ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Laura no PA doesnt protect you. Its either you work for a company with benefits or you have nothing. Even so my friend works at the hospital and she wasnt even paid when she had her LO. So she took the mandatory 6weeks off to recover unpaid and went straight back to work. Its okay just nice that she was able to heal and come back to a job. I wont have the opportunity so LO better come on thursday so I can be back to work the following weds that way my job doesnt replace me! (i am not protected since he only has 4 employees and because of that I couldnt even collect unemployment if he replaces me since his business cant run without me there) Ill have to talk to him about possibly having a friend temp for me or something and him not replacing me. idk if itll work though dentists are a little strick in their ways.

Amy hang tight. Soon youll have your LO and then your lil LO will make daycare friends and youll have mommy friends!!! I know here on facebook we have a webpage for mommies to be and moms that swap, exchange, sell baby stuff and they also make playdates for their children. they meet at public places like bounce U and appleblossom and their children play and moms become friends! Perhaps there is something in your area like this?

Ya, I think youre right. I just have to have that lo already! It would be wierd if I met up with these people and didnt bring lol... not that I would. Can you imagine?? hahahah sorry just got a kick out of that.

I so wished we all lived closer together. Ive said it before but I really do wish...

 

[jen435]

its 4pm now!!! No call yet!! Do you think its too pushy if I call them again and ask??? I mean I spoke and left a vm two hours ago....

 

[aaronswoman79]

This lady sounds like she might be a narcissist. Everything revolves around her, she brings everything back to her and she suffers more, yadah yadah yadah. All I have got to say, is if she truly is a narcissist she is most likely not going to change, and if she is a narcissist, I feel very sorry for her family.lol. Stay away Amy, this lady creeps me out!

 

[jen435]

Amy wish we all lived closer too. It would be sooo nice!!!

Bethany Horsey Danni Everyone else how are you today?? Jessica Angel Hi!!

 

[lilesMom]

aw amy yuck it sucks being lonely. u havent been there that long, hope it improves xx try and keep in mind its for ur LO and u dont have to stay there forever xxx
i know its hard when u r actually there to keep it in mind x hugs x
lets hope ur parents do move out and u can make ur own family circle x

god jen thats tough that ur job isnt even protected, ok i need to get more gratefull for mine now xx im sure that would be illegal here. u need to come to ireland ha ha xx
i suppose its kind of same here but it works on if u r permanent or not , but if ur not permanent we get state part pay anyway. thats sucky for u , hope the temping works out x
ur so talented, i thought they were bought ha ha xxx

 

[lilesMom]

about 4 posts appeared when i posted ha ha so i cant use my thanks/like button so like to all

amy u could pretend ur LO was a toddler and anytime someone looked to meet him/her u could say he just toddled off behind a tree

call them jen, who cares if it seems pushy, they understand its nb to u xxx

i agree we should live closer
jessica i agree too , she is very me, me me

 

[aaronswoman79]

This lady sounds like she might be a narcissist. Everything revolves around her, she brings everything back to her and she suffers more, yadah yadah yadah. All I have got to say, is if she truly is a narcissist she is most likely not going to change, and if she is a narcissist, I feel very sorry for her family.lol. Stay away Amy, this lady creeps me out!

Sorry, that was meant for Amy. lol. I am talking about that crazy lady at your work. hehe

 

[aaronswoman79]

So after hubby and I ttc and were done this cycle I find a package of soft cups that I should have used, I forgot all about them. I bought them before I became pregnancy so there are a few left. I just thought of something that made me paranoid. Is there any way the sperm might cling and go into the soft cup instead of my cervix, after it is applied, like they might just fall into the soft cup?? lol. I know this question sounds stupid. But I am a paranoid person.

 

[jen435]

haha no i make my own stuff.Its more special that way. I actually made them after working a 9hr shift! Im nuts but was soo overjoyed I didnt care I had to go back to work the next morning. Glad you like them! Too bad I couldnt share them with you ladies! They where yummy.

Its 4:30 now and no returned call yet.... GRR im going to call them in 10 minutes. I am trying to be patient because this office hates being annoyed and I bothered them friday about this and I think I drove them a little batty. So I decided to be calm today. Making Roast Beef Yellow String Beans (dh request) zucchine and roasted potatoes for dinner. I cant wait to eat im starved!

Time is going soooo slow atm!!! Im so antsy now for that call!

 

[mommylov]

its 4pm now!!! No call yet!! Do you think its too pushy if I call them again and ask??? I mean I spoke and left a vm two hours ago....

This lady sounds like she might be a narcissist. Everything revolves around her, she brings everything back to her and she suffers more, yadah yadah yadah. All I have got to say, is if she truly is a narcissist she is most likely not going to change, and if she is a narcissist, I feel very sorry for her family.lol. Stay away Amy, this lady creeps me out!

about 4 posts appeared when i posted ha ha so i cant use my thanks/like button so like to all

amy u could pretend ur LO was a toddler and anytime someone looked to meet him/her u could say he just toddled off behind a tree

call them jen, who cares if it seems pushy, they understand its nb to u xxx

i agree we should live closer
jessica i agree too , she is very me, me me

Seriously I LOVE you girls!!!! Jen, Jessica, Laura.... you all hit the nail rigth on the head! I too feel bad for her fam, yikes! She just told me that when she gets back from Europe that she is going start putting herself first.. in front of her kids and husband. I wanted to say "Dont you already do that? Im ena youre going to Europe with your girlfriends without your husband".. ANYWAY!

Jen, not all all.. I would totally call!!! Call them before they close for the day!

 

[jen435]

Jessica I used softcups thanks to bethany this past cycle and fell pregnant right away so I really do think they help keep them close to cervix. You should try to raise your legs or lift your bottom before you insert them and then stay there for a little to give them the best chance. They after its nice to know they can stay there for a few hours. Preseed can be added to the cup to to help them swim if youd like.

 

[mommylov]

So after hubby and I ttc and were done this cycle I find a package of soft cups that I should have used, I forgot all about them. I bought them before I became pregnancy so there are a few left. I just thought of something that made me paranoid. Is there any way the sperm might cling and go into the soft cup instead of my cervix, after it is applied, like they might just fall into the soft cup?? lol. I know this question sounds stupid. But I am a paranoid person.

Ohh I wanna know too! Good question!

 

[aaronswoman79]

about 4 posts appeared when i posted ha ha so i cant use my thanks/like button so like to all

amy u could pretend ur LO was a toddler and anytime someone looked to meet him/her u could say he just toddled off behind a tree

call them jen, who cares if it seems pushy, they understand its nb to u xxx

i agree we should live closer
jessica i agree too , she is very me, me me

Yes Laura, I have known a few people like this. And no matter what happens it is all about them, even if you have a personal tragedy, they some how find a way to make your tragedy theirs. My husbands mother is a narcissist. In fact, I think she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She fits all the characteristics. All of her family cater to her personality, this is the reason my husbands whole family turned their back on him. She uses something against everybody, and makes the whole world about herself. Luckily my hubby met me and left that whole crazy environment. His mother raised him teaching him that he owed her his life, because if it wasn't for her, he would have never been born. She told him that he was suppose to be aborted because he was killing her through her pregnancy with him, and that supposedly she decided not to abort him and she saved his life. Can you believe when I met him, he had this mindset, because it was drilled into him his whole life. She also blamed him for a blood vessel she broke while giving birth to him. I would say this woman is either very evil or has some severe personality disorder. . I can say with certainty it is a good thing that they disowned him and we have nothing to do with these people.

 

[mommylov]

haha no i make my own stuff.Its more special that way. I actually made them after working a 9hr shift! Im nuts but was soo overjoyed I didnt care I had to go back to work the next morning. Glad you like them! Too bad I couldnt share them with you ladies! They where yummy.

Its 4:30 now and no returned call yet.... GRR im going to call them in 10 minutes. I am trying to be patient because this office hates being annoyed and I bothered them friday about this and I think I drove them a little batty. So I decided to be calm today. Making Roast Beef Yellow String Beans (dh request) zucchine and roasted potatoes for dinner. I cant wait to eat im starved!

Time is going soooo slow atm!!! Im so antsy now for that call!

Yuuuummmmmmmmmmm... can you ship some to me? Please and thanks. heheh

 

[aaronswoman79]

So after hubby and I ttc and were done this cycle I find a package of soft cups that I should have used, I forgot all about them. I bought them before I became pregnancy so there are a few left. I just thought of something that made me paranoid. Is there any way the sperm might cling and go into the soft cup instead of my cervix, after it is applied, like they might just fall into the soft cup?? lol. I know this question sounds stupid. But I am a paranoid person.

Ohh I wanna know too! Good question!

Thx Amy, I was scared to ask. lol. I thought it sounded kinda silly. hehe.

 

[jen435]

They NEVER called me back and I just tried them and they closed early!!! ARGH!!! I am sooo angry!!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jessica I used softcups thanks to bethany this past cycle and fell pregnant right away so I really do think they help keep them close to cervix. You should try to raise your legs or lift your bottom before you insert them and then stay there for a little to give them the best chance. They after its nice to know they can stay there for a few hours. Preseed can be added to the cup to to help them swim if youd like.

So pre-seed is good for couples ttc, right? I went to the website. Does it actually help the swimmers? I hear it is expensive, but will be willing to try anything.

 

[aaronswoman79]

They NEVER called me back and I just tried them and they closed early!!! ARGH!!! I am sooo angry!!!

Sorry Jen. Is this about your test results, or were you suppose to take more tests? I hate dealing with some of these medical offices where you have to play baby sitter with them, and keep calling and they never get back to you. grrrrrrrrr.

 

[aaronswoman79]

haha no i make my own stuff.Its more special that way. I actually made them after working a 9hr shift! Im nuts but was soo overjoyed I didnt care I had to go back to work the next morning. Glad you like them! Too bad I couldnt share them with you ladies! They where yummy.

Its 4:30 now and no returned call yet.... GRR im going to call them in 10 minutes. I am trying to be patient because this office hates being annoyed and I bothered them friday about this and I think I drove them a little batty. So I decided to be calm today. Making Roast Beef Yellow String Beans (dh request) zucchine and roasted potatoes for dinner. I cant wait to eat im starved!

Time is going soooo slow atm!!! Im so antsy now for that call!

Yuuuummmmmmmmmmm... can you ship some to me? Please and thanks. heheh

Amy, do you know how to make a lot of Indian dishes? And what is your specialty? I am part Salvadorean, and I don't know how to make much food from their, only a couple dishes. My mom married a gringo (my dad) and got accustomed to making mostly american food. We would usually go out to eat Salvadorean food. I do make a lot of Mexican food. (sad I know, since I am not even Mexican and can't even make Salvadorean food). lol. I also like making Italian and French dishes. hehe

 

[mommylov]

Im sooo scared to try soft cups. I know you girls have but Im terrified to even stick my finger up there or anything too.. I know, Im like 12 but its the truth.