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[mommylov]

Thanks girls!

Laura, Im so glad to hear that Simon is doing better!

Lisa, My RE seems to think it will do us good so I guess we'll just trust him.

Angel, thanks hun. I too cant believe we have gotten to this point. It breaks my heart.

Hi and hugs to everyone!

 

[aaronswoman79]

I have missed so much, so busy lately! Taking care of 3 girls is not easy!!

First off to all the new ladies, Jen, Dee Dee so sorry for what both of u ladies are going through. Hope both of u are blessed with your rainbow babies as soon as possible.

So busy here, holding my almost 20 lb baby in one arm typing with other hand. Sofie is getting so big. She is sitting up unnasisted now. She loves solids but I had to stop temporarily because her digestive system is not ready yet, severe constipation even with pears. Remember her adjusted age is not even 5 months. Next week I will attempt to start her on solids again but no rice cereal, it constipates her so badly. I will post some pics asap. She is just about the size Natalie was at 1 year old!! Im sure her growth will slow down soon though. She is growing out of her clothes so quickly. They grow up so fast.

 

[mommylov]

Hi Jess!!!!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, thinking about you hon.

Laura, wonderful news about Simon's eeg! Great for you and prince milky! Give him a kiss for me.

Jen, you must be so busy with Zoey crawling all over the place plus the house needs to be super clean when baby is crawling around. Wish I could see a pic of your princess.

Angel, hope you and Pierce are well. Did you ever talk to his ped about how to help him to enjoy tummy timd more? Can you believe Sophie still doesn't really enjoy tummy time. She will stay on her tummy for a while and she can lift her chest up but she still gives up pretty quickly. On the upside she is sitting up early considering she is not even 5 months adjusted. Us mommies worry so much, don't we.

Lisa, I had some of those aches and pains you are having. I agree with Laura, if you don't already have one, a mattress topper will probably help. As for family drama, me and dh know all about it. My dh was disowned by his whole entire family about 6 years ago and my brothers wife has never liked the family, so she stays away. The lady is crazy, even her husband (my brother) acknowledges she has severe personality issues. The result of that is that we can't see my only nephew as much as we wish we could. Also, my older brother is an extremely toxic person, so we stay away from him also. He has gone as far as being rude to his own nieces (my children). He is mad at the world because he is 40 and not married and no children but that is because no woman will put up with his horrible arrogant character. I hate drama and try to stay clear from it. If life could only be simpler and we could all just get along. On a happier note, only a few more weeks and you will be in you 3rd trimester. Yay!!

Bethany, hope you and princess Lorelei are doing lovely. I hope your depression is starting to ease up. and to you and your sweet lo!!

Natasha, hope you are doing good and that you pregnancy is going nice and healthy.

Take care ladies!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thinking about you Leslie!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

I can only imagine how busy you are Jess! You must be looking forward to Christmas Day! I've read so much on rice causing constipation, I plan to ask the Dr next week if there are alternatives. I would prefer to start him w/ oatmeal (the Aveeno lotions I use for his dry skin are oat based, so by that reasoning why wouldn't oatmeal be a safe choice?). Kellymom website suggested skip the cereal and start w/ something sweeter (sweet potatoes) since breastmilk is sweet. So much to consider!! I haven't asked about tummy time because we haven't been in for his 4 month appt yet. He finally has his head up. I've been doing as Laura suggested and work with him on my chest.

Laura ~ Hurray for Simon's meds working! How is he adjusting to his cast...or did they take it off already?

Amy ~ When will they do the lap?

Question: Is a wedding at 4pm a night wedding? It isn't until Feb, but I wanted to order a black dress, but was unsure if 4p constitutes a night wedding. It's at the yacht club, but surely will be indoors b/c it's cold in Feb

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, good point about the oatmeal. I also use Aveeno for Sophie. I use Aveeno excema cream for babies. Not sure if it has oatmeal. I started out with Mustela cream, but it did not work out, the creams smell too strong and give her a rash but the shampoo works good. But for the price Aveeno is much cheaper and keeps her skin nice and smooth. What shampoo do you use for Pierce's head/hair? Has he lost any hair? I know some babies don't lose their hair.

On a side note ladies, dh is doing much better. He has been more attentive and has made a conscious effort to show me he loves me, but.... I have a strong feeling he might have Aspergers. He even told me himself a couple of years ago that he thought he might have it. He can't look at people in the eyes, cannot make friends on his own, he has to make himself show emotions otherwise he is like a robot. He has been like this since he had been a small child. EVERYONE has always noticed so many of these things that are off about him and it has been going on his whole life. He is textbook for Aspergers so now he needs to find a specialist to get to the bottom of all of this. I really hope this is not what he has because if is, people make living with someone with Aspergers look hopeless. But on a positive note, he really is trying and things have been much better.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Pierce has thinned out a lot (his hair, not his belly). He has a big melon and barely peach fuzz to cover it now I use Burt's Bees fragrance free wash and Aveeno Baby fragrance free lotions. I tried Aveeno light scent wash, but it dried him out. The Dr said fragrance is the culprit for the dry skin, who knew! Makes sense though.

Daryl Hannah and Dan Aykroyd have Aspergers...more and more adults are being diagnosed. I'm glad your DH is making strides to improve. FX'd it isn't Aspergers xoxo

 

[xoxo4angel]

Friday the 13th! 2 shopping weekends left before Christmas

 

[jen435]

Hey ladies! This must be short as its reall late. But wanted to say im going to dh office tom so ill try to steal pc n post pic n post proper. I read and amy i have so much sadness for ur situation. It breaks my heart. But i know u will be a mom u will♡♥ keep ur head up. If u get ivf my advice is to bd before that way u never know if it was ivf or bd that workee. My husbands cousin and a good friend of mine did that and said they dont regret it. One got pregnant right away. Other it took two tries. Hang in there sweety. U are the strongest person i know. ♡

Jess so glad dh is getting help and recognizing how he is but sorry for his asbergers i hope things continue to look up. As for cereal i recommend multigrain helps zoey poo regularly. Also oatmeal is her favorite!! I never gave her rice its not necessary really. Shes getting so big!! cant wait to see pics!

 

[jen435]

Angel love ur count down! Oatmeals a great first food as is sweet potatoes. Miss zoey loves butternut squash too. Maybe peirce would too? How big is he now?

 

[mommylov]

Hi Ladies,

Just wanted to send a quick hello to each and every one of you and thank you for your kind words. I just met with my Re this morning and long story short, they scheduled me for a laparoscopy and hysteroscopy next fri at 3:30. Im still in shock and am so sad about being at this point so I appologize for not reading and properly responding to each of you. Love you girls loads and always want nothing but the best for each one of you.

 

[Lisa85]

Jess, a psychologist once told my OH he was a high functions Aspergers. Not quick sure what that means exactly but he does have trouble with new people and often takes a long time to warm up to people. That could also partly be his dutch upbringing though. He is very warm and friendly with his close friends and very loving and caring with me but if he doesn't know you he can be quite cold and even rude and rarely smiles around anyone other than me.
Over the 3 and half years we have been together he has improved so much and really makes an effort to try and get along with people he doesn't know. I think they can definitely improve if they want to.
Im not sure if he is actually aspergers as it was never an official diagnosis. Someone just told him he might be when he was seeing a psych about depression before i knew him.

Angel, i would consider 4pm a night wedding... most of the function will happen at night time so i think night!
Did my xmas shopping today... for some reason my OH thought it would be a good idea to go to the shopping centre on a saturday but we found a parking spot and got pretty much everything done.

Amy, wishing you all the best for Friday and hope it shows something that can help.

Jen, looking forward to pics of Zoey!!

to everyone! have a good weekend!!

I have a 1920's themed xmas party tonight for my OH work. Im going to be exhausted by the end of the day. Since i couldn't really find any appropriate 1920's outfits for a pregnant lady I'm wear a black maxi dress with a shall thing and doing my hair very 1920's (i hope) with a jewelled headband.
Time to go get ready!!

 

[lilesMom]

Amy hopung for some good news for u xx

Angel I agree with Lisa seems like nt to me ;-)

Hi to all

 

[jen435]

And i lied bc i nvr got on his pc i promise i WILL post asap!

As for now zoey is awake again at 120am :/

 

[jen435]

Angel most wedding start at 1/2/3/4ish so id say evening wedding. Its the latest of them making it a night one!

 

[jen435]

Lisa sounds pretty! Hope u had fun

 

[lilesMom]

Hi to all.
Xx

 

[jen435]

Hi laura! How are u and simon? Im looking out my window at about 8" of white snow! Hello winter is a week away still :/ i love the snow but not the mess from it or cold temps.

Bethany how are u and that beautiful little girl?

Jess hi! How are u and oh? Also how are the girls?

Amy again im so sorry. So so glad ur re is helping u but i wish u where pregnant already ;/ maybe this cycle it will be the miracle xxx it will happen i honestly pray for u every night

 

[jen435]

Is everyone ready for christmas? Ten days away. I have nothing for my mom mil or husband and im stumped :/ well mil i know a knife set and bath stuff. Its just finding a sale i can afford. Other two no idea.

How is everyone? I hung a toy in zoeys crib and she plays with it when she wakes up. Helps prepare myself that i need to get up soon to get her. Its 1020 and i pumped didnt realize she would wake again. Hope she accepts the bottle. Hows pierce? Any luck with bottle? Zoey has O and P erupting so shes been clingy. I wish my phone posted pics. Its so upsetting it doesnt. How are all the fur babies?? Kobes ready for christmas. He knows santa has gifts for him and treats i slept about 7 hrs and feel sleep deprived. Idk why i should feel energized. Angel are u finding it hard to lose weight nursing? Im still at my same weight after i had her and cant lose a pound