My hubby and I have been TTC since July without a great amount of luck. I got two BFP's in October but it quickly ended in miscarriage or what they call a chemical pregnancy. It was so discouraging to be so high and happy at one point to just go to so depressed and upset in just a mere four days time. I went to the doctor and he said that we could try whenever we were ready again, so we started trying right away. I was five days late in November but I didn't test as I was scared about what happened last time. I told msyelf I wouldn't test until I was at least a week late. AF arrived though. In December I decided to try an ovulation kit but I couldn't really tell if I ovulated or not because those test lines are hard to tell if they are similar to and they definitely weren't darker than the other line! So I'm frustrated and I don't even know if I ovulated or not this month. Right now I havent felt much of anything other than really ornery or feeling like I could cry everyday, some mild cramping on the left side that has more recently moved throughout the lower abdomin, and my boobs are just barely showing signs of tenderness around the outside edges but nothing very significant.
After all that explanation my question is this...I keep hearing about sore nipples, not during any cycle (not that I've truly been lucky on any) have I felt sore nipples. My breasts get tender and painful to touch but never do I ever have a sore nipple. What are sore nipples? and has ANYBODY ever gotten a sticky BFP and didn't have them? Help.
Any advice is appreciated. I am so sick of trying. It seems like everyone I talk to it takes about a year or longer...guess I'm in for another six months and hopefully not longer. My heart goes out to those of you who have been trying for a long time. I know how hard it must be on you.
Baby dust to us all.
Love,
Olive
Sorry for your loss huni
weve been TTC for 12 cycles this mth and finally got my
this morning and have never had sore nipples.
They get very erect and tender around ovulation and for the two weeks after but they dont get "sore" I know how hard and heartbreaking it is every mth and i know that no matter how many people tell you to relax or it will happen doesnt make it any easier. But honestly I know its really corny but i gave up this mth and decided to enjoy my xmas and new yrs eve and pick up again in 2011, and then wham
Hang in there darlin it will happen, in the mean time