ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

jen thats cool how u know exactly when u concieved, bet ur dates r right not ur docs xx.

 

[lilesMom]

angel i posted at same time so LIKE ha ha
my scan is 2 weeks today , il be over 7 weeks so im hoping they get heartbeat but ive tilted uterus so may not , god il be worried if they dont even though i know they might not im annoying myself today , im being a moany minnie tonight.
im mentally slaping myself saying snap out of it

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

yeah angel , i take it cos my bro and Sil had a baby with ananchephely, its a genetic thing caused by a mix of both parents genes, chances me and OH both have it are tiny, but cos my bro has the gene i could too, so super folic acid helps combat it if there is a problem . so its a just in case it causes the babies brain to not develop properly and the baby only lives for few hrs if u go to full term, they had one little girl with it, she only lived a few hrs. so sad but thank gor they have 3 healthy kids and she is the Sil due within 2 days of when lile should be so i cant begrudge them their healthy LO

 

[aaronswoman79]

Quick question, I need some advice. What brand of prenatals and dha do you take? And which in your opinion is the best prenatals? And 800 of folic acid or 1,000 mg? Will it hurt to take more? Do we need more than 800? Doctors never gave me any info.

 

[lilesMom]

i feel a bit ashamed of myself today, im a bit bitter
i ws being jealous of my Sil , she has had more than her share of ttc heartbreak so i gotta snap out of it and be happy for um and not think of lile when i hear of her and her bump
i also was so mad at my mom cos i said i wasnt tellin anymore people till after the scan and id wait and see what they say to me then. she said, sure its not the end of the world whatever they say anyway.
i felt like she had kicked me, but looking back on it she prob meant id get through is whatever it was cos my mom isnt that mean
im too sensitive and id say she was lost for words
this typing is like therapy ha ha x

 

[lilesMom]

Quick question, I need some advice. What brand of prenatals and dha do you take? And which in your opinion is the best prenatals? And 800 of folic acid or 1,000 mg? Will it hurt to take more? Do we need more than 800? Doctors never gave me any info.

people without a reason to need only take 400Ug a day hon. i take 5000ug or 5 mg for the reasons i explained above, if u have no family history then 400 is enough most preg vits will have it in um anyway.
until recently i swore by vits supplements but i have done a uturn
all docs i have seen recently and liver speacialist all say they are no good to u really, that u need to get ur vits and minerals from food (bar folic acid )
but each to their own, before my liver started playing up i always took vits . but i wont be recommneding um to anyone in future.
my copper levels were up a bit , but my prenatal had copper in it so i dont know if it caused it but it def didnt help

 

[lilesMom]

oh and jessica it doesnt hurt to take more folic acid, its awater soluble vit so u pee out excess. dont take any vits with vit a in it, eating foods with it is fine but too much in a supplement is harmfull to baby.
they also recommmend gettin vit d

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

jessica i was gonna do angel cards for myself and i said while i was talkin to u, id pull 3 for u, hope u dont mind, i donno if u have interest or not if not let me know and i wont do it again x

1) Ground yourself : if you have been feeling spacey, confused or forgetfull this card speaks to the reason. a balance is needed between a focus on spirit and a focus on earth. ground urself by gardening, working with flower essences and adjust ur life style and diet so that they support mental and physical awareness.

2) Play : its time to set aside work for a while , dont worry angels will look after ur responsibilities. playfullness , gaiety and laughter will lift ur spirit so u can return to work renewed.

3) Listen : quiet ur mind and listen to angels gentle reassurance that all has been taken care of. stay in a quiet state without worrying how ur desire will be fulfilled,just trust that it will . dont allow stress to block u listening to the angels .

hope this is ok for u. im not being pushy bout angels and stuff . i do believe but i dont think every1 should believe what i believe xx

 

[lilesMom]

angel u have any interest in angel cards ?

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[aaronswoman79]

jessica i was gonna do angel cards for myself and i said while i was talkin to u, id pull 3 for u, hope u dont mind, i donno if u have interest or not if not let me know and i wont do it again x

1) Ground yourself : if you have been feeling spacey, confused or forgetfull this card speaks to the reason. a balance is needed between a focus on spirit and a focus on earth. ground urself by gardening, working with flower essences and adjust ur life style and diet so that they support mental and physical awareness.

2) Play : its time to set aside work for a while , dont worry angels will look after ur responsibilities. playfullness , gaiety and laughter will lift ur spirit so u can return to work renewed.

3) Listen : quiet ur mind and listen to angels gentle reassurance that all has been taken care of. stay in a quiet state without worrying how ur desire will be fulfilled,just trust that it will . dont allow stress to block u listening to the angels .

hope this is ok for u. im not being pushy bout angels and stuff . i do believe but i dont think every1 should believe what i believe xx

Thanks Laura, that really helped a lot. What is funny as while you sent me this message I was researching flower essences. hehe. I need all of that advice, ground myself, play and listen... everything that I haven not done. What are Angel cards though? Sounds very helpful. Thank u so much!

 

[lilesMom]

jessica that is so cool, i picked up the cards to do my own while waiting for ye to type and i just thought i should do urs
u can get loads of diff packs, u just pick whatever packs ur drawn to, i have 5 diff ones but i have a fave pack that i used for u there are different ways of picking cards, like layouts and stuff but i aways just go with my gut and shuffle them and pick out cards and then turn um over and read the explanation in the book that comes with um.
i do angel cards all the time for myself , i love um

angel il do urs now hon xx

 

[lilesMom]

angel here are ur 3

1) daydream : relax and open ur mind to recieving without directing ur thoughts, just notice any feeling, dreams or ideas as if u were watching a movie. this is the set of creativity. give urself permission to relax and let go. try something new u have always wanted to do, brain storm with urself or others for new ideas .

2) Notice the signs: the signs we have been sending u are heaven sent, we drop feathers, coins, and other signs in ur path to remind u that u r never alone. look out for anything repetitive that u may notice, it is sign from angels. your departed loved ones r saying 'hello, i love u'

3) Assertiveness : this situation can be resolved with gentleness and with love as requested , yet there is also a need for strength and truthfullness with the other people involved. we will stand right behind u as you speak ur truth guiding u and giving u strength.
were u feeling victimised by something, it wil only change if you speak ur truth and clearly communicate ur needs. tell the truth to urself and others.

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

aw wow now i remember why i love angel cards so much xx
im in a great mood again after those readings
i saw the biggest rainbow today, it was the fattest rainbow i ever saw, we will all be ok and be the proudest mommies showing off our pics of LOs in times to come ha ha xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx big hugs xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

if any of ye want um done just ask, i hate being pushy with um but have no prob doin um, love and x

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

not at all hon , u can never jinx a message from ur angels xx share away x