Well here is a preseed update...
I am 5 days until af is due and I am sure I am out. I have the same symptoms before af as I usually do. Sad. We are still going to give preseed another try this month. I also need new ways to make BDing during ovulation not a chore!
MrsKibler is right! You're not out until she shows, and I would say the unusual breast tenderness is probably a good sign! Keeping my FX'd for you, please keep us posted.
OH! And I know exactly what you mean about BDing being a chore. DH has just started to freak out (see earlier post). He was totally cool about it before but now it's pysching him out a bit... I use OPKs and what I noticed is I didn't tell him in previous cycles when they were positive... I would just initiate the BD myself and he was none the wiser, but this cycle, since I've been on clomid, he knows the exact window and I think he feels more pressured. Last night I told him I took an OPK and it was negative so we should just let loose and have non-babymaking fun and it seemed to work. I think from this point forward I'll keep the results of the OPK to myself so he doesn't feel pressured.
hey thx for a reply well iv had heaps of blood work done all hormones are normal i had a blood test to make sure im ovualting and i am so thats a plus iv had u/s all my organs in that region are all fine and healthy they dont see y i should have trouble concieving, this month iv done a few things different iv exercised a bit, used my mabey baby every morning using pre-seed taking vitamins and keeping legs in air for a while lol...i have a question all women are different but is it possible to be fertile only 4 days after period finishes im on cd11 now and iv got my ferns on my maybe baby which iv had for 4 days now i hope its nothing bad for me iv baby danced 2 times out of the 4 so fingers crossed
Well, it's good news that you don't have any issues. Even the healthiest couples can take up to a year to conceive, so be thankful you don't have anything working against you and try to make the best of it (although, trust me, I know the waiting sucks big time). And yes, it is possible for you to be fertile just a few days after AF. Everyone is different, so it's very possible. Have you tried the Clear Blue Fertility Monitor? You can get them on Amazon, they're a little pricey though (160, I think?). It's basically like a OPK but possibly a little more accurate and you can use it more often. I'm not an expert on it, I only know what I've read on here and the reviews, so look into it. It may be worth it if you think you're missing your fertile window. GL!