ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

Hey girls ive not caught up yet, but i thought id share this website with you, obviously you might have come across it before and its accuracy can vary a day or so depending on the person but i thought it was interesting

https://www.askdramy.com/ovulationcalc.html

xxxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, if you get bfp this cycle, you will be having a September baby.. right?

 

[Storked]

Laura, glad you had a wonderful time with more to come
Sadly it would take my DH just as long to grab milk. I used to think I knew what traffic was and then I moved to Houston where you can kill 10 minutes at each dang light.*
I am just glad that where we live isn't in a busy part. Possibly the most quiet part of the city lol

Amy, I lurk from my phone too! Posting isn't easy. If I had a BFP this cycle I would die of shock lol. Already feeling the PMS of backaches, acne, and weepiness
You will ovulate honey and third time is the charm keeping you in my thoughts.

Jessica, how awful

Well dishes are done! I am still in my pajamas but at least I am wearing makeup. Curling up with a new book. Angel, whatcha reading?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Bethany, I see your anniversary is coming up. any plans yet?

 

[Storked]

Jessica, me and DH are kind of lame and probably won't do anything. We may just consider our April trip a late gift to ourselves

Natasha, I filled out that link and just flipped out. If I was preggers it says I would be due in September which is bad timing. But on the plus side, maybe I don't have to wait as long to try as I had thought

 

[mommylov]

Tash it wont let me open it here at work.. Ill try when I get home

Jess, Yup! Id be due at the end of Sep so right in between my bday and our anniversay When I was preg last time (2nd time) I was due right around dh's bday... if I fall this month, then I will be due about a week or so after my bday. Im PRAYING I get pregnant... I fall baby sounds so nice

Bethany, thanks hun Yay for maybo not having to wait as long!!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

awww that would be a perfect b-day present!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[Storked]

Bethany ~ I'm reading Janet Evanovich's Notorious Nineteen...I just realized it has been out! I'm also trying to read Clockwork Prince. What have you been reading?

Just began A Discovery of Witches.
Enjoy your books!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Now that you mention Tifanny's, something very horrible happened right outside their store on our vacation in Carmel. A senior citizen got very sick right outside the store, it happened right as we were going to our car, parked right outside Tiffany's. My husband went to help the old man and his wife. (By the way, this all happened New Years Day.) The man was going into cardiac arrest or at least that is what it looked like. This was all happening in front of my 2 daughters. We had already called the ambulance, and by the time the man stopped breathing the police had already arrived.. (very small town... thank God).
This is what shocked me though. I went into Tiffany's and asked the employees or anybody in there if they knew of a doctor or if anybody that could help. They told me that they wouldn't help.. even if the man was dying. That employees at Tiffany's are not allowed to help anybody in need right outside their store, not even if the person is bleeding to death or dying, because they will lose their job or Tiffany's could be liable. I have never heard of this in my life, I thought the decent thing for a human to do when another human is in need is to try and save them or do what they can. Now I am not a Tiffany's customer, but if this is true... that is one store I will NEVER be going to. That just sickened me what happened.

First let me say, I do hope the gentleman who was coding is doing better. Such a tragic thing to happen, especially on Jan 1.

Playing devil's advocate here:
Liability is a tricky thing...Tiffany & Co is a billion dollar corporation...do we blame them or those who are law suit happy? Every which way we turn someone is suing or getting sued. (wasn't it McDonald's for hot coffee!?!) The good samaritan law covers the person aiding the victim (in most states, provided negligence cannot be proven), but does it protect their employer? It wouldn't surprise me if its a company policy to refrain from performing any acts of heroism while on the clock.

Just glad someone was able to make the phone call and the police were able to help.

*Disclaimer, I am a fan of Tiffany's and think it is AWFUL that the world has come to a point where no one wants to help for fear of liability. I am sorry for your bad experience with them.

All I know is that a poor old man got very sick in right in front of my whole family (including my own children) it was very sad. Actually, they can help (its free will right), but they could get fired because of company policy.. so it is a moral decision the person has to make. I mean, who is going to watch someone die because of fear of losing a job, its just human instinct. Imagine if no one was there to help that poor old man, inagine if it was a child. The first thing I thought of was my own father. What if that was my father (may he rest in peace) and he was left to die because of a company policy. That is why we were so disgusted, the man working there actually told me that they aren't even allowed to step foot out of the door no matter if someone is sick, dying etc. I have never ever experienced anything like that my whole life. I understand and respect your opinion, but experiencing death staring at you right in the face and what that man from Tiffany's had to say was a very real and scary experience. And that is enough reason (if what the manager said is true) for me to never want to do business with them. Anyways, I have never been a fan of them. This whole thing is depressing me anyways. I just want to forget it happened but I do hope the old man recovered. I will say something though. My husband has witnessed more tragedies than your average human being. Its so weird, he has stared death in the face many times. I think it has made him appreciate life a lot more.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, are you having any pregnancy symptoms. I have asked you a few times, but maybe you missed it? How are you feeling?

 

[jen435]

Angel so sorry ur family has yet to witness another tragedy. I hope he is okay and his wife is too. Your husband is such a good man. As for the store thats sad. Im a healthcare provider for me not to assist with cpr once unconscious it would have been protected by good samaritan act but also illegal if i walked away and saw it happening. I definately woulda helpped! so sorry for ur scare im so glad u have a happy bouncy baby and had reassurance. Also glad u still rang in the new years.

Laura glad u enjoyed ur day at the spa! One left i agree save it for third trimester

Amy so awesome to have massage every month id love that! Angel flowers for no reason are great too

i read so much and cant remember what i was going to say to everyone my memory is mush today. Ill have to try to remember! Sorry

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[jen435]

Angel pimples are soo annoying i have them still and they are bad. I hope ur lucky and urs clear up! Hurry up january we want to see ur babys lol. I know ur lo is all snug and comfy in ur womb angel. Ull be in ur second trimester in no time also for ms i didnt have many at all til 9weeks so hang in there i am excited for ur scan weds!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel so sorry ur family has yet to witness another tragedy. I hope he is okay and his wife is too. Your husband is such a good man. As for the store thats sad. Im a healthcare provider for me not to assist with cpr once unconscious it would have been protected by good samaritan act but also illegal if i walked away and saw it happening. I definately woulda helpped! so sorry for ur scare im so glad u have a happy bouncy baby and had reassurance. Also glad u still rang in the new years.

Laura glad u enjoyed ur day at the spa! One left i agree save it for third trimester

Amy so awesome to have massage every month id love that! Angel flowers for no reason are great too

i read so much and cant remember what i was going to say to everyone my memory is mush today. Ill have to try to remember! Sorry

Thanks hon, that was actually me but its ok, there is a lot to keep up with on here. How are u doing? How is baby doing? I hope things are getting better for you at home. And I am so sorry about your hours being cut, I can't imagine how hard it must be. We have been through many financial struggles. It is very hard right now. I hope that this will be a great year for you. I hope you find some relief from your financial troubles and hopefully your husband can learn to understand better. I have had my issues with hubby as well. Sometimes it just takes them realizing on their own and having a wake up call to learn. Maybe you have the doctor talk to your husband next time, about how critical this time is for you and just what a woman's body goes through during a pregnancy. At times I feel like I have to train my husband about certain things, as wrong as that sounds, but men in general are hard for me to understand. They can be big babies when they are sick or make a bigger deal out of things, yet have no idea what we go through. My husband had a stomach ache the other day he was acting like he was dying, and it was just a stomach ache. lol.

 

[jen435]

Bethany yay for anniverary and not having to wait so long to ttc again. Still fixed that ur surprise bfp shows!! You truely never know but its better to be like hey am i late and question it then wham bfp! Okay wishful thinking but ill dream for u! As i do for everyone of u! Sounds like a lovely day ur having. All curled up with a book makeup aww u looked so pretty for dh like always! Tons of dust ur way!

Tash fxd for a bfp. Tons of dust to u also!!

amy glad u had a nice new year! Also fxd for this.cycle! I agree with bethany third time must be the charm tons of dust for u as well!

Ilovehim and horsey hi!! Tons of dust to you as well!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, are you having any pregnancy symptoms. I have asked you a few times, but maybe you missed it? How are you feeling?

Oh sorry, I still have pimples (so annoying) and sore boobs. Not experiencing MS, which worries me at times, but I'm just taking things one day at a time. I just need to get to next Wednesday's scan and I'll feel better about this pregnancy...I could've went today for a 7w2d scan, but was too afraid of what I might not see. Its scary knowing what we know...

By the way, glad the ER was so thorough with you. Have they transferred you to the new Doc yet?

I didn't get MS this pregnancy, just no desire to eat at times, and very picky about what I eat, like food aversions. But I only got nausea like 2 times. The sore boobs came in at 10 weeks, and they aren't even incredibly sore. They are sore when I wake up in the morning and they get irritated easily, especially when I am cold. But nothing like other women who say they have excruciating boob pain. But I never got sore boobs with my first 2 pregnancies and I had 2 healthy daughters. The problems I have are peeing a lot, I guess because of the hormonal changes and growing uterus, and horrible acid reflux. The acid reflux has always been the first sign that I am pregnant along with the peeing. One thing that scares me is how crampy I have been this whole pregnancy, I feel everything around my uterus and its scary. I feel the baby moving now. And I think this is because this is my 4th pregnancy so everything is so sensitive, especially my uterus.

Oh, and about the new doc, your not going to believe this. I was never able to transfer out of Kaiser because of my AIM insurance, this is the only choice I have and guess what? Kaiser is now denying me a high risk doctor, saying my pregnancy isn't high risk. WTH, not high risk? I have had high risk pregnancies since age 19! I had pre-ecclampsia with first pregnancy, second pregnancy, a large ovarian cyst, high blood pressure and post natal hemorrhaging. Third pregnancy, a subchorionic hematoma along with a freak umbilical cord accident, and with this pregnancy I already had a hematoma, although they say I no longer have one (although I think I may still have a tiny one). But I think I deserve to be seen by a high risk doctor to keep a close eye on me to avoid any further problems. My blood pressure is already creeping up.

Anyways, sorry about the rant. I am sure everything is fine. And I totally understand the fear. Every time I have an ultrasound, my heart pounds and I always feel like I have to prepare for devastating news. I will pray that all if fine with your lo.

 

[jen435]

Jess im so sorry! I meant to write ur name!! I tell u i lost it! My boss got arrested nye at the club at casino by my house for harassment and disorderly conduct (bar fight). He was annoyed i set alarm after being last person to leave office. No one told me not too. The temp hygienist worked for me monday 8-12 and the rest of today. He wants to hire her but needs to rid me. So he is cutting my hours.

 

[jen435]

Jess ins is soo terrible!! Its actually them denying u a high risk doctor since they wont cover it?? Can u go on ur own for a check?? Im so sorry. Doctors treat limitation as an order when ins wont cover it. Everything will be ok stay on bedrest as ur ms i had all them with liam!! I wanna say BOY!! cant wait to find out