ttc after a d&c

[Storked]

And I missed you too

 

[mommylov]

Awww thanks Bethany!!! Love you too!!!!

I have a good feeling about September. If it doesn't happen for me, I know someone if not everyone is going to have good news here one way or another!

 

[jen435]

Amy hey! So glad you had a great weekend may i ask what that website is you use? I lost the link on my cell. Talk away thats what this thread is for i love you ladies! Sounds like a good af should mean a good strong lining will form. Glad u and dh are ready to try again. Your nor to far behind me either bfps together hopefully this cycle! Bethany first also horsepants and everyone ttc atm. Laura to follow after she is nursed to health.

Im finally in the mood to bd! Scared to annoying dh though. Its important to bd weds-sun everynight and im afraid if i try to dtd tonight he will cut me off when it counts most. He did that to me last month grr. We have a date night thurs so we should def dtd then i just know once positive opk it may be too late. All well.

to all

 

[mommylov]

I too love reading what you guys write, makes my day and I missed you guys too!!

 

[mommylov]

Hiya Jen! The site it cyclespage.com I love it!!! Awww hope you get some good bd in and dh doesn't cut you off! I hate the drs in dublin now because of what they are doing to Laura I want you well!!!! I hope we all get our bfp... That would be so exciting and would love for us all to get our bumps close together!

 

[jen435]

Thank you amy! Bethany sounds like a fun halloween

 

[Storked]

I love you ladies! Our rainbows are around the corner
On the way home I was obsessing over whether or not I will get pregnant this cycle and realized that I need to chill out again. If Idont get pregnant that is because my healthy baby isn't ready yet I'd rather wait a while for my healthy baby then get pregnant immediately and lose another. We need the rainbows

Jen, Halloween fun is inspired by my sister who loves Halloween and goes all out with food and movies. I want to do that hope you get in some good BD as well!

Amy, keep up with the positivity! We all need it right? Are you doing anything for this cycle?

 

[jen435]

Agree with bethany! You both are being so positive we did bd it was fun and softcups make it much better amy definately check em out! Also bethany bding with them in doesnt seem logical but they so easy to use after hope they work.

My pup goes to the groomer tom and dh is having friends n his bro over weds for football then date nite thurs Very happy to know this week should be relaxing for us. It doesnt happen much and i really am excited it fell into placr. After seven yrs together im still trying to find ways to keep.the peace. Any of you lovely ladies ever feel that way?

Bethany you just inspired me i think im gonna make some fun halloween cookies rice krispy treats and a few other fun halloween things. Rent or maybe netflix will have a fun halloween movie or cartoon for.kids (maybe casper??). On the day we have day trick or treating having my niece and nephews over!!! Yay im excited now i hope they will come over now! Any movie ideas?

i feel we will have some bfps this cycle also and couldnt agree with you more bethany id rather wait for healthy baby then lose again. Hugs our rainbows are coming

 

[Storked]

Jen, while I haven't tried it I felt around in there with a softcup in and I do think sex would be possible glad you are liking them too!
Sounds like a good week. And there are always times like that Jen, where you are just keeping the peace. I'd be lying if I said otherwise men are imperfect and have imperfect moments I am afraid and we just try to avoid them as best we can. And I think sometimes they do the same for us
Movie ideas for kiddos for Halloween...Halloweentown, Hocus Pocus, and Tower of Terror if I can think of others I will let you know! You are getting me all excited!
I feel confident that this will be a lucky cycle and yes, we will do what we can to pass the time until those much desired rainbows are here

 

[lilesMom]

jen when i did concieve it was in a month when i thought i was out cos i had gone to scotland at d best time so i think relaxed is def the way to go xxxx best o luck sweetie xxxxxx

bethany if u were here in ireland all d time u wouldnt ha ha it isnt the worst though
i used to go all out for halloween before when i moved out of home first, i used to always dress up and go out and do up d house, i love fancy dress it makes a nt out such fun
i got my liver scan date, 2 days time on my bday happy bday to me ha ha
im much better today thank god

i just saw a rainbow in my kitchen sink i was asking for help and sign last few days cos i wasnt very upbeat it doesnt get better than that
my OH left a pint glass with beer in it over nt on the table so i put it in the sink and filled with water to soak so it wont be smelly, i came back and the sun was shining through it making a lovely rainbow, im takin it as my sign anyway

we dont have bank hol at the mo so thats why i didnt realise it was there, hope ye had a great one

amy welcome back sweetie, xxx i missed u x
my af been funny too hon but its more r less back to normal now,
i so hope u get ur bfp chicken, i think my little rainbow was for us all xxxx
i got a date for my gynae scan too yest and all should be kinda done i hope by end of sep so i may be able to go for it soon i hope thats barring problems so fx we all be close in bfps xxx
and in no way has ur chatter scared anyone off, we love ur chatter, ur d best xxxxxx
so glad u found us xxxx

bethany u r so right, would hate for any of us to go through all that again, much better to wait a while for healthy pregnancy and baba xxxx

jen i agree with u and bethany, its hard work to keep a realtionship ticking along a lot of the time but it is worth it, we had not a blip for first 2 yrs but the longer u r together the more u have to remember not to take each other for granted we still together over 10 yrs on so must be doin something right ha ha xxxx

 

[mommylov]

I love you ladies! Our rainbows are around the corner
On the way home I was obsessing over whether or not I will get pregnant this cycle and realized that I need to chill out again. If Idont get pregnant that is because my healthy baby isn't ready yet I'd rather wait a while for my healthy baby then get pregnant immediately and lose another. We need the rainbows

Jen, Halloween fun is inspired by my sister who loves Halloween and goes all out with food and movies. I want to do that hope you get in some good BD as well!

Amy, keep up with the positivity! We all need it right? Are you doing anything for this cycle?

jen when i did concieve it was in a month when i thought i was out cos i had gone to scotland at d best time so i think relaxed is def the way to go xxxx best o luck sweetie xxxxxx

bethany if u were here in ireland all d time u wouldnt ha ha it isnt the worst though
i used to go all out for halloween before when i moved out of home first, i used to always dress up and go out and do up d house, i love fancy dress it makes a nt out such fun
i got my liver scan date, 2 days time on my bday happy bday to me ha ha
im much better today thank god

i just saw a rainbow in my kitchen sink i was asking for help and sign last few days cos i wasnt very upbeat it doesnt get better than that
my OH left a pint glass with beer in it over nt on the table so i put it in the sink and filled with water to soak so it wont be smelly, i came back and the sun was shining through it making a lovely rainbow, im takin it as my sign anyway

we dont have bank hol at the mo so thats why i didnt realise it was there, hope ye had a great one

amy welcome back sweetie, xxx i missed u x
my af been funny too hon but its more r less back to normal now,
i so hope u get ur bfp chicken, i think my little rainbow was for us all xxxx
i got a date for my gynae scan too yest and all should be kinda done i hope by end of sep so i may be able to go for it soon i hope thats barring problems so fx we all be close in bfps xxx
and in no way has ur chatter scared anyone off, we love ur chatter, ur d best xxxxxx
so glad u found us xxxx

bethany u r so right, would hate for any of us to go through all that again, much better to wait a while for healthy pregnancy and baba xxxx

jen i agree with u and bethany, its hard work to keep a realtionship ticking along a lot of the time but it is worth it, we had not a blip for first 2 yrs but the longer u r together the more u have to remember not to take each other for granted we still together over 10 yrs on so must be doin something right ha ha xxxx

Hi Bethany, Not doing anything different this cycle other than I didnt use a tampon to make sure everything is nice and clear and I have been REALLY good about taking my prenatals this time before we conceived and dh has been good about taking his vitamins too. Other than that, just waiting for af to go away and then its bd time! heheh

Laura, thanks and missed you too!!!! xoxoxo Im glad to hear you are feeling better. I am going to put pos energy out for you to have a great birthday present when you go in for your testing and scan. I think this is the month... you will get your all clear by the end of this month! Has work let up a little? Hopefully you are able to rest and get ready for bd time.. it will happen! I think the rainow was a great sign too. How clear is that sign, huh? I dont know if its me getting my hopes up or what but I really think this is going to be a great month, I can just feel it!

Lots of love to all you gals!!!

 

[jen435]

Amy sooo excited!! Okay so a secret the directions dont tell u on yes/no... Cd 5 the insert part of stick will be clear (white) as u approach your fertile period a light pink line appears a few days before your yes! Bd everyday up to yes when u start seeing the lil pink line! I knew i loved this test kit the most! I got my bfp this way in feb and the kit is working in the same way yay!!! hopefully u dont need to use urs though. But i know it works okay ill read and then type back. Just got very excited when i saw that!

 

[Storked]

Laura I am so glad that it will be soon! Stinky that you have to have your scan on your birthday though. Very glad you are feeling better
Rainbows! What a wonderful sign

Amy, take those prenatals and look forward to ovulation! New cycle, new chance for that rainbow!

Jen, are you saying that you are approaching fertile time?

 

[jen435]

Laura so glad your being seen so soon. Praying for a birthday miracle so ull be ttc by then. The rainbow is amazing sign you and bethany saw one so good.things are coming

Amy great way to stay relaxed this cycle ttc im very excited for you!
Bethany your on ur tww cant wait for your bfp news!

Yes im in my fertile period per first response. I gave up on charting everything to stressful. Hopefully dh will be in th mood next 6 days to be safe. Any ideas on how to do that?

Thank you for movie ideas im sooo excited now! My pup is watching pound puppys with me. Love how he watches tv

Hows your kitty? Did u find a friendly hotel to bring him with you?

 

[Storked]

Oh Jen I am not so helpful on how to keep your DH in the mood- I just nag at mine until he gives in the stinker actually told me that he hoped that he knocked me up this cycle because he was "tired". He is showing his age lol

So cute that your dog watches the tv! My cat will watch it sometimes but only in a suspicious way. It is sometimes followed by him pawing at the set hehe. I did find a hotel where he was accepted! He whines though- just hates to be in his pet carrier.

(cheers you on) catch that eggy!

 

[horseypants]

hi everyone, im having a bit of a hard time keeping up with everyone's news but i love you all! i had some good times this weekend and hope you all did too. YES! catch the eggy!!!!! xoxoxo i'm going to be trying that about 10 days from now xo

 

[Storked]

Horseypants, where ya been woman?!
10 days? I can't wait!

 

[horseypants]

i've been feeling tired and a little blah with ttc, but i guess im just trying not to get all impatient since i usually have a week longer to wait between af and o than your average female. this weekend i had to see my xboyfriend - he came to get his stuff from eric's and my house (longish story of course) but the boys got along really well - it was pretty cute, and i survived. and now his stuff is ALL GONE THANK GOODNESS! i saw a baseball game... oh! how's the thailand prep coming? they have these really cute shoes in thailand......... a friend of mine was there for a a vacation and came back wearing them. totally adorable and comfy. i might have to post a picture and beg you to send me a pair someday.

what did everyone else do for recreation over the weekend?

i watched the Godfather, a disk of true blood (we get them on netflix, one at a time) and little house on the prairie. i love little house on the prairie!

 

[Storked]

I understand feeling tired with TTC- it is quite the emotional roller coaster.
So is the long story a fun story? Hehe!
I love baseball. Well, watching it. I don't keep up with sports
My husband is about to get his proposal to sign and then we are off to Houston for his training and as soon as he has that then we will live the expatriate life! Will gladly find you the shoes when I am there

My weekend was very uneventful. Just ate out with DH and watched Battlestar Galactica oh and BD of course!

 

[horseypants]

heh. it is an embarrassing story - for him at least ;p
anyway, it's all gravy now

heh. since you asked for a story though.... i had a sex dream about him(the x) between the first and last day he was there. but not even exactly a sex dream. it was a REGRET dream! no steamy parts, just waking up in bed next to my x thinking OH NO!!!!!!! what have i done and how will i tell OH?! and then I was terrified about what cycle day i was on... i was like OH My GOSH. I WILL HAVE TO GO ON THE JERRY SPRINGER SHOW TO FIND OUT IF IT IS MY X's BABY. lol so apparently i still am terrified of getting pregnant SO easily ACCIDENTALLY lol even though im trying mightily to conceive with no luck recently. too funny! remember the fear that gripped us when we thought there was an iota of a chance we were pregnant, like the day after the condom wasnt all the way on or some business??! ahhhh those were the "innocent" days. lol