ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Aaoronswoman, well said. Big hugs Jen!!

Starting to see I am not the only who at times doesn't understand men! They seem to lack tactfulness at times. Like when I found out I was pregnant, and I was talking about my fears about the pregnancy and the baby my husband goes on to say, "Well, there are a million things that can go wrong with the human body." Yeah, that made me feel much better. lol.

I know right?!? Sometimes I want to smack him but instead I roll my eyes and walk away to which he says "whaaat??? What did I say". Sigh, gotta love them lol

 

[Storked]

Enjoy the wine. Especially if it relaxed you
I must admit Aaronswoman that I didn't know all the softcup uses either in regards to sex with it in but my husband is keen to try if I get AF hehe. Oh and as for him, he is in his early 30s- he is 6 years older than me I hope we have many fertile years ahead but menopause tends to strike early in my family so I am afraid a bit. Try not to be though!
And I am doing pretty well thanks
AF will come, I promise! That first can take a while but it will come. You both dread it and look forward to the new opportunity to try all in one yes?

 

[mommylov]

If it makes you feel better, I just got mine lady Thursday and that was the 6 week mark. Hang fight, the witch is on her way

 

[aaronswoman79]

Be lazy Amy and enjoy it and I think you are right about this month!

Jen honey I am so sorry! I don't know what is with men sometimes- maybe he will jump on the bandwagon by tomorrow I am not religious but I do pray and I will keep you on my prayers.
And not to be weird but of he pulls out of there and spends on you instead...is there any way to scoop it all up in a softcup and insert maybe? Am I weird for suggesting that bit of trickery? :-/

Will be praying for you Bethany. By the way, I noticed I have never put out my real name on here. Its Jessica. Like I said, I USE to be very private. lol.

 

[aaronswoman79]

If it makes you feel better, I just got mine lady Thursday and that was the 6 week mark. Hang fight, the witch is on her way

Thanks huh, you just made my day. I will pray that this month or next month, or as soon as possible you will have that bfp!!

 

[lilesMom]

hi jessica i just had a lovely catch up ye r the best tonic ever xxxx

jen that is so bloody frustrating for u , but i reckon the girls r right its prob combo of habit and being a bit freaked without being able to say it fx he comes to his senses, and i like bethanys idea way too much tmi but i used to make myself come afterwards cos i heard it helps the swimmers on their way sorry way too much tmi but if it works im glad i passed on the info

i feel way better today stil a bit zonked but in a weird way im happier than i have been for weeks, im just gonna let what happens happen and stop resisting it, being peed off wont make me feel better just worse. thanks for listening to my whinging and propping me up xxxxxxxxxx love ye xxxxx

 

[Storked]

Hi Jessica! I have a niece and a BFF named Jessica. I will be praying that you get AF soon. So, I know nothing of wine but was yours good? Back when I was married to my ex I enjoyed a sweet white wine I want to see it made. I want to visit a brewery someday too.

 

[lilesMom]

oh and i got my first af at 5.5 weeks, they say 4-6 weeks is the average but i havent heard anyone say they got it at 4, its always seems to take bit longer, hope its soon hon. like bethany said we both dread it and welcome it. its a new chance but it does feel very final too. be prepared for it if u can, i got abit upset again , we r here for u always xxxx

 

[Storked]

Glad you are feeling better Laura and can't wait until you have answers- hopefully soon dear
As for the O after- me too.

 

[lilesMom]

my oH makes wine and beer all the time but it gives me the worst headache in the world i havent drank anything since march now anyway, im a pioneer

 

[lilesMom]

i sometimes hide to do it cos i dont wanna insult OH

 

[Storked]

You are a pioneer
And you hide for O? Haha I hide everything from DH! I encourage him to get out of bed and insert softcup and things like that all the time. He'd think I was crazy if he knew. He twitches when I prop lol

 

[Storked]

Is it dumb that I am scared to workout hard in the TWW?

 

[mommylov]

Hi Jessica! I think af will come for you soon. If it doesn't come by 6 weeks, I would call the dr and see what they say. I felt the same way as you and was so frustrated that she wasn't coming and was about to call the dr but the she came . Worse case, I think the dr can give you something to get it going but again, I think it will happen naturally and soon for you.

Laura, so glad you're feeling better!!! I hear us on not wanting to get mad. You are so good at staying positive and I know all of us get mad when we hear the drs f*** up something for you but it's going up get better hun. So aside from going to the dr, any plans for your birthday?

Jen, hope you had a good rest of your night last night

Bethany, you're right. Not that we want to be sneaky but sometimes you just have to do things without dh knowing because they won't understand. All they need to know us that we are working towards achieving the same goal they want. I'm lucky in that I actually am able to tell my dh everything. He questions things A LOT... I swear we are going to have children that say "but why" all the time! In the end they will thank us and appreciate what we did

 

[Storked]

Amy LOL but why?

 

[mommylov]

Not at all Bethany! I think you can still workout just as you do minus all the strenuous ab workouts. Just be careful and take care of yourself. Lots of women workout thought thier whole pregnancy hard. I remember I took kickboxing one time and there was a very pg woman in there and she was doing almost everything we were. The instructor had to tell her to do a couple of things different but she pretty much did everything we did and went on to have a healthy baby. You'll know your limits.

 

[mommylov]

Lol I'm telling you, he can be so exhausting lol. I tell him all the time that he is in the wrong profession and should've been some sort of professional debater or lawyer!

 

[lilesMom]

Is it dumb that I am scared to workout hard in the TWW?

sorry my sis and niece called
i was the same i kept up walking , stretching and little bits pilates but i cut out anything too strenous just in case

 

[lilesMom]

we r goin to galway for 2 nts , nice and relaxy so keep thinking they r gonna find some miracle thing on the U/s tomoro that doesnt affect ttc and they will say go ahead and ttc , its fine ha ha really soon yeah i hide some things to make me seem less crazy and to try and keep some of the life in BDing when ttc

 

[mommylov]

we r goin to galway for 2 nts , nice and relaxy so keep thinking they r gonna find some miracle thing on the U/s tomoro that doesnt affect ttc and they will say go ahead and ttc , its fine ha ha really soon yeah i hide some things to make me seem less crazy and to try and keep some of the life in BDing when ttc

It can happen!! Im praying for you hun. Sounds like that will be a great relaxy time!! I hope you enjoy it!

So, my bff told me that her daughter was sick before they came up over this last weekend but told me she was better... she wasnt and now Im sick grrr. I really didnt want to be taking meds this week and wanted to get ready for bd this weekend and next week but now Im scared. Last time, dh was sick and we got pg but obv everything didnt turn out ok. I know that it may be in my head and that him having a cold may not have had anything to do with it but none the less it is in my mind. Hope that all goes well with trying this weekend and next week fx. Good news is he had his follow up with his dr and no surgery is needed for his knees... yay!!