TTC #1 Dream Believers (Who's TTC #1?)

[rustyswife828]

im on my 1st cycle ttc its my fiances birthday at the end of sept it would be the best birthday present ever if i managed to get caught straight away!

Hi girl and welcome

I added you to our member list

You can check it out on the very first page of this thread

BTW I will be posting some info I need from you on here...so check it out soon

 

[rustyswife828]

Yes, that is great that you got to talk to him. I bet you are feeling much better. Sometimes just clearing the air makes a big difference in a marriage We are all here for you hun! xoxo

Thanks MinneGirl!

Thank you for listening to me when I needed it

And yes we did work things out and had a lil incredible

Thanks for everything!

Love ya girls!

 

[rustyswife828]

Hey RustysWife Glad you got to speak to your OH it's always nice to get stuff off your chest hope things get better for you hun xx

Thanks girl! It was very nice..not to include the nice ...

Thanks for listening to me and I wish you the best of

 

[rustyswife828]

I'd like to join in

That morphthing website is cool. I was just on there a few days ago and showed my boyfriend last night what our baby would look like lol. Was pretty cute

girl!

Welcome to our group..Full of PMA and !!!

It's gonna be a fun journey!

BTW I will be posting on here what I need from you so I can update your info on our member page (very 1st page of this thread)

Good luck and & to you!!

 

[rustyswife828]

As my post says in TTC, I will be taking a break for a short time. and To all.

Hi girl! Aww!

You can still come visit!

I updated your info on the member page

I wish you the best of luck girl and you can always come back and just talk with us

We will miss you!!!

 

[rustyswife828]

Hi Ladies

I am on Cycle 3, desperate for a of my own.

My DH has 2 DD's from a previous relationship who I love to death but nothing would compare to having one of our own.

AF is due on 15th September but I'm praying she stays away.

I want nothing more right now that to be pregnant and have a happy healthy

xxxxx

girl!

Welcome to our group hun!

It's gonna be soo much fun

I hope that stays away girl!

Good luck and to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[rustyswife828]

https://www.morphthing.com/showimage/5/60064b4fd8a8bfff23de9976c0092d58/0/6155568/Baby-of-383-JPG-and-022-JPG.jpeg

Awwww!! Too cute girl!

 

[rustyswife828]

hiya rustyswife,

sorry you were feeling down darlin xx hope your feeling better xxx

i'm off to have a play on this website

Thanks hun!

I'm feelin' much much better!

Talking to him was a relief!

Good luck on the morphthing.com

 

[rustyswife828]

well rustyswife, hope all works out for you!! i feel you in the depression department! been dealing with it my whole life. so not being able to get pregnant doesn't make dealing with depression ANY easier....


i really think i'm losing my mind sometimes!!! haha.

Thanks hun! Yea my DH knows now!

Just been taking my medicine to help me cope sometimes..but you know that medicine doesn't it take it away 100%...

Some days I feel just fine and some moments..I'm just so down..it's hard for me to enjoy anything

but as of right now..I feel good

 

[rustyswife828]

I had found a website that lets you do something similar awhile ago...now I think if you go there they want you to pay....but this is what I got for our kiddos:

https://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c193/uberlove/Ourdaughter.jpg

Daughter

https://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c193/uberlove/ourbabyboy.jpg

Son

On a side note, a fertility calendar I have on my iphone said yesterday was my peak day, but my chart isn't giving any indication.....help? Thinking I won't ovulate this month...

Too cute babies!!!!

I have an iPhone and a bunch of fertility apps... the one I would trust is fertilityfriend.com...I just don't really just those apps...but that's me..

I would just be just in case girl!

 

[KitteyKat2010]

Us, I am definitely not going to to give up. I know it's so hard waiting for your period and waiting for those "two pink lines" and finally taking one, and it just shows one. It's so heart breaking, but my boyfriend and I never give up, it just means we have to try harder and harder, and keep praying

Good Luck Everyone!!

 

[rustyswife828]

I'm so sorry you were having issues with your DH!! Hopefully things will get better after your talk with him. Maybe he wasn't aware of the issue...I know my DH is completely oblivious to how I'm feeling about things sometimes and doesn't realize til I bring it up, but he always tries to do better after that.

Well I guess I'm gonna call yesterday CD 1! I've still been bleeding today, nothing like how my periods usually are, but definitely more than spotting. So today is CD 2, so I've gotta decide if I'm gonna try soy this cycle or not. I might just wait to get the testosterone results from my OB/GYN and talk to her about my options.

Here's my kids.

https://i53.tinypic.com/m7gglz.jpg

https://i56.tinypic.com/15ga6g.jpg

Thanks hun! Yea we did work it out..He told me if I ever get that feeling again to talk to him...right now he's scared for me while I'm going through depression so he doesn't want anything else to make it worse for me

He can very sweet when he wants to be though

Too cute babies hun! I cannot wait to be preggo!!!

I updated your info Thank god showed up so now you can start planning on that to meet the egg!

 

[rustyswife828]

https://www.morphthing.com/showimage/5/28741b799ea742fee229dcab8f16ec0b/0/6150966/Baby-of--O5M1083-jpg-and--O5M0769-jpg.jpeg


baby zelda!!

Awww! Sooo sweet!!!

 

[rustyswife828]

Rustyswife - Ohhh Im sorry I missed this while you were upset!! I hope you are feeling better today. I know my husband is exhausted by the time he gets home and he usually cant process anything even remotely complex for at least an hour or two after getting home, sometimes he doesnt want to talk at all. So maybe your dh is just tired and stressed and its nothing personal. My dh doesnt even realize that hes upsetting me sometimes when hes not affectionate or anything.. because hes so tired and out of it by the time he gets home. I hope you have a great night tonight with him. Thats a good plan you have!





Anyway, I'm on CD28 today. I had cramps on and off over the weekend with some mild spotting, swollen boobs, etc. Now the cramps are gone, as well as the spotting (which only lasted 4.5 days). I'm so hoping it is what I think it is because I'm so almost ready to give up! AGGHH!!!

It's okay girl! I'm feeling much much better now

We talked it out and he told me if I ever feel that way again to let him know

He can be a sweetheart.............sometimes

Girl, your symptoms sound sooooooo promising

How late are you?

 

[rustyswife828]

Hey Rusty,
SO sorry to hear you're so down i hope hubby starts to make an effort - the little things go a long way
All this ttc takes a lot out of you and really gets you down - i'm feeling hopeless already this month as i guess its just going to be the same as all the others - i have zero confidence that this is ever gonna happen - add to that when DH is being an @rse and no wonder you're
All i know is that since i've joined bnb it's stopped me feeling so alone - so i guess we all stick together and take the rough with the smooth!

Extra for all of us

Thanks hun! It really does... If I was preggo right now...my DH will be doing everything he can to make me feel good..

That's one of the reasons why it'll be soo good to be preggo

If I can just get that to meet the egg! UGH! I just love your PMA on this post! I've got you wonderful ladies to help me through TTC and we've got each other

Extra for you too girl!!!!

 

[CheriRose]

Hey girls.. Just wanted to tell you that I decided to give soy a try this month..!! Started taking it yesterday.. Using it cd3 to cd7.. Hoping this will help me this month.! Gonna try anything at this point.. Lol.!!

On another note.. My mother in law.. Mother and father are all pushing for a baby ASAP.!! this is not helping me and is killing me..!!!

 

[AubrieC]

Rustyswife - Ohhh Im sorry I missed this while you were upset!! I hope you are feeling better today. I know my husband is exhausted by the time he gets home and he usually cant process anything even remotely complex for at least an hour or two after getting home, sometimes he doesnt want to talk at all. So maybe your dh is just tired and stressed and its nothing personal. My dh doesnt even realize that hes upsetting me sometimes when hes not affectionate or anything.. because hes so tired and out of it by the time he gets home. I hope you have a great night tonight with him. Thats a good plan you have!





Anyway, I'm on CD28 today. I had cramps on and off over the weekend with some mild spotting, swollen boobs, etc. Now the cramps are gone, as well as the spotting (which only lasted 4.5 days). I'm so hoping it is what I think it is because I'm so almost ready to give up! AGGHH!!!

It's okay girl! I'm feeling much much better now

We talked it out and he told me if I ever feel that way again to let him know

He can be a sweetheart.............sometimes

Girl, your symptoms sound sooooooo promising

How late are you?

I'm not sure how late I am because my cycles are pretty irregular. They go anwhere from every 2 weeks to 37 days. I'm on CD 29 now. I should know by next week either way!! The suspense may literally kill me /drama queen. I'm glad you are feeling better, though! Thats great that he is so understanding!

Cheri - I know exactly how you feel!! My parents dont have any grandchildren yet and my mother has been buying baby stuff for years!! She has a bunch of little baby converse shoes (we are addicted to converse) that she in going to give to the first grandbaby! My older brother and his wife are newly married and going to start TTC soon, I think, so I'm trying to win the contest!
and

 

[wanting2010]

So glad you all worked things out, Rusty!! Communication is definitely super important!

I'm definitely glad AF showed on her own, just a little concerned that it's so light. I've got some OPK's I'm gonna start using this cycle.

CheriRose, good luck with the soy! I was going to give it a try but have decided to wait to hear back from my obgyn about what my options are. And I definitely know what you mean about parents and in laws pushing for a baby!! I guess they just don't realize what they're doing.

 

[CheriRose]

Aubrie--- my brother in law has a baby.. So on my husbands side there's already a baby.. But the mother in law wants another grandbaby.. She wants a little girl.!! Ooo boy.!! Lol.. For my mother and father I am the only child.. So they want me to have ome asap.. Even now my grandmother wants a great grandbaby.!! I'm in for it.! Lmao!


Wanting--- I feel you:! I was at a race with my brother in law.! Than his girl got preg aug 09.! Crazy shit.! Lol.! My grandmother already bought a lot of stuff.. Shes making a quilt for my first baby..
As for the soy.. I wasn't going to but my doctor isn't seeing me till sep 21.. And I'm not sure if she will send me for testing or not.. We will see.. I'll ask my doctor in a few weeks if I can get clomid..

 

[wanting2010]

My husband's grandma keeps asking me if we think we'll be having a baby soon because she wants to start crocheting a baby blanket. She means well... just kinda aggravating!!

I just went to the doctor Sept 1 and had a pap and some bloodwork... I'm waiting for the testosterone results which will indicate if I have PCOS or not. I'm kinda just waiting to see if she's going to want to go ahead and give me Clomid or not, because she said it definitely sounds like I have PCOS and not ovulating.