ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

i walked on my t/mil for an hour and half this morn, i got hynotherapy book yest and finished it while walking today its cool . im gonna try go down that route if i can

im so glad u got good news today amy, i cant wait for ur bfp xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Awww sorry he is grump and yes it's not your fault. Yay for bump!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

i know he is only grumpy cos of pip, i hate when he is grumpy if im in a good mood, it brings me down xxxx
i think pip will wander back himself anyway, he has got out before and has come back.
how u feeling now amy, u excited? xxxx u ok? xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

angel my thanks is gone, so thanks xxxxxxxx
hurray for ur great scan, u must be so happy
hope Dh is being a good patient xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

aw funny and sweet angel xxx glad ye make a good if slightly hindered team at d mo
yeah i know how u feel hon, cautious optimism is the way forward
it took me ages to feel more secure and i still fret sometimes thinkin it may not happen, like when i lost some mucus earlier in the week but it just happens some people and isnt always bad, hard not to expect the worst when it already happened to us, xxxx
but good things do happen to good people too so fx for us all xxxxxxxxxxxxx

il be wearing my new clothes and should be semi presentable tomor for my nieces baby christening if i remember il get Oh to take a bump pic and put it up
was it jen asked me for one and i forgot? soz xxxx

 

[jen435]

Thank you ladies! I love you all sooo much!!! I appreciate all the love advice and support!! Lets see how the next two weeks play out and if things get better.

Laura oh no I hope you find your fur babies!!! Poor little ones are lost so sad! I am very glad to hear how OH had been so sweet to you!! Breakfast in bed oh how I long for that!! I never had that before bacon w/ pancakes or french toast yum... Also dinner how lovely!! So glad you enjoyed his time off with him!

Amy I am super excited for you!! Sounds like you are soo ready!! Lets go OPKS!!! woohoo!!

Tash sounds good!! I cant wait til 14dpo so you can try to test if you'd like!!

Bethany How are you? I hope all is well sweety!!

Horsey Hi!! Hope your doing okay!

ilovehim i am deeply sorry to learn of your loss. I truly believe you can be more fertile after a d&c so if you feel ready go right ahead. Wishing you a healthy sticky bean quickly. I wish there was a way for all pregnancys to be saved as well. Its very sad. We are here for you during your journey. As for your sister i am so sorry to hear her story and unfortunately its seems very common where parents unemployed and fathers not helping have healthy babies and hardly ever experience how special the pregnancy actually is. One thing you must remember is that your baby will be loved cared for and you will be able to provide for your child. You will have a healthy baby. All of us deserve to be mothers and we will Its just a long hard road sometimes but for us our babys are appreciated more and we feel they are truly a miracle. So please try to be easy on yourself let yourself heal and speak from your heart on here. We will be here for you and help you! I hope this post finds you doing okay.

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

hi jen how ru feeling now hon? r u more mobile? u think u will be ok to go to work?
hope ur feeling much better sweetie xxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

laura Aww. Cannot wait to see the pic of your bump! I do recall you talking about your concerns about losing your mucus plug...glad the Dr said it was alright, but be sure to take it easy!

I'm going to go on to bed (I know, it's only 8p, but I'm so sleepy!) I hope you have a nice time at your niece's christening tomorrow Laura!

Night ladies! xoxo

ahhhh sleepiness, i love sleepiness
have a nice sleep hon, im off to bed too xxx
im a bit wired this eve im not remotely sleepy
but its 1 pm here so i better if im to be able to function tomor xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

nt nt ladies chat soon xxxxxxxx

 

[jen435]

Yes yes Laura bump pic please?? I cant wait for your next scan!!! Gender Reveal woohoo!!! Your LO better not be shy!

Angel aww thats so cute thinking that dh is being a help after his surgery! What a trooper! He sounds like he really cares for you and bub!

Amy I cant stop thinking about how you will be trying again!! Im sooo sooo excited!!

Horsey, Bethany, Tash, Amy, ilovehim!!!
Sticky Vibes to Jess, Laura, Angel I think your LO's are doing just fine!

 

[mommylov]

Night angel!

Thanks Laura and Jen. I'm totally excited to poas and try this cycle! Just hoping i fall and its a healthy bub xoxo

 

[mommylov]

Night Laura!

Thanks Jen!! I hope I can join you girls along with the rest of us ttc!

 

[jen435]

Goodnight Angel! Enjoy your neices christening tomorrow!! Your baby is next

Laura I am getting around okay. Since I dont work til weds im going to be taking it easy as much as i can. I cant ask my husband for anything anymore. He just told me he is going to borrow 20,000 from his business for our mortgage payment til Nov 2013. Its a help but when I think about it now his business credit card will be in debit over -30,000! All well whatever his issue. I am not going to worry about it. Whatever makes him happy. As for work a 12 hr day at work idk honestly how ill feel by afternoon but what choice do I have. I work 7:30-7:30 with hour lunch break. Ill get home by 8pm. I just dont know how ill go 12:30-7:30pm without a drink, snack, or bathroom break. I think its my only concern. Four hours is usually my limit :/ So its my only concern.

 

[jen435]

Amy your baby will be as healthy as can be!! You wait and see Your in good hands!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Morning girls!!!!!!

Wellllll.... I dont want to jinx things, and if im wrong ill be more surprised than upset, but im positive im PG..I have this feeling.. It doesnt feel like the last few cycles, ill be very VERY surprised if im not pregnant.. I know people will say its *wishful thinking* or just being *optimistic* but the last few cycles in the back of my mind ive known i was out and expected AF, but this is different, i keep having dreams of seeing two pink lines in my cups of tea and stuff..

And then , ill give u a bit of background first.. The puppies sleep in our room in cage with the cage door open and a puppy training pad so if they need a wee they can get out of bed, use the pad and go back to bed, and the pad has been there for two days because their wees are only little so i use the same pad for two nights... Well i got up this morning and went to the bathroom to get a drink of water, came back to bed and i walked in the room and the smell of their pee made me sick, as in i was full on sick and heaving up everything i ate yesterday Chris looked at me and said i was overreacting and then istarted crying cos i was like, hello i was just sick :S I didnt want to turn round and say i thin im pregnant in case im not and then i feel daft.. But, the smell of their pee never bothers me, i mean it dont smell too nice but this morning i felt like i was drinking it and threw up all over the landing.

I think i will be 14dpo on my sisters birthday, 4th Jan.. So if i am PG i know what shes getting ofr her birthday, a stick ive peed on in a box LOL that wil get me out of buying her presents

Even if im not, the hoping is getting me through the TWW...

SORRY about the big long sprawl about me, ive still not caught up yet but going by the messages on here im guessing you dont have to have Surgery Ames??!?!?! BRILLIANT!! So CD7 so u can start trying again ASAP! SO glad things are okay!!

I cant remember seeing anyone elses updates, ive got a pre baby brain i think, but hey everyone love n miss u all, wil catch up when ive cleaned up and write another hefty long post hehe xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Well.. I just tried catching up and i have the concentration level of a fish right now .. So ill try... LOL

Laura so glad DH is being good to you, thats what they are there for

Jen, havent read back very far but from what i gather DH is being a bit of a terror at the moment? Im not sure what hes done, but i hope you two sort things out, and re finances does he not realise that finances are going to be worse when a baby comes? And i saw that one of the girls wrote that he will melt when he sees her? Is he a bit unaccepting of the baby or something? sorry, its just if i read back ill probably forget PRE BABY BRAIN here lol! Hope u two work things out or he stops being a terror

Bethany how are you? Horsey JesS?Amy as i said in previous post im glad things are looking up for u chick Hope youre all okay!

Ive forgotten someone im sure....AH Angelllllllll, how are u doing chick?! xxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Oh and ILOVEHIM, welcome to the forum chick, i can see u lurking down there

The girls here are great! You will get alot of comfort and advice from us on here, theyre fantastic girls, how you feeling todaY? xxxx