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maybe the link will work. so annoying.
I took another test this morning, and it looks the same.
Yay Hope Lots of BDing for you!!
Hi guys, do you mind if I join? I have been keeping my eye on the forums for a while but I didn't join because everyone keeps saying how you need to not get stressed with ttc...well 11 months down the line I've had enough, so I have joined the site, got myself some OPK's and some preseed!! Think I may just have got a positive (or very close to a positive) on the OPK's today... CD 23.
Congrats Mrs.326 and everyone who has got their BFP's and good luck to everyone still waiting!
ps. (how do you put smily faces etc in messages??)
Mrs. 326 - those are the exact same symptoms I had the first time around. The sore boobs and the peeing was out of control for me. And I usually don't drink much water so where that pee was coming from I don't know lool.
Mrs. Kibler, I tested originally yesterday at 9am and again last night at 11pm and still smiley and this morning around 8 and still smiley. That was my last stick and I don't want to go and buy a brand new pack. When I remove the stick from the reader, I can see the blue 2 lines. Last night they were both dark and today's, one was lighter so I'm sure my surge is on it's way down.
Do you ladies think it's safe to go in on Wed for my day21 tests or Thursday?
Welcome Mrs B! Happy BD'ing to you
Hope- I think you should be fine to go in Wednesday!
Tonight my OPK was a little lighter than the last few days so I think my surge is over. I didn't check my cervix yesterday- I haven't really felt much different other than it being a pinch softer than the rest of my cycle. idk how much it usually changes- this is the first month I've been keeping an eye on it. So I think I can put myself into an official TWW! .....Can't wait.
Do you guys usually continue BD'ing everyother day till the end of your cycle? Or do you slow down a bit?.
Mrs.326, i dont know for sure but i would guess around 4-5 weeks. My symptoms just stopped the week before my first prenatal visit which was at 6 weeks. When we went in, the doc said that he only saw a sac It was verrrry difficult and even now that we have been trying all these months since, in the back of my mind i cant help but be scared again. Then i get mad at myself to stop thinking this way because i will only make it worse by bringing stress to myself.
Dont let fear take over you. Just be positive and enjoy the 9 months!!! Fear is a very powerful thing so you cant let it win
You can never be too positive hun and if you feel that everything is alright, then it is
Luckily only my husband and sister knew about me being pregnant and then the loss of course, so i didnt have to deal with talking about it with tons of people. I had my time to grieve and shut down, but now, with time i feel i became stronger and I dont mind talking about it so please feel free to ask any questions.
My husband always says "what doesnt kill us, only makes us stronger." i live by those words now!
You can never be too positive hun and if you feel that everything is alright, then it is
Luckily only my husband and sister knew about me being pregnant and then the loss of course, so i didnt have to deal with talking about it with tons of people. I had my time to grieve and shut down, but now, with time i feel i became stronger and I dont mind talking about it so please feel free to ask any questions.
My husband always says "what doesnt kill us, only makes us stronger." i live by those words now!
Thanks! And I've already blown it on the not telling people part... It's just too much excitement to hold in! We told DH's parents last night - my mother-in-law likes to sew and so anytime we have pants that need to be hemed/tears in our clothes/etc. she mends them for us, so DH told her last night he had a pair of paints he needed her to stitch up... He asked her to check the pockets before she started working on them to make sure he hadn't left any notes or receipts in his pants and inside his pocket was a note that said "You're going to be a Grandmother!"... she read it out loud and her first question was "who is this for???" Hahaha! They were completely clueless. DH and I just laughed at them until they got it.
I can't wait until you guys have exciting "how did you tell them" stories Speaking of - how are you guys feeling??
Mrs.326 - OMG that was such a creative way to tell your in-laws!!! I always think to myself how I would want to tell my parents and in-laws, but then I stop myself because I don't want to get ahead of myself again, lol. I always thought initially I would surprise my husband as well in a cute way, but when we were testing the first time around, he begged me that anytime i would poas, that he would be right there with me, lol. Of course the ONE time I decided to test before he woke up in the morning, was the time I got my bfp...so i had to literally shake him out of bed, haha! Wow, that was 9 months ago....I just had a nostalgic moment, lol. Crazy thing is, I would have been due any day now...literally. That's insane how fast time flies when all you think is ttc; I don't remember anything else in the past nine months.
MrsKibler - Totally hear you on the convo part. We even made up like code words we use so if people happen to hear or be around, they won't know what we are talking about....especially when he wants to know if we are bding tonight or at what time, bla bla lol. I am 2po and i just have af like cramps which i never do this early, sore/erect nipples and feel extremely gassy. I'm trying to stay calm and not over think until I get my bloods done and back next week to see if I even ovulated stronger.
TWW is torture!!!!