (not a domestic violence way) she is just so loud and everyone needs to hear her (right) opinion.

 

[Lettuce]

It's horrid when a close friend or family member changes when they get with a partner. It always sets alarm bells ringing doesn't it? Not in a DV way, just a worried way.
I'm sorry tommy, I think you would have to ask her, but I don't think she would mind, hopefully she'd never need to step in anyway.
Oh meercat bloody hell, it's awful. The stress of it all is probably causing a flare up. I was mega scared too, with MRIs and nerve function tests. Fibromyalgia is the lesser of the two evils but it def sucks too. People say things like "whats the point in worrying til you know?" etc, but that is not helpful. if you need a chat, pm me anytime. I guess once you know, you know and can make a game plan. Try not to let yourself jump ahead, hard as it seems. I hope you get results soon.

 

[meercat23]

to all you ladies! Thank you Lettuce I appreciate it !! It's nice to know I'm not on my own and u understand!!will keep u post on this rock road ...

To my so called best friend: thank sooooo much for being there, when I need u the most NOT

 

[Fergie]

I want to scream this but can't (jnr & Boo are both sleeping).

THERE'S A MOOSE LOOSE ABOOT THIS HOOSE ... No joke either (although i can't stop singing that rowntrees advert song now . I don't like killing them, but i swear if it comes anywhere near my kids it's going to mouse heaven quicker than it can blink.

 

[Lettuce]

Great, now I have the song in my head!
How are you feeling now fergie? I had a PPH too (2.5litres) and looking back I was dead on my feet! I wish I'd been told to take it easy and not have visitors etc. I felt much better 3 weeks later and my bloods were normal at 6 weeks PP! Seems I make a Lot of blood! how's wee Harris settling in?
Oh as for the mouse how about getting one of those plug in things that are meant o chase them out? I think they emit a high pitched noise or something.

 

[Natsku]

Hope the mouse buggers off!

Still lots of packing to do but I just want to sit on the computer and drink endless cups of tea *sigh*

 

[Fergie]

Mouse sadly went to mousey heaven last night .

I'm not doing too bad now thanks Lettuce. I haven't had my blood checked as yet, but i'm hoping they're not as bad as they were .

Today has been one of the worst days ever. My mum found out this morning she has bowel cancer. I don't know what to do, i'm devastated. She doesn't want anyone outwith the family knowing until she finds out how bad it is so i can't really speak to anyone. I can't manage without my mum.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Oh Fergie. Big big big big big hunny. I hope its something they can treat

 

[Natsku]

hope its treatable

 

[Lettuce]

I hope it's been caught early, please try not to despair, treatment is so much better nowadays.

 

[Fergie]

Thanks ladies

 

[StarlitHome]

Momo, I'm sorry, but my boobs/nipples HURT from your constant nursing. You'll be 20 months old in a few days and 2 years old in 4 months and I think it's time you ate more FOOD-food.
So... say goodbye to the boobs, except at nighttime and naptime.

 

[Natsku]

Good luck with restricting booby!

Moving day eeek!!! Excited! But also in a lot of pain, it seems I have hemorrhoids (well have for a while but the last couple of days its just hurt all the time) I guess I should just go buy some cream from the chemists but I'm too embarrassed urgh sometimes I think I must still be a teenager, getting embarrassed over silly things.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

I'm irrationally worried about putting Joshy in a bed tonight. I rather liked the idea of him being safe in his cot.

I just keep telling myself he'll be a hundred times happier if he can get the toys he drops instead of screaming multiple times a night for us to do it.

Am I pushing him too fast... I'm worried :/

 

[Natsku]

Don't worry, he'll be fine in the bed

 

[tanya]

Flynn went into a low bed at 18 months, he's been rolling over and boing into the wood sides so we've put it up as a proper height single (its an ikea kura and really versatile) we've put a bed guard on but its quite high, I've had to put a stool next to it so he can climb in and out but he's already had a lie down and a play on it and got up and down ok so I'm hoping he doesn't fall out.

 

[Lettuce]

How's the booby restricting going?
Oh dear Nats, sorry about your piles! ouchie!
Did Joshy and Flynn do ok in their beds? Jen has a cotbed and I'm thinking of takin the sides off...

 

[Natsku]

I sent Timo to get piles cream

Lots of work to do today, so many boxes to unpack and organise but soon my home with be a home