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[jen435]

Bethany so glad ull be seeing high risk doctor and yes it means more scans and those places arr great! Yay for prenatal yoga and private scan for gender reveal sooo exciting!!

Amy im so sorry ur feeling so off. I hope ur okay thyroid can def make u tired though. I hope u get anwsers soon.

Jess & angel how are u today?

Laura prayed for u and ur mom last night. Hope ur both doing ok today.

 

[jen435]

It stopped raining but still gloomy lookin out. Its 1230 almost and im still in bed. Nuts i am going to make a to do list now. Hmm eye brows waxed grocery shop kobe for walk check mail stop at bank also buy a hat. Okay now to find motivation to actually get up. Im so so lazy these days. Plus i have to eat before i leave. My friend and i had plans for lunch but she is def ignoring my messages so i know we arent meeting but wish she would just be honest and tell me she doesnt want to. All well hope everyone is doing okay!

 

[mommylov]

Just feel like its one thing after another. I HATE being down or being that person that pees in everyone cherrios so to speak lol. It just seems like I cant catch a break. Yes Ihave gotten pregnant twice but the first didnt work out and the second caused problems and I havent been able to get pregnant since. Next month will mark one year since my husband and I have started this journey and Im in the same position I was a year ago... not pregnant, not children. You girls have been so sweet and have given me such breat advice and support but its hard to see everyone move on sometimes and be the last one standing with nothing to show for it. Seeing you all doing well still gives me some hope though!

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys, just back from being up with my dad and callin to my mom.
they r keeping her till thurs anyway, they arent happy with her heart still,
they r puttin her on blood thinners and in a months time r gonna stop and restart her heart under general to get a normal rhythym ( i cant spell today ), going again.
she wil be fine im sure but its a bags seeing her down now.
when i called to my dad first to bring him food and say hi, he was crying.
he has depression and goes on tablets sometimes, he is going back on um cos of all this, he says he cant stop thinkin of her dying. poor dad
im drained cos doc said not to eat today to get rid of bug, im gonna try have a nap now cos im tired and bump is sore, last thing i want is to cause munchkin problems on top of it all

i have caught up but ive forgotten already most of what i wanted to say , silly me
so for now just hi and hugs to all xxxxxxxx
il post properly when im more normal thanks for well wishes xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thats gotta be awful seein gyour parents like that Thats the last thing we would ever want to see is them hurt. I truely hope that they are able to get your mom's heartbeating beating normally. Im glad that they have a plan of attack for her. I also hope that you are able to get rid of the bug that you have as well. Im sure bub doesnt want his mommy feeling bad

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura, so sorry for your family going through this. Good thing the docs are on top of everything. So sad for your dad though. It must be so hard for him to see his wife of so many years in the hospital. I am glad your parents have so many children to support them through this difficult time. If I am correct, did you say your doc said not to eat today to get rid of the bug? Is that ok to do? It sounds really hard.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, I wish I had the words to make you feel better, but I know getting your bfp would be the medicine you need for your aching heart. I hope to God you get your bfp soon. I can't even say I know what you are going through, because I feel it would be insensitive for me because I don't know and even if I did we are all affected differently from different situations. I think what Bethany said is right on though. She took 9 months to get pregnant again and for whatever reason that was when her body was ready. She didn't suffer from any infertility, it just took her longer the second time around. I hope your ttc journey is almost over and you get your bfp as soon as possible hon.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Bethany, I think I am going to start taking zyrtec, it is suppose to be safe during pregnancy I believe. I am going to double check though. But all I have been taking is Benadryl and I am scared to take anything else. My asthma is much better today since dh cleaned the whole room. I hope your ms starts easing up soon hon.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jen hon, if your friend is ignoring you she is not worth your thoughts. Real friends don't make plans and then flake out for no reason. Who knows, hopefully she has a good excuse. How are you today hon. How are you and lo doing??

Angel, hope all is well with you. I am sure you are having fun looking for your little mans baby things. I have a question for you, I know nothing about peg perego brand. Do you know about it? I see it is suppose to be a good brand but why? Is is built better?

 

[lilesMom]

thanks girls xx
ive had a sleep so i feel better, my tummy feels worse but i think its cos im hungry and sick now, its best way to get rid of it though. i rang my doc and asked if it was what i should do jess and she said yeah its safe so long as i keep drinking lots
i dont feel hungry anymore anyway just crappy
i was sooo jealous of OHs dinner
i wanna make my dad diabetic scones but im gonna wait till i can eat tomor , not to torture myself hee hee
my mom is very good with being sick or sore, she is takin it great .
my dad is nearly worse in a way, i hate seeing him like this.
all going well she should be home end of the week anyway, im glad im not working now so i can be there for them both lots dad will be better after few days of tablets and with my mom back
he is doing the jobs around the house and garden she has been at him to do for months she will be happy when she comes home

amy so sorry ur feeling down honey, big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxx
im feeling so hopefull for u and ur right ovary
it has had a rest now for few months and should be on tip top form to gve u ur bfp xxxxx
i second jess in that i wish i could offer concrete help, so sorry ur suffering xxxxx hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

jess hope u can take zyrtec xxxxxxxxxxx u deserve a bit of relief, i know allergies r a total pain xxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Storked]

Amy, when do they normally test the thyroid? It can fluctuate throughout the month right? My siblings are so low on energy but thyroid tests always come back as normal so caffeine addiction it is! But really I always wonder if it is missing something, you know?
No words to say for the sadness. I remember it well. Sometimes it helped to not think of babies at all though it is hard when that is what you want more than anything. Do what is best for you honey. Do you have any trips coming up?

Jen, getting me all excited for the fancy pants doctor
Btw, your friend sounds like an avoidant jackass. Shame on her for ignoring a pregnant lady! And of course you are tired- you are in the final stretch! Hope you find the energy to get the things that you want done

Laura, oh you poor mom and dad! Give them hugs for me. Just hate seeing parents sad.

Jessica, let me know how the Zyrtec works out for you! Claritin is also safe I believe, I just can't take it because it quit working for me way back when it was RX only. Mommy needs to breathe!

Angel, hi honey!

Horsey, I want an update. But if you don't see this it is ok...I will stalk you on here

Zantac did the trick yesterday. Only felt nauseous twice and never puked. It was great.
Now time for lounging about watching The Mentalist!

 

[jen435]

Amy i know the feeling all to well and couldnt imagine what ur feeling with specialists and all the scans. Im praying for u and know that we love u. Ur bfp is what u need along with ultrasound to make it real with a beautiful babies n heartbeats. Its hard to picture i know but i am longing for u to have it so badly. Im sorry i truely dont feel like i have right words to say but know im here for u. I hope they figure out ur thyroid it runs in my family and my doctor said that blood tests are tricky to pick it up since hormones fluctuate thru month. i pray for your happiness and really want the best for u amy please feel better.

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[jen435]

Laura im so sad for ur dad its not easy watching the one u love suffer. I pray her heart goes back to normal and she is ok. This must be so hard on u even with alot of siblings i hope there is some good news for her soon. Also hope ur feeling better laura. What bug did u have? Hope ur ok cant imagine a day without food esp in third trimester. Oh ate around u that makes it harder. How are u n ur mom today?

 

[jen435]

Angel i saw the logan theme in their catalog! How cute!! how are u and bubs? Any names for him yet? Hubby is starting to second guess zoey he likes layla now and few others crazy. Ill post pics once i get batterys from my mil for camera.

Bethany so glad meds are working! enjoy feeling normal acid reflux isnt fun at all.

Jess glad dh cleaned it helped u! How did zrytec work? How are u n bubs today?

 

[jen435]

I shouldnt hold my breath anymore friend bailed yest now other friend just bailed on me today always excuses til u find pics of what they did all day instead on fb. So tired of basing my schedule around ppl that cancel. Tom i turn 29 im getting old dh cant get me a gift i told him its ok im gettin a dd soon best gift he ever could give me. Guessing my parents will bail on me next im so lonely guess i just need to get over it n grow up.

So anyway havent mentioned it on here but last two now three she isnt really moving at all. Told ob they didnt seem concerned. I tried all diff things to get her moving. I know my doctor doesnt want a scan done now but thought another fetal nonstress test woulda been appropriate. Maybe she is sleeping n growing alot. Im tryin to stay positive. I miss my high risk doctor but he stopped seein me after learnin baby was good.

 

[mommylov]

Good Morning Ladies

Bethany, Dr got back to me and said that I didnt need to have any further testing done. i asked about a repeat thyroid test or FSH test or anything like that but she doesnt seem to think its an issue. In december, they did a mass panel of bloodwork on me so they tested for just about everything under the sun. The only thing that came of it was the MTHFR everything else checked out fine. She did ask me about the lump I have and asked if it had gotten worse or was painful to which I said no. So unless I get a fever or something, Im thinking she thinks it just a bug Im fighting. Still -opk's as of now so just waiting for that + so that we can move forward with the IUI.

Laura, hope you are feeling better! How is your mom doing?

Jess, hope you are feeling better as well!

Hi and hugs to you all!

 

[jen435]

Amy i hope ur doctors right. Hope u start to feel better. I am starting to se why u feel ull ovulate late this month. Its not a bad thing if its a few days different. I really want this to some how be it for u

 

[mommylov]

Wow we all posted at the same time! Thank you ladies for all your kind words! Angel, I took my temp thi smornign on time and all but didnt update my charts until I got to work this morning. Been a bit of a dragging morening.

Jen, Im so sorry about your friends bailing on you. It kind of sucks feeling alone. I feel the same way being in a new state with no friends. I actually posted something I saw on FB to my page that really spoke to me. It said "do not chase people. Be you and do your own thing and work hard. The right people who beling in your life will come to you and stay". I know its a lot easier said than done but I have faith thats right. Hope you have a wonderful bday with your fam and the people that really matter!

Bethany, so glad that the Zantac worked for you!!!

 

[Storked]

Angel, our hotel room had a western toilet I did use a restroom at a mall that was a squatter. It said "American Standard" on it! But the squatting wasn't bad. The scary part was the fact that 1) you had to plan TP ahead of time- there was a vending machine for it. I kid you not. I regret not taking a picture and 2) no soap anywhere unless I missed a machine. But it was cool, I had hand wipes!
I had opted out of NT scan so it was my own fault that I didn't get an ultrasound. But yes, the HB is amazing

No Jen, your friends need to grow up!
As for reduced movement, some friends of mine had that happen when their babies were soon to come so it could be that labor may happen for you soon

Amy, boo on a bug!