Third Time Lucky - Fingers Crossed!!!

[thethomsons]

Pop tart -Glad swimming helping and that symptoms nice and strong, that's always a good sign!!
Lou - Hope you are ok xxx
Everyone- Well feeling a little more positive over last couple of days, think it is because bleeding has now stopped for two days and so
I feel helps with moving on. Also DH nd I have decided to start Ttc this Sunday which is DH birthday plus 2 weeks since the D and C. I have started doing one ov test a day just to see where I'm at as my cycles can be long (about 34 days roughly). Would so love to get pg straight away as it feels good that no one would be expecting it and if we could get to 12 weeks would be a lovely surprise for our families who have had a hard time going through the 2 mc with us. So can't get my hopes up though as prob won't happen first time, could take months. Then there is the whole 3rd mc worry, sorry girls getting way ahead of myself again, my mind goes on overdrive thinking about all this. Going back to work next Wednesday and it will do me such good as will take my mind off things. Xxx

 

[CherylC3]

Pop tart yeh for symtoms hun.. I was sick on tues out of nowhere had to run but apart from tht I've been ok still got the other symtoms and did another ic and the lines are so dark now so must be progressing well I think....cx

Elaine yeah for starting on sun wot cd will u be?? Hav u started ur OPKs?x

Hey Lou :wave: how u doin??xx

 

[bananas2]

Glad all the symptoms are coming on nice and strong ladies!! And pop tart glad u found something that stops u feeling icky!!

Opk question ladies...I've gone for the clear blue digitals just so I don't end up imagining lines! Lol when do u test?? Info leaflet says any urine but smep suggests afternoon?? What did u end up going for?

Mannymoo I'm now day 6 gonna jump dh 2 nite so were ready to rock on day 8!! Have u got ur + yet??

So glad ur feeling better elaine!! Are u gonna try anything particular or just go with the flow?

Had my hospital appt yesterday was in with the dr like 5mins if that! 21day progesterone test which I expected and 18months ago I had a cyst so I'm also booked in for a full ultra sound on overies and whomb to see what's going on!! But DH was with me I thought we were done then she said I want u to do a seaman test, if we were having problems getting pg I could understand but it just seems to be me hanging on to the eggs! It took us both back abit but he said he's happy to do it and it would be intresting to see if he has homer simpson sperm or not! Lol

Take care ladies!!! X

 

[CherylC3]

I'd say afternoon Hun but I really don't like the digis they are over priced and I've never had a smiley I like the ic OPKs can't go wrong but I love squinting at lines lol..xx

 

[thethomsons]

Cheryl if my d and c was a week past on Monday I'm thinking I'm Cd 10 today, did u count d and c as cd1?
Bananas - thinking of just going with flow as conscious DH felt like a robot last time!!!

Going to do opk about tea time daily. Did that before and it worked. I'm also totally for Internet cheapies all the way!!

 

[bananas2]

Hhmm well I will give them a go this month and see how I get on! Hoping I can pin it down then hopefully will have a rough idea what day I ovulaye then will hopefully only have to test a few days around that time!! But hay I may get pg this month and won't have to test again until we decide to have baby #2!!!!!!

 

[dodgercpkl]

I just set my HSG so I'm not allowed any bd'ing until after that's over.

Bananas - I'm hoping you get your sticky bfp this cycle!!

Elaine - I don't know the answer to your question, but I hope it works out whatever you decide to count it as!

How's everyone else doing?

 

[thethomsons]

Have you had af after mc bananas?

 

[bananas2]

Yes I have elaine they came about 4 weeks after I stopped bleeding and I was probably including spotting bleeding for about 2 weeks.

Oh and FYI laddies TTC dr told me and DH yesterday that he should eat as many nuts as possible any type. Its to help his swimmers stay around longer! So as DH put it NUTS for his NUTS!!! Lol

 

[bananas2]

Oh and dodge hope everything goes ok! When is it booked for??

 

[dodgercpkl]

Wednesday next week. Bleh...

 

[bananas2]

I know its a complete pain dodge!!! But hopefully it will give u the answer that everything is ok and its just a question of getting a sticky bean!!!! And also least u hopefully won't ovulate before then so ur not missing this months chance!! Fx for u and sending u big hugs!!!!!!!!!! X

 

[dodgercpkl]

I think I'm just annoyed by the fact that everyone keeps telling me that I'll have a great chance of getting pregnant from it.... I've BEEN pregnant 2x's. Unless this is a magic trick to cause stickiness then STOP TELLING ME I"LL GET PREGNANT! Ugh. Sorry... I'm a bit on edge this week. My first due date is Sunday.

 

[bananas2]

No worries!!! Vent away!! With the tests I look at them as if they will tell me if that's the problem or not rather then that's the answer to getting pg! I also haven't worked out my due dates! 1st pg I found out I was pg on the monday and started bleeding on the wed then 2nd I mentally didn't work it out just in case and I'm glad I didn't!!! X

 

[thethomsons]

If you get a positive opk does that def mean you are going to ovulate? Heard people saying after mc sometimes you don't? I'm def getting a fade in pattern as last three tests gone from really faint to def noticeable though not yet positive!

Thanks xxxx

 

[dodgercpkl]

From my understanding a positive OPK just means that you have having a surge. Usually that positive will come a couple of days prior to ovulation, and sometimes it's the body playing tricks on us. If you temp, that's a good way of verifying that you did indeed ovulate.

Bananas - yeah I'm the same way. I don't think I have a blocked tube issue which is what a lot of ladies seem to think it cleared for them. Now it MIGHT be that I have a growth in my uterus that can be removed - I was diagnosed with a septate uterus last year, but was told that it was a 'normal' aberration and wouldn't cause any issues - but other then that, I don't see this as anything more then one more thing to check off the list.

 

[thethomsons]

Ok how do I temp?!! Never tried that xx

 

[thethomsons]

Girls feel so gutted. Just did a pg test to see if it was negative and it's majorly positive still . Really thought 11 days after d and c and fact that bleeding has stopped that for three days now that I would have a negative reading. Just seems like a massive kick in teeth seeing positive when it's all gone wrong. Goodness knows where I'm at now Not sure what to do regarding ttc or when to try now. Just as I felt I was getting over it. Sorry for moan :/(

 

[bananas2]

I'm so sorry elaine!!! I don't know what to say as I've never been in this position! Its so horrible that u can't rush these things! Maybe just enjoy bd'ing with ur partner until ur next af arrives just to take the pressure off then once she's been u can really knuckle down with temping etc oh btw I don't so can't advise!

Sending hugs and be strong! Things will get bk to normal but they will just take time! X

 

[PopTart28]

Im really sorry Elaine.....

I still think you should do what you had originally planned this month...
Spend time with your DH and enjoy DTD but only to get closer again after whats happend to you both....I may not have been in the exact boat as you after my second mc but my DH and I just enjoyed being with each other and if we wanted to DTD then we did - we really relaxed and enjoyed that time with each other more as there was no pressure and we almost reconnected....

I got my BFP that month.....so relax and enjoy the time with your DH, get yourselves on track again and you never know.....it can and will happen as i said before - when both you and your body are ready for it.....

Please dont worry or feel bad, try to stay positive and if your struggling or worrying please talk to your DH (and we are here if you need us of course) they can be stronger than you may be aware with this sort of thing and can help you through it all.....

AFM - ive spent the day really craving a calippo ice lolly and after spending the day helping my DH outside in the sunshine i had a nice shower and when i came out he had run up the shop and got me two ice lollies - one for now - yummy and one to freeze for later, hehehe he is the best, and dealing with all these symptoms better than i thought and Im soooo happy he is home from work on holiday spending time with me - love him millions, xxx

Right time to wake him up as he's had a nap this time

I hope you lovely ladies are doing well and im sending lots of hugs and love if your feeling alittle low at the moment, xxxxxx