ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

how are u bethany, i keep posting at samt time as u, but neevr see ur name at bottom of page

i gotta go soon to go to my doc to get my note for work. they r co operating anyway so i can stay out for little bit to give myself best chance i can this time. dont get me wrong its not even the work as such ( although it is physical and standy ) , its the chemicals and feeling ill all the time i wanna avoid. could do my bub harm, i just donno

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thanks ladies...it was a bit of relief seeing my body doing what it's supposed to. I need to keep feeding that eggy some Royal Jelly! Lol!

I certainly know how you feel Amy...I was thinking in the ultrasound room today that instead of looking for eggs I should've been in there finding out mc #2's gender! Kind of a bitter sweet moment for me. I was troubled by DH's sigh of relief that he is off the hook for a couple of more days---now Sunday Laura being my CD12 and your lucky day sounds promising! If I just didn't have to compete with football! I tried convincing DH we should try today for good measure and he laughed at me and said, "So Dr. Angel knows more than the RE?" I automatically think to myself, is sex THAT bad? Does he know how many married men would kill to have their wives practically begging to dtd? *sigh* Not how I wanted to start my Friday. Maybe he'll come around today...where is that man that couldn't keep his paws off me? I wonder if it's his age or the pressure...he needs to eat some Royal Jelly! Haha!

 

[Storked]

I am doing just fine Laura, thanks been feeling rather apathetic about TTC lately.

Glad you are able to get your note

 

[Storked]

Angel, I have those moments too.

As for men, I think sometimes they are humbled when things are rough. We are too sweet in giving them all the loving they want so they are spoiled and forget what it was like to e alone with just their hand

 

[lilesMom]

i know angel it can feel weird that we feel like we need to put pressure on them to BD ha ha. but to be honest it does get a bit boring Bding on command, its nice to just do it whenever too but totally worth it

bethany glad ur good hon, maybe ur attitude this month will work in ur favour. the same components in our bodys make stress hormones as baby makin hormones so now all of urs are freed up to go on baby making ones xxxx

we havent Bd yet since, im half afraid to, what ye think? i asked the doc and the consultant and they both said it was ok but i dont know . if there is a problem i dont know about it could cause harm, amybe we should just wait till after 12 week scan, im kind of afraid to. if god forbid something does happen i wanna know i did everything in my power to prevent it. i dont wanna be able to attach blame to myself in any way ifykwim.

 

[Storked]

Eh I really don't care either way. If I get pregnant it will be ok and if not then that is ok too. After the disappointment of last month I just became too tired of the ups and downs of TTC and started living my life. Got to stay sane

I would wait on sex but that is just me. When they were doing tests to see if my pregnancy was "viable" they told me no BD to given baby the best chance so that is why I say that lol

 

[lilesMom]

u have made up my mind chick , thanks , i was gearing towards wait as well just in case. id totally blame myself if we did and something happened, thanks xxx
i like cuddles anyway frantic lots o Bd to none
ur right hon, u cant put ur life on hold indef and my mom always says its when u stop trying it happens and she has 12 kids. xxx
i really better leave hte house nd go to doc office before they close xxx
cha t later honeys, xxx

 

[Storked]

Yep Laura just do your best and if your best is waiting on BD then that is what you should do

 

[xoxo4angel]

Angel, I have those moments too.

As for men, I think sometimes they are humbled when things are rough. We are too sweet in giving them all the loving they want so they are spoiled and forget what it was like to e alone with just their hand

This made me spit out my water! Through my nose and all! What a hoot! Too funny Bethany. But true, I have NEVER said no when he initiates, now after 6 years I initiate a few days in a row ONE week out of the month and he can't be bothered?? I just keep telling myself, eye on the prize...eye on the prize...

This would make an interesting movie though. 8-9 ladies on a journey post mc to concieve...all connected by an online forum...each at different points in our lives...it'd be like Steel Magnolias meets You've Got Mail! Who would you cast as yourself?

 

[mommylov]

Eh I really don't care either way. If I get pregnant it will be ok and if not then that is ok too. After the disappointment of last month I just became too tired of the ups and downs of TTC and started living my life. Got to stay sane

I would wait on sex but that is just me. When they were doing tests to see if my pregnancy was "viable" they told me no BD to given baby the best chance so that is why I say that lol

Im starting to feel the same way. I dont know that I can handle this dissapointing feeling all the time. Its very consuming.

 

[mommylov]

Angel, I have those moments too.

As for men, I think sometimes they are humbled when things are rough. We are too sweet in giving them all the loving they want so they are spoiled and forget what it was like to e alone with just their hand

This made me spit out my water! Through my nose and all! What a hoot! Too funny Bethany. But true, I have NEVER said no when he initiates, now after 6 years I initiate a few days in a row ONE week out of the month and he can't be bothered?? I just keep telling myself, eye on the prize...eye on the prize...

This would make an interesting movie though. 8-9 ladies on a journey post mc to concieve...all connected by an online forum...each at different points in our lives...it'd be like Steel Magnolias meets You've Got Mail! Who would you cast as yourself?

Dolly P

 

[Storked]

Angel, same way! I never refuse him sex so he better not drag his feet or refuse me!
And I love the movie idea I have no idea who could play me though. I'd want them to look like me and I am drawing a blank

Amy, yeah. I just needed other things to look forward to than a baby because the disappointment each month is a killer. Enjoy what you can. Doesn't mean that you want it less, just that you have to distance yourself to avoid depression

 

[xoxo4angel]

Good outlook Bethany...they say about the time you get on with life, then boom! You're pg! So for sure Amy, book nonrefundable tickets to Thailand and go with Bethany! Haha! The beauty of October, Nov and Dec is there is so much to look forward to---it is going to fly by!

Re: Our movie. Bethany would Katherine Heigl, Julia Roberts or Sandra Bullock work? I think I'll take Alicia Silverstone, I've missed her on the big screen! We need a star studded cast---I'm totally casting Joe Manganiello (True Blood and What to Expect movie) as my movie DH!

 

[Storked]

Sandra Bullock could work. I think she can play a weirdo. And I am an odd bird

 

[xoxo4angel]

You're not odd! You strike me as down to Earth and worldly! I mean who else can take the laid back approach to ttc? I could 'say' I'm taking a mild approach, but I wouldn't mean it! I'd be sneaking off poas, charting on paper, taking my vits in the bathroom...haha! A total mess, just as I am now! Kudos to you!

 

[mommylov]

Oh as far as actors that look/sound/act liek us? My old boss told me that I reminded him of the character Kelly Kapoor from the office. He said that I looked and talked like her but wasnt as ditsy or dark complexion. Im pretty sure he just said that because all of us Indian just look alike, right? *Insert sarcastic smirk*

 

[mommylov]

And Bethany, I second was Angel said. I dont think youre odd in the least. I welcome your funny-warm-earthyness!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hahaha Amy! You've been typecasted!

Dr called...looks like Right ovary is going to take the cake! Estrogen is up, so we were told to BD on Sunday and Monday! Follow up is Tuesday to be safe! Boy this specialist really takes the guesswork out! How am I supposed to torture DH with BDing if we only have to dtd 2x? I want to throw an extra day in, like TODAY for good measure!

 

[Storked]

Angel, I think that I am pretty normal as well but anyone who gets to know me IRL reaches a point where they point out that I am weird. And so is my family it is what makes us endearingly human and fun to be around
And don't worry about being a "mess". You aren't a mess at all dear. Miscarriage makes us feel so helpless and you are simply trying to feel as though you have some control over all of it
And you are making me jealous for knowing just the time to start BD

Amy, lol on all Indians looking alike. Speaking of Indians...the most beautiful man I had ever seen was of Indian descent. The ladies in my college town would trail after him wherever he went. I even worked as a writer for the paper just to be near him (he was the editor).

 

[mommylov]

Hahaha Amy! You've been typecasted!

Dr called...looks like Right ovary is going to take the cake! Estrogen is up, so we were told to BD on Sunday and Monday! Follow up is Tuesday to be safe! Boy this specialist really takes the guesswork out! How am I supposed to torture DH with BDing if we only have to dtd 2x? I want to throw an extra day in, like TODAY for good measure!

Totally!

Wow, I want your dr! MAybe I should call my dr and see if they would do the same for me so that we can ensure that we get pg this next cycle?