ttc after a d&c

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Angel, it depends on when I inserted them. If I did it at night I would sleep with it in and not bother taking it out until I woke up to pee. But during the day I would leave it in for about 4-5 hours

 

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Sounds easier when things are scheduled Angel hehe! Can a regular doctor do that stuff or does it have to be an RE?
The softcups are nice! Sadly I can't use them for AF because my blood is too thin- so messy!

 

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Good Monday ladies! Can you believe it's October? Yay!! Fx for everyone!

Bethany or Jen or soft cup users...how long do I need to leave it in post BDing?

Amy, the first thing I told the specialist was my hormones, PMS symptoms and AFs were back to like being a teen! Now why can't my fertility be the same?!? Just sayin...

I know!!!! geeez.. oh well, Like Bethany said, I would hope this all means that my body is working hard to make a happy home for a lo this cycle! What cd are you now? SO so so so so excited for you!!! This is going to be your month!

Oh, mominlondon, I THIRD what these girls say about the conflicting info regarding being fertile after a d&c. I think everyone is different and I have heard of some having no issue post op and some taking a little longer. I got pg on my first time trying before my mc and this time I am on my second month. I know it isnt a huge difference but none the less its a difference.

So on a side note.. my little work buddy was at it again this morning. I brought in my big bottle of advil since these cramps are just brutal and we got to talking and everytime I mentioned something about cramps, she had to one up me. I just really hate that! Grrr
Her: How was your friend? Did you go to Denver to check on her? Did you stay the weekend?
Me: Thanks for asking, she is doing ok. We didnt stay too long. Just checked on her and took her daughter to dinner so that she could rest since she didnt want to go anywhere. I started to feel dizzy and then af came so I guess that why I felt that way.

**CUT OFF**
Her: OH, I have passed out when I got my periods all the time.
Me: OMG, thats horrible. Ive never gotten to that

**CUTT OFF**
Her: I have passed out so many times in the bathroom and was alone
me: Oh geez sorry to hear. I kind of was prepared for this. The drs told me that I might be a little more sensitive post op but just fees like I am back to where I was when I was 16 and

**CUT OFF**
Her: Well I am 50 and I have had this my whole life...



...This is my day to day with her lol. She asks you how youre doing just to try and get you to start talking so that she can chime in and talk about her. She did it to a girl that came to my desk that was showing me a video of her little girl (So freaking cute) hugging her older brother and I was like "Oh your kids are sooo cute" and the other girl was like thank you and then BAM! She got cut off by this lady and she started talking about how her girls did something like this and blah blah blah... oye. People cant just be happy and interested in someone else's lofe, always about her. Ok Im done hahahah.

 

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Yeah it was so messy Angel :O

Amy, any way you can avoid discussing that coworker? The longer you work there the more mean you will be to her I bet lol. I became that way at my job- I worked with one other lady in the office and after a while I just pretended she wasn't there. She was nosy and talked smack behind everyone's back.
Now that I am gone though I miss her. She had to quit since I left for health reasons I was there 6 years

 

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Amy...friggin colleaguezilla strikes again! So sorry!

I know right! I wish I can take some people I have to deal with everyday and replace them with you ladies. My life would just be so much easier!!!!

 

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Sorry I didn't mean discussing I meant DISCUSSIONS with that coworker :-/

 

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(bangs head at social awkwardness that can't even be avoided online) brain fart! I better go eat something lol.

 

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Amy...friggin colleaguezilla strikes again! So sorry!

Yeah it was so messy Angel :O

Amy, any way you can avoid discussing that coworker? The longer you work there the more mean you will be to her I bet lol. I became that way at my job- I worked with one other lady in the office and after a while I just pretended she wasn't there. She was nosy and talked smack behind everyone's back.
Now that I am gone though I miss her. She had to quit since I left for health reasons I was there 6 years

Im scared of that too. I still feel like Im pretty nice to her despite all of this. I sit RIGHT next to her and her and I share this corner right by the window. Its the best place to have a desk but I have to take her with it. I think a big part of it is that she is going through the change and is also stressed all the time. Her hubby lives in Cali and comes out every couple of months for a week or so. It works for them but I know that would not fly with me to not be able to see my husband everyday. If I do try and put on headphones and kind of limit our interactions, then she asks whats wrong and cops an attitude and gets worse. A little immature imho but thats just me. I wish the best for her but really would wish that she knew she did this to everyone. She complains to me that she feels left out here and that no one talks to her and I kind of want to say something but I know she wont take it right. I dont see myself staying at this job for long. I told dh that I will stay until after our first lo is born so that I get the max amount of maternity leave, thats the deal. If I left and started with a new company I would have to wait another year and I have already been at this company for almost a year.

 

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Sorry I didn't mean discussing I meant DISCUSSIONS with that coworker :-/

(bangs head at social awkwardness that can't even be avoided online) brain fart! I better go eat something lol.

LOL, I knew what you meant babe!

 

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(bangs head at social awkwardness that can't even be avoided online) brain fart! I better go eat something lol.

Too cute Bethany!

Hang in there Amy. I'd have to look at colleaguezilla with pity...those one-uppers are interesting people. Might be repeating myself, but they say people who annoy you are good for your brain...somehow it stimulates it. What if it's making you all the smarter being around her?!?

I love your name for you.. it cracks me up everytime I see you type it ! She def is a test for me.. maybe the man upstairs is testing my pacience or something... who knows . She is leaving for Europe this week and will be gone for almost three weeks! I chuckled at a text I got from my friend who knows EVERYTHING about me and she said "You and Paul really need to take a vacation." So she asked why I laughed... you know how this convo went . WHY DID I REPONSD TO HER??? I shouldve just said "nothng".

Me:my gf said dh and I need a vaca

**CUTT OFF**
her: Oh I know, this is the first vacation I have taken since I moved here (7 years)
me: wow
Her: I think Steevn needs a vaca (her hubby). He works really hard. We are going to take a family vaca to Mexico next year and....

BLAH BLAH BLAH

Its more commical at this point.. just have to laugh!

 

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Beat her with a stick

 

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I did a few times
No TMI when TTC angel

 

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LOL.. I would like to have my child outside of jail so Ill refrain from beating her with a stick

 

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LOL.. I would like to have my child outside of jail so Ill refrain from beating her with a stick

Good call! Just think about it as you tune her out and she keeps squawking!

LOL