Trying before AF?

[vietmamsie]

mummy2o: Sorry you are feeling so frustrated... this whole ttc this is just awful and some times so unfair. I know how you feel, it can be hard seeing so many bfps, it gets me down as well, thats why I don't really come on BnB except to check on the few threads that I really like. This thread has so many wonderful, strong women who have really been through a lot. I'm so happy for everyone -hence why I come on here to check on everyone now and again!

Wow, you guys are both at 40 weeks, thats amazing! I hope you post some baby pictures once they arrive!

Emmy- congrats n the scan! So happy everything is going well!

 

[mrs_swj2be]

Hi every one
Sorry not been on here for ages.
Started a new job and been really hectic.
I hope every one is ok????????
I had a quick look and saw some familiar names still on here?

Just a quick update really I had some brilliant news on my partners birthday and got a BFP. but unfortunately the same as last time I lost It 2 day later.

I am not to disheartened this time though ( although yes it was very upsetting) I am just so pleased that by body is finally doing it and I have now managed to get pregnant twice in 9 months.

It has been a year nearly science our first m/c but fingers crossed we will have good news this month I am now c/d 29 I am usually 28-32d but I have sore breasts and feel rubbish when I get up for work and can't even drink my tea which is not normal. But I don't want to get my hopes up to much.

Also we have got another appointment with specialist appointment on the 22nd of this month so finger crossed for some help.

 

[mummy2o]

I'm sorry, guess I'm getting a bit impatient. On the plus side AF is still late, I normally have a 12lp and thats been and gone. Testing on monday or tomorrow. My temps were up until 4 days ago, but that could be me needing to pee an hour before testing and not being able to get back to sleep. I've tested twice when I went to pee and they would of remained the same. Just not getting my hopes up you know.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Good luck mummy2o and mrs s I really hope you get your sticky bfp's xx

 

[vietmamsie]

mummy: good luck! Don't worry, our time will come!

 

[Libbysmum]

Not sure if I told anyone here but we had our boy...Ethan Matthias was a Vbac delivery and from my first contraction to his arrival was approx 7 and a half hours. Not too bad considering Libby took over 29 hours then emergency c-section. I had the gas and an episiotomy -ouch! The big problem was I had a retained placenta so had to go to surgery but we are home now recovering.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Congratulations Libby's mum xx

 

[mummy2o]

Good job Libby's mum. Wish you all the best

 

[flapjack10]

Congratulations Libbysmum!

xxx

 

[vietmamsie]

Not sure if I told anyone here but we had our boy...Ethan Matthias was a Vbac delivery and from my first contraction to his arrival was approx 7 and a half hours. Not too bad considering Libby took over 29 hours then emergency c-section. I had the gas and an episiotomy -ouch! The big problem was I had a retained placenta so had to go to surgery but we are home now recovering.

Congrats!

 

[mummy2o]

Got a faint positive on a test, going to test in a few more days to see if it gets any darker. I'm not holding my hopes up, just incase

 

[xxemmyxx]

Mummy2o post a pic!! I had such a faint positive at first on a boots test, I even took the test apart and showed it to my friend, I then made her do a test so compare and I cud see such a faint line so I did a clearblue digi cus I just couldn't wait and it said 1-2 weeks which meant I was probably only 3 weeks pregnant, good luck xxxx

 

[flapjack10]

Good luck mummy2o!


xxx

 

[Libbysmum]

flapjack hurry up and have that baby rainbow! LOL

 

[vietmamsie]

Mummy! Great news! Just give it a few more days! I hope it darkens up nicely for you!!

 

[mummy2o]

Emmy: I would but OH took out the rubbish and chucked it out also.

I can't take new test as there is no where around here to buy them, unless you count a 30 minute walk in the heat which doesn't sound like fun. As my car broke down! On the plus side I have a doctors appointment in a week so will get them to check there.

Viet: hopefully you'll get a sticky bean soon. I feel bad your getting left behind

 

[markswife10]

Oooh good luck Mummy2o!!! Fx'd for you!!!

Congrats on the baby Libby! He's beautiful!

 

[sandybeaches]

Hi all! Hope you don't mind if I join. I'm 32 and miscarried my first pregnancy on July 8 at 5 wks 4 days and I have laid in bed this past week reading this entire thread. It has helped me tremendously with the devastation I have felt and I feel that I know all of you. I'm praying that everyone here have BFPs or babies by the end of 2013!


I am still undecided if I want to go against my doctor's wishes and try right away. More than likely, I will, as I have seen many of you go on to have successful pregnancies! I was shocked I even got pregnant the first time since my husband and I have a few things against us. I am trying to feel positive about trying again, but it's so scary not knowing what the future holds..

 

[vietmamsie]

Sandybeaches: Welcome to the thread! So sorry about your loss, it must be devastating. However, it will get better with time.

my husband and I are ttc with new vigor this cycle. Things have been great, haven't Oed yet, but it should be any day now. I am confident we will catch this little eggy. i'm so glad that we didn't even bother with the doctor for this last mc, so there are no 'doctors orders' for us to follow!

Maybe some of you remember that friend who announced her pregnancy at 5 weeks right after my MC in September? Well, the baby has been born, and she is so cute, that has been part of what is fueling me and my hubs on!

Flapjack: I assume the baby has been born by now?? How is new motherhood? Where is a pic??

Emmy: is all well?? How are you?

Mummy: did you test again? have you been to the doctor yet?

 

[JerseyRose]

Hi everyone! I’d really like to join!

I had a natural mc at 6 weeks on 27th June which was my first pregnancy. We have been trying ever since we got married in November last year. I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks with a HPT and then at 5 weeks I had a blood test which confirmed my hcg levels were 54, so I guess the pregnancy didn’t start off great. At 6 weeks I started spotting, went straight to the doc who sent me for a blood test and emergency ultrasound. The blood test results showed my hcg levels had dropped to 27. I bled heavily with blood clots for 2 days and then similar to light AF for 2 days. A few days later a blood test confirmed my hcg levels were back to 0 and my temp dropped significantly. The mc hit me hard initially and the thought of going through it again really scared me. I really thought I wanted to wait a month or two before TTC again. But, after about a week I got the TTC fever again and my want for a baby probably even increased as I was just so close to my dream coming true. I’ve been temping and using opk’s and today is CD19. I usually O between CD17-CD23 so hopefully O is here any day! My doc recommended that we can try whenever we’re emotionally ready. He said there’s no medical evidence to suggest a reason for us to wait. DH wants this just as much as me so his support has really helped me.

I can’t figure out why my hcg levels would have been so low to begin with? The doctor suspected ectopic but they couldn’t find anything on the ultrasound and then my levels went back to 0 a week later so he was happy to rule that out. He said next time I get pregnant he wants to monitor my levels. Anyone have any ideas why my hcg levels would have started so low?