Lettuce
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It's a lottery tho Ozzie, you never know if she's going to go hours or a paltry 4! and once she's up, she's up...
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Things I cannot say out loud....
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It's a lottery tho Ozzie, you never know if she's going to go hours or a paltry 4! and once she's up, she's up...
xx
ClaireMuir123
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To my in-laws (who I don't generally have any issues with) Stop trying to get my son to kiss everyone! He is 3yrs old and if he doesn't want to kiss aunt Jean he doesn't have to!! And certainly don't threaten to take his toy dinosaur away that he bought with his own money!!! Honestly, if he wants to kiss someone goodbye then he will, do not force him.
Hubby - By God I love you but do not tell me you are tired. I understand you've been looking after Jayden more and taking him out etc but I'm still recovering from a c-section and looking after Ava and trying to keep a semi-tidy house. And doing 95% of the night feeds. You'd better be getting up tonight or I will not be a happy lady xxx
Hubby - By God I love you but do not tell me you are tired. I understand you've been looking after Jayden more and taking him out etc but I'm still recovering from a c-section and looking after Ava and trying to keep a semi-tidy house. And doing 95% of the night feeds. You'd better be getting up tonight or I will not be a happy lady xxx
I know you appreciated she could be hard but know you KNOW how full on she is. 
Cupkake.Luver
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To my belly fat:
Really? Can you go away now?
Kthxbai.
Really? Can you go away now?
Kthxbai.
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Ozzieshunni
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Wee man: love you to bits but what happened to getting up once during the night? This whole every one and a half to two hours stuff is getting old fast.
sjminimac
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i know maternity leave isn't real life and being a working mummy is real life, but real life is shit and work is shit and just because the baby didn't cry when he was dropped off at nursery doesn't mean i won't cry when i get to work 
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BabyBoo36
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To my boobs,
I know I couldn't breast feed and have been expressing for 6 weeks. However, you've now stopped me doing that as you've got your left nipple in a right mess, and your right boob seems to be no longer working anyway. Either let me express more than 2 fecking drops by hand, or stop being so sore and swollen. I can't even snuggle Little Pud on my chest as you're so sore, and I'm gutted that I can't express anymore
I know I couldn't breast feed and have been expressing for 6 weeks. However, you've now stopped me doing that as you've got your left nipple in a right mess, and your right boob seems to be no longer working anyway. Either let me express more than 2 fecking drops by hand, or stop being so sore and swollen. I can't even snuggle Little Pud on my chest as you're so sore, and I'm gutted that I can't express anymore
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To my dog- please stop being an idiot, you're making my life way more stressful than it needs to be right now 
If you walk right by the pram wheels, then yes, with my driving skills you are going to get your toes run over! And if you didn't bark and howl everytime I left you in the house for longer than 5 mins then I wouldn't have to cart you around everywhere I go!
I do love you lots tho!
If you walk right by the pram wheels, then yes, with my driving skills you are going to get your toes run over! And if you didn't bark and howl everytime I left you in the house for longer than 5 mins then I wouldn't have to cart you around everywhere I go!
I do love you lots tho!
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Ozzieshunni
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To my boobs,
I know I couldn't breast feed and have been expressing for 6 weeks. However, you've now stopped me doing that as you've got your left nipple in a right mess, and your right boob seems to be no longer working anyway. Either let me express more than 2 fecking drops by hand, or stop being so sore and swollen. I can't even snuggle Little Pud on my chest as you're so sore, and I'm gutted that I can't express anymore
I would get checked by a doctor hun. Sounds like mastitis
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Kalah
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to OH -
I'm getting sick and tired of your attitude. I can tell you're scared now that I have my own money and could afford to leave your sorry ass. Either shape up, or I will leave you. I have plenty of family back home that would be thrilled for me to move back home, and you know it. If you don't start appreciating the loving wife and daughter you have we will leave and never look back and you can be sad all by yourself. Yes I know that you can't help but be sad, but you're the one who refuses medication or therapy. I don't need or want you dragging me down with your sad mood and annoying attitude every day.
I really don't want to have to leave you, especially as we've just moved into this house and I don't want to leave you in it alone but it's not like the benefits you could would change much you'd still be able to afford it and I can't keep letting you bring me down and make me feel like shit all the time.
I'm getting sick and tired of your attitude. I can tell you're scared now that I have my own money and could afford to leave your sorry ass. Either shape up, or I will leave you. I have plenty of family back home that would be thrilled for me to move back home, and you know it. If you don't start appreciating the loving wife and daughter you have we will leave and never look back and you can be sad all by yourself. Yes I know that you can't help but be sad, but you're the one who refuses medication or therapy. I don't need or want you dragging me down with your sad mood and annoying attitude every day.
I really don't want to have to leave you, especially as we've just moved into this house and I don't want to leave you in it alone but it's not like the benefits you could would change much you'd still be able to afford it and I can't keep letting you bring me down and make me feel like shit all the time.
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To my father,
Can I not just make one stupid banal decision without it being put to the committee first?! For god's sake, I don't need your words of wisdom about everything, and especially not about a journey I've made thousands of times!!
Can I not just make one stupid banal decision without it being put to the committee first?! For god's sake, I don't need your words of wisdom about everything, and especially not about a journey I've made thousands of times!!
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To OH - Maria is not a dog so I will not train her like one. I will not flick her hand to "punish" her for pulling hair and I'd appreciate it if you would not do it either.
Well except I did say that out loud but he still thinks he knows better
Well except I did say that out loud but he still thinks he knows better
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BabyBoo36
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To my boobs,
I know I couldn't breast feed and have been expressing for 6 weeks. However, you've now stopped me doing that as you've got your left nipple in a right mess, and your right boob seems to be no longer working anyway. Either let me express more than 2 fecking drops by hand, or stop being so sore and swollen. I can't even snuggle Little Pud on my chest as you're so sore, and I'm gutted that I can't express anymore
Thanks hun. I've got my breast feeding buddy coming tomoz so will get her to check. Have just managed to express 1oz off the right one, but have to hand express off the left so could be sat here with my boobs out for some time....
Odd Socks
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Dear oh,
Today, you're being a f**king tool. So it seems every time I sit or stand up, my stomach cramps up & the only thing that makes it bearable is lying down. So what have I been doing? Running around after our daughter, making sure she has her lunch, giving her a bottle, entertaining her when she climbed into the bed & jumped onto my stomach, while you've done not much more than read the newspaper & complain that you're tired.
I think this is a little more serious than you being tired, simply because you were too busy watching some crap on the telly to come to bed.
& you know what? You'll get time to rest when I take bella out with a friend tomorrow, & on Wednesday, Thursday & Friday because even though you're signed off work, you're still sending bella off to the childminder. Which I wouldn't mind so much if you'd use a bit of the time to do housework, instead of sleeping & going to the cinema.
Seriously, sometimes it's really, really hard to love you.
Today, you're being a f**king tool. So it seems every time I sit or stand up, my stomach cramps up & the only thing that makes it bearable is lying down. So what have I been doing? Running around after our daughter, making sure she has her lunch, giving her a bottle, entertaining her when she climbed into the bed & jumped onto my stomach, while you've done not much more than read the newspaper & complain that you're tired.
I think this is a little more serious than you being tired, simply because you were too busy watching some crap on the telly to come to bed.
& you know what? You'll get time to rest when I take bella out with a friend tomorrow, & on Wednesday, Thursday & Friday because even though you're signed off work, you're still sending bella off to the childminder. Which I wouldn't mind so much if you'd use a bit of the time to do housework, instead of sleeping & going to the cinema.
Seriously, sometimes it's really, really hard to love you.
Lettuce
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To this pp bleeding, or my period or whatever it is:
I know yesterday I was crapping myself in case it was implantation bleeding and was praying for me to be mistaken, but I didn't want to PROPERLY start bleeding again! Would you just stop stop STOP.
Thank you.
I know yesterday I was crapping myself in case it was implantation bleeding and was praying for me to be mistaken, but I didn't want to PROPERLY start bleeding again! Would you just stop stop STOP.
Thank you.
Cupkake.Luver
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MissFox
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DH you were rude and made me cry yesterday. You made me regret letting you come home. I was sick and you let Rosie cry bc you can't cook dinner and pay attention to her. Do you see what I do now? Nope. Instead I had to take over since it would burn. I almost passed out 3 times. Thanks. I really am trying to make this work and you're making it harder.
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To my mom
My son is happy, healthy and growing. He is knocking down milestones as fast as he comes up to them. Freaking out at me over BLW and condemning my parenting method has permentantly damaged our relationship. I actually liked having my mother around for advice and to share the first thing that we have ever had in common, ie being mothers. I know you are mentally unwell and I hope that you will get the help that you need and be a mother to me, and a grandmother to your grandson.
To my dad
Get your head out of the sand and realize that Mom is sick, and not right in the head and needs more then just having you around. She is systematically pushing both of her daughters away from her and you. I want my son to know his grandparents but you have to make the effort to make this right.
My son is happy, healthy and growing. He is knocking down milestones as fast as he comes up to them. Freaking out at me over BLW and condemning my parenting method has permentantly damaged our relationship. I actually liked having my mother around for advice and to share the first thing that we have ever had in common, ie being mothers. I know you are mentally unwell and I hope that you will get the help that you need and be a mother to me, and a grandmother to your grandson.
To my dad
Get your head out of the sand and realize that Mom is sick, and not right in the head and needs more then just having you around. She is systematically pushing both of her daughters away from her and you. I want my son to know his grandparents but you have to make the effort to make this right.
