Trying before AF?

[xxemmyxx]

U won't believe this but....I got a BFP tonight!! In total shock! The day after my appt to be referred to fertility!! Can't believe it at all, so so so so scared! Dunno how it even happened, I must have ovulated!!? First time in a year....and oh's sperm must have been up to the job!?
Clearblue said I'm only 1-2 weeks and on a normal hpt it's a faint line, guna test in the morning, I hope it's a bit darker. If anything I really hope this gives all the other ladies out there hope, a year I have been trying after mc, not ovulating, horrible cycles, OH having oligospermia, being told we had to have ICSI and yet we are pregnant, please pleas please stick baby!!!!

Already panicking, I have back ache and an achey feeling in my tummy, please stick!!!!!!

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Congrats xxx

 

[mummy2o]

Thats brilliant news. Congrats emmy.

 

[bagpuss19]

Congrats I have followed this thread and your story for a while. Only time will tell but if it reassures u at all I had really awful lower back that I had to keep applying heat to and stomach cramps but I'm now 13+3 and our scan yesterday showed all ok. You should be able to get an early scan at epu based on your history, we had one at 8+4. Fingers crossed for you xx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Congrats I have followed this thread and your story for a while. Only time will tell but if it reassures u at all I had really awful lower back that I had to keep applying heat to and stomach cramps but I'm now 13+3 and our scan yesterday showed all ok. You should be able to get an early scan at epu based on your history, we had one at 8+4. Fingers crossed for you xx

Thank you for your reply! Really makes me feel better the epu said I could come back for an early scan at 7 weeks so that's only 3 weeks away!

I know I just have to wait and see and let it be but it's so hard!! I'm exhausted today at work cus I didn't sleep a wink last night!! Did another digi this morning 1-2 weeks pregnant, and another boots test and the line is so faint, I'm hoping it gets darker! Going to test again in a couple days, o idea when I ovulated so this is quite hard to figure out! Xxx

 

[Nina83]

xxemmyxx, Congratulations!

 

[markswife10]

So happy for you Emmy!!!! Congrats!!!

 

[ArmyWife1984]

Wow that is awesome emmy congrats. Sending loads and loads of super sticky vibes your way!!!

 

[xxemmyxx]

 

[vietmamsie]

Emmy - I can't think of anyone more deserving than you of a BFP! I'm so happy for you.... How crazy! Have you even had a period since the mc? This is just fantastic! Rest up and keep calm, you need to save your energy!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Emmy - I can't think of anyone more deserving than you of a BFP! I'm so happy for you.... How crazy! Have you even had a period since the mc? This is just fantastic! Rest up and keep calm, you need to save your energy!

Awww Viets that is so kind! well I have had strange on and off bleeding since mc not real periods and sometimes there could be 10 weeks in between each bleeding episode. The last period I had was 4 weeks and 4 days ago but that was a bleed bought on by taking progesterone and then stopping which gives you withdrawal bleeding so it's not a real period. I took that to try and regulate my cycles, last BFP I had was after stopping bc to regulate my cycles so for the last 11months I been begging my doctor to let me try it again cus my cycles were so bad and she wouldn't let me, I finally got her to agree to this progesterone only pill and bam I'm preggo! Stupid doc should have listened to me months ago!! Can't wait to rub it in her face on Monday!!

So I have no idea when I ovulated but I am guessing it was quite late cus that's when I noticed more cm and also my tests are quite faint still and digi only says 1-2 weeks. I have taken a test this morning and the line is defo darker than on Wednesday so that has put my mind at ease a little. Last BFP I had I took a test on cd29 and it was as dark as the control line, I'm cd34 now and it's not as dark as the control line yet. I spose every pregnancy is different, it's just hard not to worry!! I get cramp too, I hope it's just really sticking this time xx

 

[asmcsm]

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[flapjack10]

Emmy I'm so so so so so happy for you!

Stick, stick, stick!

xxx

 

[Libbysmum]

Hi just got in to check on you ladies...so exciting for you Emmy


How are you flapjack? Not long now eh? Woke up with pains ...possibly braxton hicks...ugh! Just want this kid to be healthy bit tired of this roller coaster ride.

 

[vietmamsie]

Another AF arrived.... this was the first two week wait in the past year and a half that I didn't even bother to POAS. I guess I'm just over it for now. I'm thinking I might officially step down from TTC to NTNP for the next year.

I'm so happy for you libby, emmy and flapjack.... What an amazing road you guys have come on. Keep us posted on updates!

 

[markswife10]

Another AF arrived.... this was the first two week wait in the past year and a half that I didn't even bother to POAS. I guess I'm just over it for now. I'm thinking I might officially step down from TTC to NTNP for the next year.

I'm so happy for you libby, emmy and flapjack.... What an amazing road you guys have come on. Keep us posted on updates!

Big big hugs Vietmamsie

 

[flapjack10]

Hi just got in to check on you ladies...so exciting for you Emmy


How are you flapjack? Not long now eh? Woke up with pains ...possibly braxton hicks...ugh! Just want this kid to be healthy bit tired of this roller coaster ride.

I'm good thanks hun! I've had BH too, but I was relieved up have them - I'm a weirdo!

xxx

 

[vietmamsie]

Hi! It's been pretty quiet on here.... I would love an update from everyone, especially Emmy.... How it it going??? I have been thinking a lot about you!

So my hubs and I are back in the states for the month. We have literally DTD twice in the month of june. I took the summer off of temping. I was just over it and didn't want early temps to get in the way of sleeping in! I took two over a week ago because I just had no idea where I was in my cycle and thought I might be late. both were BFN. This morning I figured I should have gotten my period by now, and took another test.... BFP!!

It was a FRER, so basically this thing could be REALLY early, like only three weeks along, or about 5 weeks along (based on the two days we DTD this month). Either way, I'm staying positive, but not getting too excited. It would be pretty funny if this is THE ONE. We were not trying AT ALL this cycle, and i'm Starting a new job next week... this should be interesting!

Hope everyone is doing well, and like I said before, I would LOVE and update from everyone.... Maybe there are even a few baby pictures to share????

 

[xxemmyxx]

Viets!!! Yay!!!!! Wohoooooooo!!

So so so so so happy for you!! Praying its sticky xx

AFM I am 11 weeks, still hoping and praying this is the one! I have had a scan at 10 weeks and saw the baby wriggling around and heard the heartbeat so fingers crossed this is my rainbow. Got my 12 week scan next Monday.

Hope everyone else is doing great. So funny that you got a BFP when you weren't trying this onto Viets, exactly the same happened to me, it happens when you least expect it. I got an early scan that told me how far I was along, I got a BFP when I was 3 weeks pregnant so this wait to 12 weeks has felt like an eternity!!

 

[vietmamsie]

Oh, Emmy! I'm so happy for you! This is all so great!

I have a feeling I'm super early, so it might be a really long wait for me as well! My FRER line was lighter than the control line, but still very obvious right way... I have actually never taken one before, so I have no idea how dark it should be at 5 weeks versus 3 weeks. Oh well, hoping for the best. It sure makes it difficult to focus on anything else with a little rapidly developing ball of cells in my uterus!