ttc after a d&c

natasha and danni just to let ye know when catchin up, we miss ye xxxxxxxxxxx
 
Super! I'll be putting in a weekly Tuesday request...it'll pair nicely with acupuncture! Hehehe!

:dust:
 
So many pages! *faints*

Jessica, is your hubby nosy? I swear men are so damned nosy!
Don't be sorry to post negative things- we can't be happy all the time. That is just reality and you will benefit from opening up to us about it. That is what we are here for :flower:
And apathy towards people (and pride as well) is a huge problem. I think that coldness is like saying that you, as a person, aren't worthy of their emotions. And who can feel good about that? Hopefully he recognizes that those things are bad and finds the will to want to change for the benefit of his spouse and family.
And you are right, this is such a cozy great of wonderful ladies. Far but still close :)
Prenatals: I take the Nature Made ones but I get my DHA from the Vitamin Shoppe. I have no idea on the dosage of my frolic acid though.

Laura, you are so sweet. I love you :)
I love the show 21 Jump Street. Watched it all the time as a kid hehe
Hopefully you get to hear a HB to soothe you honey.*
And Laura, you aren't sensitive per se. You are pregnant and feeling vulnerable again. Nothing wrong with that!
And I love when you do angel cards :)

Amy, he was just getting excited hehe. Spain would be amazing. Every time Anthony Bourdain or Andrew Zimmern go there I get excited :)
Oh and Amy, you should put a book on your wishlist called Travel With Baby. Gets good reviews. I will get it eventually and let you know!

Angel, I am always afraid to tell people how much of a chore I think showering is. Don't want them to think that I don't care about being clean and smelling good. But you completely understood :D
How do you like Virginia? My parents lived there and miss it
Oh and does acupuncture hurt? Curious :)
Running! How can you stand it? Hehe I have asthma and that is something I just haven't mastered with it. But I do other types of cardio that my friends who run find exhausting. Which makes me feel good, just like I am sure they feel good when I wheeze and get red-faced trying to keep up with them hehe

Hi Danni!

Jen, so glad that being demanding worked! Not sure about the ultrasound bit though. Whatever you think is best :)

Angel, schweddy balls was tasty! ;)
And my DH will lecture about things pretty often. Like if I want something and he goes "well baby...that has corn syrup in it" in a snooty voice. Or reminding me that my juice is a lot of calories.
 
So many pages! *faints*

Jessica, is your hubby nosy? I swear men are so damned nosy!
Don't be sorry to post negative things- we can't be happy all the time. That is just reality and you will benefit from opening up to us about it. That is what we are here for :flower:
And apathy towards people (and pride as well) is a huge problem. I think that coldness is like saying that you, as a person, aren't worthy of their emotions. And who can feel good about that? Hopefully he recognizes that those things are bad and finds the will to want to change for the benefit of his spouse and family.
And you are right, this is such a cozy great of wonderful ladies. Far but still close :)
Prenatals: I take the Nature Made ones but I get my DHA from the Vitamin Shoppe. I have no idea on the dosage of my frolic acid though.

Laura, you are so sweet. I love you :)
I love the show 21 Jump Street. Watched it all the time as a kid hehe
Hopefully you get to hear a HB to soothe you honey.*
And Laura, you aren't sensitive per se. You are pregnant and feeling vulnerable again. Nothing wrong with that!
And I love when you do angel cards :)

Amy, he was just getting excited hehe. Spain would be amazing. Every time Anthony Bourdain or Andrew Zimmern go there I get excited :)
Oh and Amy, you should put a book on your wishlist called Travel With Baby. Gets good reviews. I will get it eventually and let you know!

Angel, I am always afraid to tell people how much of a chore I think showering is. Don't want them to think that I don't care about being clean and smelling good. But you completely understood :D
How do you like Virginia? My parents lived there and miss it
Oh and does acupuncture hurt? Curious :)
Running! How can you stand it? Hehe I have asthma and that is something I just haven't mastered with it. But I do other types of cardio that my friends who run find exhausting. Which makes me feel good, just like I am sure they feel good when I wheeze and get red-faced trying to keep up with them hehe

Hi Danni!

Jen, so glad that being demanding worked! Not sure about the ultrasound bit though. Whatever you think is best :)

Angel, schweddy balls was tasty! ;)
And my DH will lecture about things pretty often. Like if I want something and he goes "well baby...that has corn syrup in it" in a snooty voice. Or reminding me that my juice is a lot of calories.

wow Bethany I wished we lived closer. I also have asthma as well as my youngest. And as far as apathy goes, not a lot of people seem to understand my situation when I tell them. Because at least from the Hispanic side, they say as long as he doesn't cheat on you, and he provides for his family, doesn't verbally abuse, he is some great guy. So if I tell them he is emotionally cold, they look at me like I am crazy or something. Like I am unworthy to complain because he doesn't have some mistress somewhere. My mom told me I should of married a gringo. hehe. She is from El Salvador, and men over there on a whole are cheaters. Sure you have your good faithful men, but there are few and hard to find. Being a womanizer is like a way of life over there. I hardly understand it. That is why my mom came here and found a good 'ole American man. My dad was a wonderful father with great values. He was very affectionate too. So what do I go and find, a man who has issues with affection. lol. Oh well, all I can do is stop enabling him and pray that he changes.
 
It would be nice if we lived closer. I am actually introverted too and a homebody to boot so I would never nag you into spending all your time with me, promise :)
My exhusband was Puerto Rican. He was very cold. And his family seemed to think every time his brothers whore around or cheated on the latest wife that it was just hilarious. Can't say I saw the humor. But the apathy is a problem because when you are married the last thing you need is emotional barriers. And when you are hurting from a loss, you don't need to feel like your spouse doesn't find you or your pain worthy of his acknowledgement. It makes it so much harder on you :hugs: hopefully he straightens out soon!
 
Quick question, I need some advice. What brand of prenatals and dha do you take? And which in your opinion is the best prenatals? And 800 of folic acid or 1,000 mg? Will it hurt to take more? Do we need more than 800? Doctors never gave me any info. :growlmad:

Nature made prenatal the one with Dha :flower:
 
Awe Bethany, love the new sig!

Just wanted to come on and say good night to you girls! :hugs:
 
Thanks! :D
I figured I will color mine when I get on the comp, like you girls did :D
Nighty night!
 
I know the jury is still out on vitamins, but I've been taking Whole Food (real food derived vits) or Xymogen Prenatal Essentials. True what Laura said, the best way for your body to absorb vitamins is through your diet.

Thank u so much Angel! I am researching the whole Food vitamins right now! I never realized the difference between the organic vitamins and crap I have been taking. I learn something everyday from you ladies. :hugs:
 
It would be nice if we lived closer. I am actually introverted too and a homebody to boot so I would never nag you into spending all your time with me, promise :)
My exhusband was Puerto Rican. He was very cold. And his family seemed to think every time his brothers whore around or cheated on the latest wife that it was just hilarious. Can't say I saw the humor. But the apathy is a problem because when you are married the last thing you need is emotional barriers. And when you are hurting from a loss, you don't need to feel like your spouse doesn't find you or your pain worthy of his acknowledgement. It makes it so much harder on you :hugs: hopefully he straightens out soon!

Yeah, he better straighten out soon. hehe. Or bd time is gonna be put on hold. lol. Just kidding, I need those swimmers. :blush: About your exs family... gosh what a nightmare. There is no humor in infidelity. I hope his mother was at least against her sons doing that! I would be so mad at my son if he treated his wife that way! Being cheated on hurts so badly! And on him being cold, good thing you are not with him anymore. How long were you married to him for? I am so happy for you that now you found a good man for you!! :hugs:
 
Good morning ladies! Its 6:40am and im waiting at the lab. They are packed! Hope im seen before 730 since i have work... :)

I take centrum prenatal vitamin with dha... They make me vomit now that im pregnant if taken with water :) must be working lol i take em with juice now at bedtime...figure that one. It works better :)

5pm where are you???? Tooo many hours away but thankful to work as long as my schedule is no nitrous and limited radiation :) one can pray right?

:dust: have a great day ladies!
 
Jessica, don't you wish that you could just take the whiny husband out of the TTC picture? My husband doesn't whine but sometimes I'd just rather have a turkey baster and a cup full of sperm in my hands. Then you don't have to beg and charm and work your butt off to get what you want :)
Ex's family...their mother was more disappointed at first but over time she just blamed the girls for her sons cheating. Only one of them made her sad and that was the Mormon wife that the oldest one cheated on- she had really loved that girl like a daughter.
Being cheated on does hurt. My dad did it to my mother and my ex to me :(
We were married 4 years by the time of our divorce but had been together years before that. He'd been my high school sweetheart.
I sank into a depression when it was over but I think it was meant to be because then I started dating my husband. Who I have known longer and is amazing :)
How did you meet you hubby? :flower:

Jen, thanks! I couldn't remember everyone's screen names so put what we call each other :D
Hope you get seen soon and that the day flies by! And you gagging on your pills is a great sign hehe!

AFM: cat has started to meow and be generally loud about an hour before we wake up. No idea what to do. May need to get him a companion cat and hope they entertain each other.
 
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For smiles! Which are you guys? :D
 

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