TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Loren]

So sorry tasha!!! xxxxxxxxx

was popn on to ask to add my bfp to the front page bt cn c its alredy up lol thanx megg xxxx

 

[debgreasby]

Congrats Loren

 

[Megg33k]

Yeah, I saw it elsewhere, Loren... Thought I should go ahead and add you! CONGRATS!

 

[dawny690]

Congrats pea and loren on your 's

So sorry on your loss Tasha babe xxxx

 

[Firedancer41]

Congrats Loren-it's good to see you!

 

[lynnb]

Congrats Loren

 

[tryforbaby2]

Congrats Loren!

 

[Loren]

thank u so much girls!!thanx 4 addn me chicky!!!bnb keeps me loggd in even if am not here so please dont think coz it says am online that i'm ignoring u lovely ladies!!!nice to see u all again!!! iyaaa lisa congratualtions huni didnt no u got ur bfp an i am so so sorry to the girls who have recently had a loss!!!xxxxxxx xxxxxx

 

[heather_dw]

So.. they kept me at the specialist for TWO HOURS today. They wanted to do the pelvic ultrasound RIGHT THEN, since they had the facilities in their office to do it. (plus, I wouldn't have to stick around the hospital until 1pm waiting for theirs...). The lady doing the U/S was nice and actually had a light touch, not the usual "jamming and poking" the hospital does. She said my uterus looked clear. No tissue or sac, but I did have fluid around my one ovary, but she said that probably wasn't a big deal, probably just because I'm bleeding.

After waiting for what seemed like forever, I got to the see the specialist. He says it's usually not an issue until you've had 3 M/C (which I knew). He also said the normal homosysteine and the high folic acid were perfectly NORMAL and that the gene mutations are sooooo not a big deal, because a lot of times, they don't cause any issues with people, and if my levels are the way they are, it means they aren't causing problems at this point. He says he didn't see anything to be concerned about from all my tests. He called my doctor and talked to her.

I went over to her office and they took blood to check my pregnancy hormone level again (since it was high last time they took it) and I got to talk to Dr. Bucy. She told me that Dr Gross (the specialist), told her that he doesn't think I have ANYTHING wrong with me. If I have 3 Miscarriages, he told me to come back and they'll bring Brian in and we'll do more extensive DNA testing. Insurance won't cover it until after 3 miscarriages, because you're not considered to have a problem until that point. He's concerned about my weight, but we all know I've been working on it, so Dr Bucy wasn't concerned either. I've lost 24 lbs since February. Slow, but it's something.

I have some mixed feelings about it, since they didn't find something for me to "fix" to prevent it again, but on the other hand, it's good that they found nothing obvious.

He told Dr. Bucy that he think I ovulated and that's why I'm bleeding. Weird. I guess this bleeding might be a period, but it's a damn long and heavy one and I don't think you can ovulate with pregnancy hormone in your blood, so maybe that means it's finally dropped down to 0 again.

Dunno!

 

[Megg33k]

You can ovulate with small amounts of HCG in the blood still.. and fluid around your ovary is usually indicative of recent ovulation. So, I'd say you did ovulate!

 

[heather_dw]

So... does that mean I should count this bleeding as a period and perhaps start a chart again? Craziness! I just... I just wish there was something I could DO to help myself next time. I don't want to go through a 3rd miscarriage. It only took 4 cycles from my ovarian surgery for me to get that BFP, so my doctor is not worried about me having the ability to GET pregnant...

 

[Megg33k]

I wish I had an answer, Heather! I feel the same... I don't want to go through a 3rd either... but I have zero answers! I so wish there was something I could say to make you feel better!

 

[heather_dw]

Part of me is very happy, because that specialist COULD have very well found something untreatable. I suppose that it's better to have him say "I don't think there's anything wrong with you" instead of "you have something unfixable/hard to fix"

OBGYN says to just "keep at it" and I guess that's all I can do. Someone in this thread said a while back that they don't worry because she'd done all she could do and worrying won't change the outcome for the better. I thought that was a GREAT way to think about things and I'm trying to use it to keep my bad worries in check.

 

[Megg33k]

That is a great attitude! I definitely wish you all the best... and we'll get through this together!

 

[BizyBee]

Looks like is arriving!



Congrats Loren!

Heather, love the PMA and totally agree.

 

[Megg33k]

Also, a congrats to lovehearts and debgreasby!

 

[debgreasby]

Congrats lovehearts!

See you have added me already Megg u eager beaver!

 

[Megg33k]

Congrats lovehearts!

See you have added me already Megg u eager beaver!

I can't help it! I'm very excited for you! I might have posted about you in my journal too! You completed the trifecta of my 2009 bump buddies who suffered losses when I did! It just leaves me to join you lot... and I'd have gladly taken a slot further back in line for you 3! Now, it shoves me up to the top of the list... at least, I suppose that's how this is supposed to work! LOL

 

[debgreasby]

Aww ur so lovely. Really hope your body starts playing the game soon!

 

[svetayasofiya]

Congrats to all the new BFP's!!!!

to all of you still having trouble.

I am such a lurker on this thread! I am here everyday, but I am currently awaiting my 1st af after the mc. Should be soon. Can't wait to get on the crazy ttc bandwagon again, and even looking forward to the dreaded 2ww.