ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

I hope so... was just scared that it was a tinge of red and not pink or brown. Ive been back in the bathroom a few times since and have nothing so it was just the one time one wipe. FX

Love to you all!

 

[lilesMom]

I hope so... was just scared that it was a tinge of red and not pink or brown. Ive been back in the bathroom a few times since and have nothing so it was just the one time one wipe. FX

Love to you all!

could totally be hon, fx for u xxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Oh good to know angel! Ya it was just the one time and now I haven't seen anything. Not even a trace. Do you remember what dpo that was for you? Maybe the same applies regarding the hsg for me?

 

[jen435]

Amy i had red ib and then pink after my bfp. I believe my obgyn said pink and brown is old blood from ib and red is fresh. Fxd for ib i have good feeling for u

Tash heres to hoping 12wks go fast. Oh and what laura said holds true. Once hcg is tooo high the hpts dont work the same due to other hormones and levels. Just relax and let bubs grow sweety i really hope workin and ur hubby help it go fast.

Bethany im so sad for u that ur suffering with a infection from ur surgery. I am so so sorry bethany i really hope that u heal quicky and stay healthy this time. How are u otherwise? Miss u and it was good hearing from u. I hope ur back soon

I appologize i read everything had a hard day today emotionally and i honestly am having a hard time atm. Ill be back tomorrow to write the rest of u.

Angel laura horsey jess hi! How are u all? I am so sorry if u wrote i read amd didnt reply to it. Anyways i hope all three ur bumps are doing well horsey im wishing u a bfp soon and for ur clomid to finally work now that ur having fertility help to you!

 

[jen435]

Angel gla ur getting ur rest!!

Laura how are u feling? Im so sorry iron is making u feel bad. Seems like u have a plan. Did u say ull take liquid iron?? Or did i remember that wrong. I hope ur plan works okay and in time u feel better. Did u get lab work results yet from doctor? Or did i miss that post? Sorry if i did.

Think im going back to sleep. Goodnight!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi Jen, sorry you are having a hard time. I hope things start getting better for you from here on out. Please try to relax and stay off your feet!

Amy, fx that the tiny bit of blood was a good sign. It could be ib like everyone says. Remember, even though you started having your surge at around cd 14, you could have oved a little later, and implantation also could have occurred later. This is what happened to me. I remember testing 10 days after ov and still got a negative also. I got a strong positive on the day af was due. So I am thinking I would have had my bfp by day 12 to 14. But remember everybody is different.

Angel, yay for dh coming home. He travels a lot on business huh. That must be hard at times. Getting close to 12 weeks!! yay!!

Hi Bethany. I've missed you a lot, how have you been? I hope the infection is clearing up. Did you say you might have caught this after d&c? Wow, hun I hope you get better soon. How are you and dh doing. Aren't you about to celebrate your anniversary or already did?

Hi Tash and Laura. Hope you ladies are doing good. FX these next few weeks go by quickly for you Tash.

 

[aaronswoman79]

AFM. Been really busy here with problems at home. Mostly revolving around my girls. The older one 13th b-day is coming up. Her grades are going down the drains. She just doesn't care about school and everything we have done to try and help her has done nothing. The sad thing is that she's a genius, mensa level genius and she wants to do nothing with her intelligence. She just doesn't care and it makes me sad. She doesn't want people to know of find out how smart she is. I hope its just a stage she is going through. But she can also be very lazy. I recently found out there are a lot of boys pursuing her and I am scared of her starting to sneak around or having a boyfriend. I haven't given her any opportunity outside school to have a bf, but I wonder what is going on at school. If it is possibly a boy or something else distracting her. Here comes the teenage years . It scares me just thinking about it.

The little ones mental state is going downhill. I don't know how much longer I can go without medicating her. I am just so scared of anti-psychotics and what they could potentially do to her brain and growing body. There are not enough studies or data on what they can do to small children. But she is so unstable. We have tried the natural/herbal route. But it doesn't help. We think she has brain damage from when I gave birth to her and the umbilical cord was basically strangling her and from the over dosing of pitocin. Ladies be very careful if they induce you and give you pitocin, some doctors like to give it like candy.

Anyways, sorry for the rant. This is part of the reason why I am not on much anymore. It is hard to get online when I already have 2 daughters. There is always drama drama drama here. lol.

 

[TTCSecrets]

just a quick one cos im late for work LOL catch up later xx

Thanks girls for your support it really means the world, im so glad i have u girls, i couldnt have done TTC and i definitely cant handle being pg without u girls for reassurance!

Bethany yay we miss u!! come back soon hope that nasty infection goes soon!!

Amy i asked the fertility specialist at the hospital about ib, she said that any colour, pink brown or red as long as its only a small amount when u wipe can be ib, and it can occur any day from 5-12dpo! my ib was at 9dpo and got implant dup at 10dpo, she also said its a good sign if u are temping that either the day before, day of, day after or two days after if u get either a dip that stands out or a rise that stands out FXFXFX !! But remember everybodies body is different and all are normal, hoping for bfp this week for u xxxxxx

back after work girls sorry its A quick one i havent forgotten the rest of u xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls, still neg hpt early this morning. Last night I was really lightheaded and dizzy with a headache. Threw up after dinner. Went to bed and this morning still am lightheaded but that's it. I did stay home from work today so just resting now. Have some weird cramping I've had on and off since last weekend so idk. Didn't see anymore spotting so still just the one time yesterday.

 

[jen435]

Amy after my spot it took amost four days before light bfp. Fxd for u. Rest up this weekend

 

[mommylov]

I'm thinking its the crinone that's messing with me. I feel out

 

[jen435]

Jess im so sorry its so rough with ur daughters atm.. I know teens are secretive and seek affection and attention at that age. Maybe if its a boy u can get her to invite him over to meet?? Idk even how id handle that though... Id rather know the kids my dd is friends with. As for ur other one it sounds so rough u really think pitocin did brain damage?? That makes me fear now bc i was on tylenol pm morpine thru iv liquid tylenol at hosp thru iv percet benadryl a anesthesia to be put under and god only knows what else. I havent took dha this pregnancy either or real prenatal vitamins :/ im taking two flintstone complete vits. Now im a little concerned. Ur poor daughter. I wish i knew how to correct and help the situation. I really hope things get better for u with them

 

[jen435]

Aww amy ill stay positive for u then til at least af. Something has to give btw jan and feb. If its not now ull concieve a valentines baby what a sweet story that would be and since its mid jan ull i believe have a baby for ur anniversary in october before halloween! Positive vibes ur way. Ur still in atm though

 

[mommylov]

I was actually due with my first baby the day before or day of valentines day. Just not in a good place right now emotionally, sorry girls.

 

[jen435]

im so sory i know these dates are hard and everyone deals with it differently. I pray this ur cycle but i didnt mean to bring up that heartache. Im very sorry im here for u and really really wish nothing more then ur bfp a healthy happy nine month pregnancy and for u and dh tohave ur miracle.

 

[mommylov]

Oh no need to be sorry hun. It's just me that's having a hard time with all this. Just feel like I've had a broken heart ever since last July when this all started.

 

[jen435]

i know all i want is for ur broken heart to be healed. Though even being pg doesnt fully heal the loss of our angels or fears of being pg being able to ttc and fall pg eventually shows a glimps of hope. Though i still feel is hard to have in this whole process. I still envy women that take pg for granted and the ones that can actually enjoy it as opose to us trying to make the weekly milestone prayin it doesnt end. Amy im so glad u are fertile u found a good doctor have ur meds and have ur support from dh ull be amazing and ur lil angel wants u to be an earth mommy so know ur being watched over sweety. love ya

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jen, I meant to say that the pitocin gave my daughter the brain damage because of the complications that can happen while taking it and giving birth. Pitocin ( a synthetic form of oxytocin) causes extra strong contractions. The doctors never bothering to tell us there could be any complications. They just told me I needed it and I trusted they were doing good. But they totally abused the medicine and gave me up to maximum dosages during my 25 hours of labor. I read it can cause umbilical cord complications and has even caused some women's uterus to burst and they die. The strong contractions are what can give you complications, especially if they are giving your maximum dosages. If they induce you, make sure they give the lowest dosage possible.

 

[aaronswoman79]

You're not out yet amy. When is af due? You are 11 or 12dpo right? Just give it a couple more days. I have my fx for you.