ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

oh and as for squeezing in BD, least u be doin it at right time which is great xxxx
quickies r good too

 

[mommylov]

Oh as far as actors that look/sound/act liek us? My old boss told me that I reminded him of the character Kelly Kapoor from the office. He said that I looked and talked like her but wasnt as ditsy or dark complexion. Im pretty sure he just said that because all of us Indian just look alike, right? *Insert sarcastic smirk*

Actually from your pic, I don't think you look like her at all. But she is funny. lol. Are you full Indian? As in east Indian or native american?

Good outlook Bethany...they say about the time you get on with life, then boom! You're pg! So for sure Amy, book nonrefundable tickets to Thailand and go with Bethany! Haha! The beauty of October, Nov and Dec is there is so much to look forward to---it is going to fly by!

Re: Our movie. Bethany would Katherine Heigl, Julia Roberts or Sandra Bullock work? I think I'll take Alicia Silverstone, I've missed her on the big screen! We need a star studded cast---I'm totally casting Joe Manganiello (True Blood and What to Expect movie) as my movie DH!

Isn't Joe Manganiello from Magic Mike?? I just made dh watch it with me. I didn't enjoy it that much to tell the truth, but he was pretty hot. lol. He was a very believable stripper. It actually looked like he enjoyed those stripper scenes! lol

I didnt watch that movie but all I know is Channing Tatum was in it and when the commercials would come on, I would stare at the tv and drool! Ive seen his interviews.. he isnt the sharpest tool in the shed but boy is he greaet to look at!

You know what is funny. Believe it or not every time that commercial for Magic Mike came on, my little 6 year old girl would stare at it with her eyes wide open, and I would tell her not to look or I would just change the channel. I was thinking, this girl is gonna be trouble when she becomes a teenager. She already had a crush on Justin Beiber, and some English guy from this group they like called, "The Wanted" lol.

did ye hear not to eat deli food? in case of food poisoning. what do ye think?
would a good place be ok? or would ye avoid them all?
im not worried, i just wanna do it right

Oh as far as actors that look/sound/act liek us? My old boss told me that I reminded him of the character Kelly Kapoor from the office. He said that I looked and talked like her but wasnt as ditsy or dark complexion. Im pretty sure he just said that because all of us Indian just look alike, right? *Insert sarcastic smirk*

Actually from your pic, I don't think you look like her at all. But she is funny. lol. Are you full Indian? As in east Indian or native american?

I dont think so either! I mean she is really sweet and pretty but I dont see it .

Yup, Im full Indian! Both parents are from India... actually my whole family is and my brother and I are the only ones that were born in the US so we have no accents at all but my parents do esp my dad. Kind of throws people off when they talk to me on the phone and then see me in person. Esp before I got married, my maiden name was Patel (which is like the Smith's of the Indians) so they knew I was Indian lol. Now I have a greek last name (dh's dad is greek and mom is Irish, english, a little of everything lol but it blonde hair blue eyed) so I now really throw people off!

Amy, I live close the the Silicon Valley, as a matter of fact my husband has spent a lot of times working there, and Indian people, they own Silicon Valley, Literally. My best friend was from Gujarat, her parents were wonderful people. But back to Silicon Valley it is a melting pot for people of all races. That is what I love about Bay Area it is so diverse. So the fact that I am so racially mixed, people are so accepting and you see a lot of racial mixing. So me being multi racial is totally accepted and people think it is cool. Your children are going to be beautiful. Just by looking at your and dh children. Maybe they will be like me and my siblings, all will have cool and exotic features.

So far our cast includes:
Kelly Kapoor as Amy---DH Channing Tatum
Jessica Alba as Laura---OH??
Alicia Silverstone as Angel--DH Joe Manganiello (yes from Magic Mike! Hubba Hubba!)
Sandra Bullock as Bethany---DH??
Jessica??
Natasha, Jen, Danni, Horsey??

Amy your DH is a doll! What a sweet IM!

Jessica don't rush those teenage years my niece is making my sister nuts at 16!

Laura they say there is a bacteria that grows on deli meats, so you have to heat it before you eat it! I think back and it amazes me that we are all alive considering all of the new rules for pregnancy! The kicker is the seafood...what do people in Japan do while pg?

Oh and I wish all Dr's scanned everyone after a mc...you know, after their 1st AF as a follow up to let them know their body is back in the game! Our insurance doesn't cover it, but its a small price to pay for my sanity! DH said we'd have to dtd before football, now look who is "squeezing" me in and taking the fun out of it? Friggin Karma!

Jessica your daughter sounds too cute! My family is from Gujarat too! Small world! I was born and raised in socal near laguna beach and they are all over the place there too hahah. What a small world!

Laura, I read it was a no no but that you can heat up the meat and eat it. Along with hot dogs and other things but women in the 50's use to smoke and not care about any of this and our parents came out just fine didnt they?

Angel, LOL I love this cast! Should Channing and Kelly divorce, I wouldnt mind Carey Hart as my backup. Im not normally into the "tatted up" type and he isnt an actor he is a motoscross racer (And the singer Pink's hubby) but he is my FAV!!! Raaarrrr! heheh DH is BIG into supercross and all that so when I met him I started going to these things with him and thats when I saw Carey Hart. DH was like "Look, theres your boyfriend **eye roll**" LOL
They did do 2 scans on me after my d&c and once they saw I was about to o (the first time) she was like "Everything looks great!" but we didnt want to try that first cycle. I wish I could go back again now and say "Can you check and see whats going on so we know when to start". Im sure unlike the other scans, this one wouldnt be covered but I dont know, worth a shot?

 

[xoxo4angel]

oh and as for squeezing in BD, least u be doin it at right time which is great xxxx
quickies r good too

Haha! Guess I'll take what I can get! I'm just going to enjoy these next 36 hours and maybe throw on his favorite jersey early Sunday morning as incentive for him! We'll see who squeezes who in around here!

 

[lilesMom]

oh and as for squeezing in BD, least u be doin it at right time which is great xxxx
quickies r good too

Haha! Guess I'll take what I can get! I'm just going to enjoy these next 36 hours and maybe throw on his favorite jersey early Sunday morning as incentive for him! We'll see who squeezes who in around here!

i like ur style

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy!

As for a scan...I needed the peace of mind. They said my AMH was low, so I would be panicked if not for the scan. But in your case, why not ask for one. Tell them to draw bloods too...we can google results so you don't have to pay the consult fee! Haha!

 

[mommylov]

Amy!

 

[lilesMom]

why not try anyway amy, cant hurt

 

[mommylov]

Amy!

As for a scan...I needed the peace of mind. They said my AMH was low, so I would be panicked if not for the scan. But in your case, why not ask for one. Tell them to draw bloods too...we can google results so you don't have to pay the consult fee! Haha!

why not try anyway amy, cant hurt

Im scared they will tell me no or make me feel dumb for even asking... Im going to call right now and see what they say (IF I can even get a hold of someone)

 

[lilesMom]

do babe, u cant go back wards worse they say is no and prob will say yes , i hope xxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

WAIT...are you sure AF is here for you? If so, call and say you want to come in for a follicle scan about 3 days before your suspected O. My Dr calls it cycle monitoring.

 

[xoxo4angel]

I have to run, but I want to know how it goes...

 

[mommylov]

WAIT...are you sure AF is here for you? If so, call and say you want to come in for a follicle scan about 3 days before your suspected O. My Dr calls it cycle monitoring.

Im pretty sure. Af was due to come today...I started getting a little achey and crampy today and had a TINY TINY spot of light pink but not full af yet. I just left a vm for the office so Ill see what they say. If they dont do it, maybe thats a sign that I need a new dr that will?

 

[xoxo4angel]

Well, I don't know why they wouldn't if you're willing to pay out of pocket if insurance doesn't pick it up. Dr's amaze me. I go to a specialist, so they know how "urgent" my need is, or they like DH's wallet! See what they say...fx the cramps are your uterus prepping for baby!

 

[mommylov]

Well, I don't know why they wouldn't if you're willing to pay out of pocket if insurance doesn't pick it up. Dr's amaze me. I go to a specialist, so they know how "urgent" my need is, or they like DH's wallet! See what they say...fx the cramps are your uterus prepping for baby!

I mean, it even states on thier statements that get sent that in the event ins doesnt pay/cover, it is YOUR res to pay so I agree. If Im willing to say hey yes Ill pay then do it! Thanks girls! I told DH that I called and he said good.

Got a call from my bff that lives in Denver which is 60 miles from me. She is having some kidney issues and I remember when she had her daughter 8 years ago, she went into kidney failure. I told DH that I wanted to go down there after work. His work is southwest from me and Denver is straight south so he said "Ill drive to somewhere right next to the highway, leave my car there and come with you". I LOVE this guy! Between you ladies and him, this day has turned out to be so nice!

 

[lilesMom]

no reason why they shouldnt do it so babe xx
but angel is right maybe u dont need it?? u might not get af? x

 

[lilesMom]

jen how u doin hon. u get ur other blood test?

 

[mommylov]

no reason why they shouldnt do it so babe xx
but angel is right maybe u dont need it?? u might not get af? x

Im pretty sure its af thats coming but I havent gotten it yet. Just some spotting here and there. I know Im not pg.. - test this morning and no symptoms what-so-ever. Since my cm wasnt nrom this month, I just would like to make sure I am in fact ovulating. So when I called the dr's and left a vm, I told them I was worried I didnt O this month and I would like to discuss so Ill see wha tthey say when they call.

 

[lilesMom]

fx for u hon. x
ur Dh is a pet xx hope ur friend is ok x

 

[lilesMom]

nt girls , chat soon x

 

[mommylov]

Good night Laura!

Just wanted to updated, drs office called me back and pretty much told me no. Said it was too early to be doing anything like that and to call if I don't get my period in the next three weeks. Otherwise use a opk

Omw to the city with dh to see my BFF. I guess I'll chat with you girls later.