Hi ladies, well, I had my appointment with the fertility specialist today and without being to optimistic (which is pretty hard) it went really well! I think, I hope!
So firstly, the Dr we saw was lovely and for once I felt like I was talking to someone who actually knew what they were on about! No offence to GP’s as obviously they don’t specialise in fertility but my God, mine was ridiculous and fobbed me off so much and actually, sometimes worried me more than I probably needed to! The specialist just seemed really happy to help, just told us the facts and didn’t sugar coat it or was patronising in anyway.
So basically, she went through my previous blood results and said that they were all normal, INCLUDING my progesterone, which I had to have repeated and have both come back slightly low (27 and 28.5 and supposedly it needs to be way above 30 to confirm ovulation). She said that my results, combined with regular periods suggest everything is fine. She even said that normal progesterone level has now been lowered to 20 in the UK. So now I don’t feel so worried/obsessed about even ovulating and feeling that BDing isn’t even worth it!
My OH’s sperm count is low, but she also said that it’s perfectly possible to fall pregnant naturally (assuming there are no other underlying problems that we are yet to know about)! That was great to hear, as we just didn’t have a clue how good/bad the results are, only my GP trying to get rid of us by telling us we’re fine but I couldn't help not really trusting his knowledge (he hadn't even sent our info to the referral specialist!). Also googling just scared me even more!
So even though she said that it could still happen naturally for us, because it hasn’t so far, we need to do more tests. I’m slightly behind most of you on here so the next steps are further sperm test and blood tests within the next 2 weeks and then onto the HSG, eeeek! That might have to wait slightly longer as the FS is going on holiday; got a lot of paper work to look through and then hopefully we can schedule everything in ASAP. Even though I’m really scared of more tests, or should I say I’m scared of the results.
One other thing she told us, was that the area in which we live in, providing we qualify, is good for IVF treatment should we need it. Apparently (hopefully) we could get 3 rounds on IVF on the NHS if our problems prove to be worse than anticipated. So I guess that’s good to know!
So feeling good about things, a bit scared and nervous about what’s to come but at least I feel a little better about the fact that initially our SA and bloods suggested that we BOTH have issues and now it MAY just be the low sperm count and not ovulation problems, fingers crossed. Feels like my worries have been halved – but with a little added new worries, but overall, I feel less in the dark, thank god! So for now, we keep trying!!
Sorry for the looooooooooooong story! How’s everyone else? Hope you’re all in good spirits despite all of our individual upsets. Take it easy and hope to hear from you all soon xx