Things I cannot say out loud....

[MizzDeeDee]

Okay rant 2....FOB when I speak to my friends I don't expect to find out you've been bullying them & threatening them that they won't see 'your son' without you being there.

1...he is my son, you are his sperm donor.
2...my friends will see him when they like, you have no say or imput & you will not be there to lord it up like super dad.
3...when you stop asking to introduce my son to an ex heroin addict & people who currently take drugs/drink every night & waste their lives I might listen to what you want.
4...why the hell would I want your friend I've never met to bring his kids I've never met & you've never met to meet LO?
5...I don't care if your all down to your last effing penny. You can all sit in a coffee shop & look at the damn coffee. I WILL NOT take LO to a house he & I don't know to make it easier for your friends.
6...Just in case you weren't clear. You. Will. Not. Be. There. When. My. Friends. Meet. LO. But yes I will be there when your friends meet him...why...because I am his mother & he needs me to provide his milk. Deal with it.

Really? Why do people like to make things worse on themselves? How does he not realize it would just be better if he played nice and did what you, the mother, wanted?

 

[Natsku]

I still have clothes from the 70s...I wasn't even born then, I just stole my mum's clothes my favourite hat is from then

Is it a pimp hat with a feather in it??? Please say yes.

Sadly no. And now I'm disappointed it isn't I'm gonna have words with my mum and ask where her pimp hat is.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

https://www.deviantpictures.com/trippinmovie/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/pimp-drosselmeyer.jpg

 

[MizzDeeDee]

I still have clothes from the 70s...I wasn't even born then, I just stole my mum's clothes my favourite hat is from then

Is it a pimp hat with a feather in it??? Please say yes.

Sadly no. And now I'm disappointed it isn't I'm gonna have words with my mum and ask where her pimp hat is.

I would.. and ask her if she knows anyone named UpGrade or Silver Tongue or Pimp Daddy Harper.

https://www.playerappreciate.com/pimphandle.asp

(Joking.. I'm sure your mommy is a nice lady)

 

[MizzDeeDee]

https://www.deviantpictures.com/trippinmovie/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/pimp-drosselmeyer.jpg

Clearly a pimp outfit.. but in all seriousness.. couldn't that just double as an outfit for Elton John too?

 

[lisaf]

I think your DAD probably has the pimp hat, lol... you've been asking the wrong person

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

https://www.deviantpictures.com/trippinmovie/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/pimp-drosselmeyer.jpg

Clearly a pimp outfit.. but in all seriousness.. couldn't that just double as an outfit for Elton John too?

I am fairly certain I have seen a cheapo fake of this exact outfit outside my local 'xtras' store. I now feel the need to buy one

Also...I have no idea why he won't just listen to me. Something about not being walked all over 'this time round'...

 

[BabyBoo36]

https://www.deviantpictures.com/trippinmovie/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/pimp-drosselmeyer.jpg

Clearly a pimp outfit.. but in all seriousness.. couldn't that just double as an outfit for Elton John too?

I thought that WAS Elton John???.......I'm very tired.......!

 

[MizzDeeDee]

https://www.deviantpictures.com/trippinmovie/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/pimp-drosselmeyer.jpg

Clearly a pimp outfit.. but in all seriousness.. couldn't that just double as an outfit for Elton John too?

I am fairly certain I have seen a cheapo fake of this exact outfit outside my local 'xtras' store. I now feel the need to buy one

Also...I have no idea why he won't just listen to me. Something about not being walked all over 'this time round'...

What person would think any mom would feel comfortable with their child around people they don't know or people that do questionable things...

I don't get it.. I see it alot on here... FOB, family members, In laws.. that just shoot themselves in the foot.

Why not just play along? It would be more likely that you might get what you want if you at least try to play along....

 

[Natsku]

Damnit now I want a pimp outfit!

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Clearly a pimp outfit.. but in all seriousness.. couldn't that just double as an outfit for Elton John too?

I am fairly certain I have seen a cheapo fake of this exact outfit outside my local 'xtras' store. I now feel the need to buy one

Also...I have no idea why he won't just listen to me. Something about not being walked all over 'this time round'...

What person would think any mom would feel comfortable with their child around people they don't know or people that do questionable things...

I don't get it.. I see it alot on here... FOB, family members, In laws.. that just shoot themselves in the foot.

Why not just play along? It would be more likely that you might get what you want if you at least try to play along....

Its cos they're his friends & as such perfection incarnate. My friends = total scum that need to be watched all the time. It's very annoying.

He does seem to be coming round to the idea that backing off & agreeing with me gets him further than just screaming & demanding things like a child

 

[StarlitHome]

Could someone brilliant please invent a teleporter so I can have my baby's first Christmas with my family AND my in-laws?
I feel really down right now.
Two years ago we got married in Canada at Christmas and had both our families there. Last year, we had Christmas here with DH's family. This year... we're having Christmas here with DH's family and planning a trip north in the summer.
I want to be home with my parents and my siblings and my grandparents and my cousins.
I want my dad to play with my daughter (they haven't met yet ).
I want to bundle my daughter up and show her snow.
I miss my mom. I miss my dad. I miss my family. I just want to go home.
And I CAN'T - I have to get a new passport, I have to get a passport for my daughter, and I don't think we could swing a trip for all of us financially yet and I don't want to have Christmas without my DH, either.
And I'm just... sad.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

 

[Natsku]

it sucks when families are far apart. I spent the last 3 christmases with OH's family, miss my family this year we're compromising and not spending it with anyone!

 

[MizzDeeDee]

To those missing their family.

 

[BabyBoo36]

DH - you are a selfish, inconsiderate man. For the last 2 nights you have gone to bed early leaving me on my own. I have not had an early night, or a lie in for 21 weeks, as Pud dream feeds at 11.30pm, and is up at 6.30am. Even thou she's bottle fed, you seem totally incapable of managing to do either of these feeds. I'm sick of you saying every morning "Oh what a terrible night....." when you've slept all of it. Were you the one who got up at 4.30am to resettle her? No, that was me. I have not been able to straighten my elbows for 3 weeks. My hands are like claws, but you can't even be bothered to ask how I am. It's all "This hurts, and that hurts..." You are such a hypochondriac and it's getting me down.

Your promises to do more lasted a long time, I see...... And thank you for "forgetting" to make her bottle for tomorrow like I asked you to.....

 

[Lettuce]

at the pimp. Knowing where your dad is from nats, with that outfit on....
Ah babyboo, he needs a slap, please allow me! my husband needs one too, but seeing as it's his 30th tomorrow, I can't

Mil and SIL, you bloody better have bought DH presents this year. And SIL, you are 25, buy your own.

 

[emyandpotato]

OH- I let you sleep in til 4pm today cos you said you were poorly and I kind of owe it to you for how useless I was when I had mastitis and a fever but that does not mean you can get up and ask me to make you lunch and then go straight on Xbox Clearly you're not that poorly if you can spend hours staring at the TV. In fact that's probably WHY you have a headache. And guess what? My head kills too but I've been up all day with LO and cleaning the house from top to bottom. And don't ask me to give LO his after bath bottle just so you can go back to MW3. I had hoovering, washing, washing up, polishing etc etc to do and you'd been watching me do it all day. That is the one thing I asked you to do

Oh and I think it's completely unfair that you get to go to Amsterdam for the weekend. I know I said that I was okay with it but I'm exhausted as it is and being alone with a 3 month old baby for 4 days without anyone to even talk to won't be fun, as much as I adore LO. I know you need to see your friends and get a break but at least you get to leave the house every day. It'd be nice if you spent that kind of money on a trip for the three of us not a trip with your friends. Tbh it'd be nice if you actually wanted to do anything with us at all. You never want to go out anywhere unless it involves getting food. You just don't get how lonely I am and how I need to go out to keep myself sane.

 

[BabyBoo36]

at the pimp. Knowing where your dad is from nats, with that outfit on....
Ah babyboo, he needs a slap, please allow me! my husband needs one too, but seeing as it's his 30th tomorrow, I can't

Mil and SIL, you bloody better have bought DH presents this year. And SIL, you are 25, buy your own.

He's had more than enough "kick up the arses", unfortunately he doesn't care enough to change. Selfish, selfish, selfish.

 

[Lettuce]

Yup, I hear you. Selfish men. They wouldn't last an hour in our shoes. I have cracked and done a chore chart. If he wants to behave like a child, I'll treat him like one. Rewards include food and xbox time.
I don't mind doing the bulk of housework as I am on mat leave, but not it all!
Do you feel desperate? Like you need to make him understand, but don't know how? I told him I was thinking of divorcing him. Scared him a bit. It's true tho! xx