ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Sounds like a great weekend to me! Yay! So glad your back horseypants yay for bding also youll be ovulating in no time! This is a lucky month for us i can just feel it! Also second what bethany asked about the story??

Bethany so glad you found a way to bring your baby . You must be so excited for the move. I hear its beautiful there! Youll definately have to post pics!

 

[Storked]

I have pics from when my husband lived in Thailand but we may not be there until after our first is born
But it'll be great and will give my family an excuse to fly to Asia

 

[horseypants]

oh i have to say for the record about the oh no moments i suffered thinking there was an iota of a chance i was pregnant in the past......... i was making the mens wear a condom and also pull out. ok tmi sort of but it is integral to the story of how naive the fear of getting prego was!

 

[Storked]

Horseypants, I used to think that just pulling out was enough. It really is a wonder that my exhusband never got me pregnant. Highly grateful that he didn't though because he is an ass

 

[Storked]

I wish getting pregnant wasn't so dang...ugh. I hate reading that you only have a 20% chance. Crappy odds (mutters darkly)

 

[jen435]

If funny never thought about getting pregnant in past. Dh and i as bf/gf dtd when we got engaged and well 4yrs later no protection just pulled out for a yr (sry tmi) no baby til we started trying 14monthes later baby... But lost it... Four cycles now its so crazy to think back to that.

Oh no sounds like neither you wanted to have baby with exs. Oh goodness jerry springer thats a nutty show. Glad it was just a dream. Dh says i talk in my sleep alot but i hardly recall dreams. Only a few.

Yay!!! Great way to start a new begining for your child bethany! Baby and then move

 

[jen435]

Ugh i hate that 20% chance also

 

[Storked]

It is crazy thinking back isn't it? You will get pregnant again with a healthy rainbow Jen- and soon I can feel it!
Yeah that 20% thing is a bummer. I try not to dwell on it but it both comforts and depresses though not at the same time lol

 

[lilesMom]

welcome back horseypants we missed u xxx
yeah it is funny, the first few times i had sex i used condoms and got the morn after pill even though had no accident, i was that paranoid haha

just had a really lovely reiki session, its only aftter it i realise how much i was hanging onto lile, ive just started to let her go in a happy way xxx

its 20% chance each month but the more months u do it the higher % of couples will be pregnant. i had all the numbers but i forget now, but its something like 95% within a yr and 60% within 3 months, i like them odds better im not sure of exact nums at d mo, but after 3 months a high % anyway

 

[Storked]

Aren't we silly?
Ah what a breakthrough Laura! I am not sure if I have let go of my angel yet. I think I just cling to my cat.
Ah I like you saying that the odds increase. Makes me feel better.

 

[mommylov]

Hi Horseypants! Glad you were able to get rid of the ex for good

I used to be sooo paranoid when dh and I were dating. I made him wear a hat AND I was on BC. I also didnt let him stay in me when he was done.. I would almost be like "Ok get out!" and kick him off lol I guess its good though seeing as how I did get pg on the first try. Just hope it happens again but this time we have a healthy lo.

So tired today and my head is just not functioning right. I dont know if its because of af or what but I feel like just being lazy. My in-laws are coming out next month and Im hoping to be pg by then. They are here from 10/4-10/9 so seeing as how Im on on period right now, I think that will be around the time that I will find out that I am pg.. maybe a week or so sooner. BIG FX. I know we keep saying it but I really cant help but feel that this month IS the month for us all!

 

[jen435]

My dh just made me so upset. Preseed is expensive and he just wasted so much of it. Not only that but he wanted to pull out tonight. Argh i want to scream i says he wants a baby now yet he still dont get how it works and doesnt want to understand. I tell him how i feel and he gets turned away. He said we can try next week for one. I told him im fertile til sat or sun (expected ovulation) but it could be earlier or later. Im so upset whats wrong with him. Im spending $ to ttc to relax my mind and he doesnt care thinks he can just pick a day to dtd and magically ill be pregnant. Men just dont get it. :'( venting done sorry ladies

 

[mommylov]

Awww Jen, why did he want to pull out if he wants a baby?? I'm so sorry Hun. I know yiu have tried to explain to him that this needs to happen now in order to have a baby but if you guys were already bd then why not finish? Did he say why?

 

[Storked]

Be lazy Amy and enjoy it and I think you are right about this month!

Jen honey I am so sorry! I don't know what is with men sometimes- maybe he will jump on the bandwagon by tomorrow I am not religious but I do pray and I will keep you on my prayers.
And not to be weird but of he pulls out of there and spends on you instead...is there any way to scoop it all up in a softcup and insert maybe? Am I weird for suggesting that bit of trickery? :-/

 

[aaronswoman79]

My dh just made me so upset. Preseed is expensive and he just wasted so much of it. Not only that but he wanted to pull out tonight. Argh i want to scream i says he wants a baby now yet he still dont get how it works and doesnt want to understand. I tell him how i feel and he gets turned away. He said we can try next week for one. I told him im fertile til sat or sun (expected ovulation) but it could be earlier or later. Im so upset whats wrong with him. Im spending $ to ttc to relax my mind and he doesnt care thinks he can just pick a day to dtd and magically ill be pregnant. Men just dont get it. :'( venting done sorry ladies

could it be he wanted to pull out because of past habits. The same happened with my husband even when we were trying he would instinctively pull out, maybe he just got confused?? Anyways, this seems to be a frequent problem with men, they aren't as informed as us when it comes to ovulation and things like that. It feels like we have to drill it into their heads. I'm sure he knows how important this is for you, could their be some anxieties, maybe he is actually worried because of what happened with the miscarriage. Maybe he is more affected by all that has happened than he is letting on? I know how you feel though. Sometimes it feels like our husbands are from other planets. Sorry to be rambling, had a little too much red wine tonight. lol

 

[Storked]

Very wise Aaronswoman. How are you doing lady?

 

[mommylov]

Aaoronswoman, well said. Big hugs Jen!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Be lazy Amy and enjoy it and I think you are right about this month!

Jen honey I am so sorry! I don't know what is with men sometimes- maybe he will jump on the bandwagon by tomorrow I am not religious but I do pray and I will keep you on my prayers.
And not to be weird but of he pulls out of there and spends on you instead...is there any way to scoop it all up in a softcup and insert maybe? Am I weird for suggesting that bit of trickery? :-/

Just read up on the soft cup, have used it myself but didn't know about the other uses, lol. Wow, I am learning a lot from all of you. I wouldn't say it was trickery though, because if he wants to have another child, and using the softcup works, I guess it could be worth the try. I can't wait to try and conceive. No AF yet for me, and its been almost 5 weeks. I'm scared it will never come.

Bethany, is your husband young like you? You look very young by your picture. You got many fertile years ahead of you. Good luck this month!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Very wise Aaronswoman. How are you doing lady?

Just had my second glass of wine since the miscarriage, just a reminder that I am no longer pregnant, but it did relax me. How are you hun?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Aaoronswoman, well said. Big hugs Jen!!

Starting to see I am not the only who at times doesn't understand men! They seem to lack tactfulness at times. Like when I found out I was pregnant, and I was talking about my fears about the pregnancy and the baby my husband goes on to say, "Well, there are a million things that can go wrong with the human body." Yeah, that made me feel much better. lol.