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[jen435]

I mean you say "you dont need me anymore" in June 2012 then called me back to work at end of June and came back to work for him a week later. and then call me in march 2013 and say "I dont need you anymore for wednesdays" thats the day he hired me for.... What am i suppose to think???

 

[jen435]

That is exactly what im going to say at the hearing. idk what else to think but i felt i was laid off bc I never had a full work day and the one day I finally did I had 2 pts cancel and he was making comments around me like someone has to pay for me to be there and he needed more work production from me so charge the no shows a fee. I dont make the schedule and I respected when the schedule fell apart but punching out early. The front desk was responsible to tell me my schedule and to schedule patients. Nothing to do with me. Plus the other hygienist had the same thing happen to her (no shows and short work days due to schedule falling apart) we both just dealt with it.

 

[mommylov]

I dont understand how he runs his office like that. I def would mention all of this. I go to my dentist's office and I think of you every time I see a hygenist. They all look so happy to be there and this office has a few dentists so they have quite a few people working there. They have had babies, one just went on maternity leave. I dont think they will be like this guy you worked for.I have faith that somthing better is out there for you.

 

[jen435]

Thank you amy! I really thought I was working for a great dentist also. But I think him being young (35), single, and parties the new staff young pretty girl at the office really got him wrapped around her finger. Sadly I think he may find himself in trouble one day but then again who knows. I know that for NYE they where at the club together at the casino and he got arrested for public fight and the year before that he was arrest in vegas. He has two boys is divorced but his ex comes by all the time with the kids. Thats all personal stuff and I know alot from just listening from around the office since he talked to the newer girls alot (he had ALOT of staff turn over the 9monthes i was there due to mostly ppl leaving due to him being slow at work for hours) Sometimes I wonder if he was trying to weed out his staff that way or if he is really that slow. I was only there one day a week but i know hygienist on thurs sometimes only had 2-3hr shifts herself.

 

[mommylov]

And he's a dentist? No offense but I would never want that guy working on my teeth!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jen! Praying it works out in your favor.

 

[jen435]

Thanks ladies! Yes Amy but its his personal life. I have temped for very nice family oriented dentists before that actually care for their staff. The problem is their staff never leave so they dont have any openings

 

[mommylov]

Praying hard for you hun that a great opportunity comes to you!

+opk just now.... This is it!!!

 

[jen435]

Amy wooohooo!! bd again tonight!! omg im sooo excited for u!! Lh surge is happening those eggs will be traveling and ur hubbys swimmers shall fertilize those eggs stay happy relaxed and let ur body do its magic! Praying extra for u tonight that this is it!!

 

[lilesMom]

hey guys,
jen that guy sounds like unprofessional ass , hope he gets his karma biting him in the ass soon and u get ur Ue xxxxxxxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxxxxx

 

[jen435]

Laura id be thrilled with back pay from ue and a pt job offer atm. I want to work but knowing btw 44-59 days ill go into labor and be out a month kills it

how is everyone?

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls! Happy hump day

So happy about my +opk last night. DH was going to go play basketball and I was on my way to get a massage and on the way there I called dh. I told him "I had a 'funny' feeling". He said he was going to wait for me to come back from my massage to do my OPK. So I came home and sure enough... got my . I looked at him and said "Sorry, no bball" he said "Thats ok!!!" with a big smile on his face. lol That was cd13 yesteryday so meaning I probably am ovulating today right at cd14 which is great! Last month I didnt get my +opk until cd15 at night so two days earlier this time! It seems like things are lining up for this month but Im trying so hard not to get my hopes up but I cant help it.

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

I hope soo!!!!

 

[jen435]

Amy im sooo excited for u So glad ur hubby is so patient and amazing taking u seriously Hope u find comfort and can relax now! Happy bding the next few days!

So my cellphone is acting up just the texting it seems i keep getting a million texts from a random number 202 & 205 says blocked insufficient funds idk if im not receiving texts maybe or what. Hubby wanted new phone service now i know why. Once i get a job we need a pc new prepaid phone service and gotta look for a car eventually. But im glad hubby understands we have to wait. Today im going out for early dinner with a friend from hs and have to return car stuff to babys r us. Im sad aboit that bc i was excited about the brica mirror w light n sound for car with baby but i learned in baby class that when in accident even though its crash tested and says doesnt break hospitals ens up picking the unbreakable mirror out of the babys face was also told no extras for carseat if it didnt come with carseat dont use it! Carseats are made out of unflammable material and anything added changes dinamics.... So im gonna listen. The police station warned me about using carseat protectors under the carseat also i need this but gonna return it bc my babys safety comes before saving my seat from being cut up. I even got what i thought was a good one. All well. Already returned the window sunshades too bc even though crashtested they cause injury. They taught us to use the hood on the carseat in car to keep sun out of their face. Im gonna get two waffle blankets and nipple cream for breastfeeding with returns.

Laura ur classes are coming up too arent they??? Anxious to hear about urs! The police station by my house is so helpful!

 

[aaronswoman79]

yay for + opk Amy!! So you can have your Christmas baby, or babies shall I say!

 

[lilesMom]

jen il be keeping my fx for u on job search xxx
i would love to be working too if i could work some where that didnt make me sick, makes more sense money wise and feels more normal to me but ive got used to it now.
i am looking forward to goin back later in a way but may change my mind about wanting to when bub comes, but wil have to anyway
fx for u babe for good fast outcome on job and ue, did u say u can try temp places?
might be ok for now ?

amy that is so great , all systems go enjoy bd
soon u will be like me , not able to cos of bump and back hee hee, (not complaining by the way), happy bd hon. thats cool its on cd 14 and double the chance

hi and hugs to all. xxxxxxxx
im good today, my back hasnt been this good in ages, im so happy with it
lovely sunny day here too so got some time in garden
i love living in country when its sunny

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi ladies. I can't believe its Wednesday and another week is going by! Yesterday my boobs started getting sore again, and I noticed that I was leaking Colostrum, I couldn't believe it. This brought tears to my eyes. It made everything I am going through feel so real and made me feel a little more hopeful!

 

[lilesMom]

jen , i didnt even think of that, bout stuff being flammable but i suppose bubs clothes and stuff would be too though and blankets wouldnt they?
good call on the 'unbreakable' mirror, il be having my bub in front seat beside me cos i dont have rear doors and would break my back gettin bub in back.
studies in sweden reckon its safer anyway so long as no airbag and rearward facing, so i wont need the mirror its good that u can get some stuff u need instead though
my first class is tomor but i dont think it will be amazing cos its just a hosp run one and i think it will entirely focus on birth and bf , but il know more tomor eve

 

[mommylov]

So exciting for you girls! Cant believe you girls are coming to the end already!

Laura, I would love to live where you do! We live kind of in a country setting. MUCH different from California. We live close enough to main cities (like 5 miles) but DH and I wanted to get away from all that which is why we moved out here and I love it!

Jess, yay for leaking!!! hehhehe Hope youre doing well!