Things I cannot say out loud....

[Ozzieshunni]

Yup, even if I were collecting, I would pay via PayPal if it was related to Ebay.

 

[Kalah]

You'd pay via paypal even if you were picking the item up? I'm just not sure if i was to pay now and he doesn't arrange a time to collect then I've got a fight to get my money back. If I stick with payon collection and he doesn't arrange a time then I've not lost anything. Mmmmmm

If you pay with paypal and he doesn't let you collect you can dispute it through ebay or paypal and you'll get your money back =)
But it's only $31 anyway so I would probably pay on collection too.

 

[tommyg]

Where are you now Kalah? Are you back in the states?

I think I'll try contacting ebay and see what they advise.

 

[Kalah]

Where are you now Kalah? Are you back in the states?

I think I'll try contacting ebay and see what they advise.

No not yet =(
The person who was going to buy me a ticket..well I don't know what's going on with that, but it doesn't seem to be happening. My mom's just started a little facebook event to raise money through donations from our friends and family to pay for the flight. I don't actually think we'll be able to get enough for the flights but I suppose it's better than sitting around doing nothing. In a way I'm scared to leave, just because everything will be so uncertain. At least here I know that no matter how stressful things are for me there is always money to get what Kili needs every week. Once I leave I have just nothing...it's scary

 

[divadexie]

Dear friend. Please just accept that you need help. I am worried about you stop putting on a brave face and listen to what the people around you are saying. We are not all trying to get your back up, we are trying to help you.

 

[missVN]

To my OH- Aaaaaaaaagggggggggggghhhhhhhh!!!!!

That is all

 

[Lettuce]

To my BFF.... You know you and I are not demonstrative people, this is why I cant say this out loud - I love you, you're the funniest, nuttiest, most loyal person I know and I'm honoured to be your friend.

DH: tho I told you I was gutted lo didn't take to a bottle tonight I'm secretly delighted that she loves milk from the tap.... Sorry! tho im gutted as it took bloody hours to express that milk! xx

 

[Kalah]

To these delicious chocolate cupcakes sitting in front of me: I am going to eat both of you now.

To my belly: please ignore the cupcakes.

 

[Kalah]

I wish I could just eat the chocolate but then not have to digest it or keep the calories..I considered that whole bulimic idea but it sounds gross, and after I eat I don't want to get up for at least 20 minutes

 

[Natsku]

Natsku I'm so glad you are both safe. And thumbs up to the in-laws for helping you can't be easy to back daughter in law over your own son.

I'm not sure if councilling would work he clearly has mental problems that need sorted. What do you inlaws think? They must know what he is like?

I think they want to help find him the right treatment. They also think things would be better once we move and arent living in one tiny room together 24 hours a day - it probably would be better if we can escape to other rooms when we're getting on each other's nerves.
I haven't phoned him yet, I really want to but I think I should leave it a bit longer.

 

[Lettuce]

Yeah, I think leaving it for a while is a good idea! hopefully with all of your support he'll get the help. How awkward to be stuck 24/7,I kind of understand- my DH works from home, we only have a 2bed flat, so it's a bit tight sometimes. xxx

 

[Kalah]

Natsku I'm so glad you are both safe. And thumbs up to the in-laws for helping you can't be easy to back daughter in law over your own son.

I'm not sure if councilling would work he clearly has mental problems that need sorted. What do you inlaws think? They must know what he is like?

I think they want to help find him the right treatment. They also think things would be better once we move and arent living in one tiny room together 24 hours a day - it probably would be better if we can escape to other rooms when we're getting on each other's nerves.
I haven't phoned him yet, I really want to but I think I should leave it a bit longer.

I thought the same thing about all being in one room and thought things would be better with an entire house..it didn't work though

 

[Smithsmith]

to MIL - stop posting all over my facebook about what a wonderful daddy DH is and how proud you are. Yes he is wonderful and I adore the man, but I am the one at home each day doing the hard work and a little bit of support / encouragement would go a long way...

 

[Natsku]

Natsku I'm so glad you are both safe. And thumbs up to the in-laws for helping you can't be easy to back daughter in law over your own son.

I'm not sure if councilling would work he clearly has mental problems that need sorted. What do you inlaws think? They must know what he is like?

I think they want to help find him the right treatment. They also think things would be better once we move and arent living in one tiny room together 24 hours a day - it probably would be better if we can escape to other rooms when we're getting on each other's nerves.
I haven't phoned him yet, I really want to but I think I should leave it a bit longer.

I thought the same thing about all being in one room and thought things would be better with an entire house..it didn't work though

I'm sorry things didn't work for you guys, our situations are so similar - it was actually you that gave me the guts to leave (even if it might only be for a while). I hope you get to the US soon.

 

[Kalah]

Natsku I'm so glad you are both safe. And thumbs up to the in-laws for helping you can't be easy to back daughter in law over your own son.

I'm not sure if councilling would work he clearly has mental problems that need sorted. What do you inlaws think? They must know what he is like?

I think they want to help find him the right treatment. They also think things would be better once we move and arent living in one tiny room together 24 hours a day - it probably would be better if we can escape to other rooms when we're getting on each other's nerves.
I haven't phoned him yet, I really want to but I think I should leave it a bit longer.

I thought the same thing about all being in one room and thought things would be better with an entire house..it didn't work though

I'm sorry things didn't work for you guys, our situations are so similar - it was actually you that gave me the guts to leave (even if it might only be for a while). I hope you get to the US soon.

aww really? I'm glad to know I inspired you, even if it is only for a little while that's still much further than most women get when they're not happy. It's amazing the number of women who are in situations like ours, many will never leave and many will. It is very scary though, the thought of being a single mom terrifies me, it just seems so hard. Just taking care of Kili is tough on it's own, but add work and daycare to that, along with me not having a car (or even knowing how to drive), and very limited work experience, and the fact that there won't be benefits to help with childcare so my entire check will go to daycare (which makes me question what's the point!) and then there's societies view on single moms..like we've some how failed even when we do our best!

 

[satine51]

To MIL: thank you for all the presents you give our LO, all the cute outfits and toys are great BUT it would be nicer if you could give us some practical support! Cook us dinner or do some ironing? Don't say you haven't got time to go out with us for a walk, you are retired for god's sake! Don't think that spending an hour a week with LO is a lot!!

 

[mummy2lola]

Dh-I've always told u I don't mind u looking at porn but if I find out ur looking at it in bed next to me while me and ur daughter are asleep again I'm going to gauge ur eyes out with a fork xx

 

[Kalah]

Dh-I've always told u I don't mind u looking at porn but if I find out ur looking at it in bed next to me while me and ur daughter are asleep again I'm going to gauge ur eyes out with a fork xx

Ugh men! What is about porn that is so addicting they would think it's ok to look at it with a child around!

 

[chichestermum]

Dh-I've always told u I don't mind u looking at porn but if I find out ur looking at it in bed next to me while me and ur daughter are asleep again I'm going to gauge ur eyes out with a fork xx

wow your leniant! (sorry i cant spell!!) if i found out my OH was looking at porn ever then i would gauge his eyes out, if i found him looking at it in bed next to me then there would never be a point in him looking at it ever again as he wouldnt have anything to arouse lol!

 

[Lettuce]

Dear God, why did you make babies with internal spirit levels? she knows everytime I go to lie her down...